He came on my face without asking?

Question

Is that disrespectful?

bondobilly · Accepted Answer

It is considered to be degrading by some, including myself. To me it means, all you are good for is a orgasm and not worthy enough to have (injest) my cum/seed. At least if i was to let you swallow you have done a good job. Now if a guy cums in you (even with a rubber) it means he likes you enoigh to knock you up. Personally, i want to really degrade a woman, ill screw her, blow my wad on her face, then make her suck her own juices of my dick, zip up my oants and leave, or screw her in her ass and blow my wad there.

jp612612 · Accepted Answer

If you didn't like it, I would talk to him about it. Sexuality is just kind of a weird thing and what people like and don't like varies wildly. I wouldn't hold it too much against him, but if you didn't like it (and it sounds like you didn't), then you need to talk to him because a successful sexual relationship almost always requires a ton of communication.

kaylaS91 · Accepted Answer

That's only disrespectful if the only respect he had for you lay in the fact that you were sucking him off.

So.. no. That's not disrespectful. At least now you're all the more aware that it's not a given that public courtesies will apply to sexual activities and it's up to you just as much as the guy to make sure to discuss what locations are okay or not okay for him to finish on/in.

Personontheinternet · Accepted Answer

He should've asked you how you felt about it before you two even engaged in sex. As for disrespect, it's up to you to determine whether it was disrespectful or not. Some people are turned on by the idea of a surprise, while some find surprise as a turn-off. Talk it out with your partner about what you like, communication is key.

KrisPW · Accepted Answer

Were you tied up or something? How could you not have stopped it otherwise. And if you were tied up, limits should have already been discussed, at least a little.

azzntittiz · Answer

haha got em.

Mistay36 · Answer

at least he didn't cum in your mouth! Everyone has boundaries with sex and those should always be talked about before you have sex

abc3643 · Answer

No and for two reasons. One, your face was near his dick. Two, part of the male orgasm response is something called the point of no return. Once the point of no return is reached, nothing is going to stop the guy from orgasming. It's like he's pulled the trigger on a gun and the bullet has yet to leave the barrel. There is nothing he can do about it.

Daisybuchananxoxo · Answer

That really depends on how long you've been with him. And did he know you don't want him to cum on your face. Just tell him next time that you don't want him to cum on your face but tell him where he can cum or where you want him to cum.

ummidk347 · Answer

I definitely wouldn't say disrespectful. Should he have done it? Well yes and no, yes because its possible he was trying to be spontanenous and no because both of you should set your boundaries. If neither of you discussed boundaries and you knew giving him oral was going to get him off or that was your goal entirely, then I would say you're both equally at fault for the result.