He wants me to swallow and I’m a bit nervous?

I want to make him happy but at the same time I’m not quite sure how it will be. I keep telling myself that I should at least do it once to see if it’s good or bad but I need help from you girls. What’s it like and should I try it?
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  • In no case do you swallow if you feel pressed by your guy to do it. If it is just to please him but you are not really enthusiastic about it, then it is a very bad idea to do it.

    There are other factors to consider before you even give it a try.

    1. How long do you know your guy/boyfriend?
    2. How many sexual partners did he have before you?
    3. has he been recently tested for STD/STI?
    4. Is he putting pressure onto you to do it?
    5. Have you faith in him or do you trust him sufficiently?
    6. Are you sufficiently informed about the risks?
    7. Would he swallow his own cum?

    All those question relate to your health. Even though there is a small risk to get a STD, the risk still exists and you don't want to risk you health for someone that pressures you to do something that is basically against nature.

    If you don't know your guy for a long time, absolutely refrain until you are sure that there is no risk to your health.

    My favorite point is #7. If a guy refuses to swallow his own cum, it is absolutely out of the question that I would do it. It is one thing to ask somebody to try something that one would refuse to do. It's like "do as I preach but not as I do". That is the view of a loser!

  • It’s not bad; but yeah some girls don’t like it.
    If you nervous make sure he doesn’t come when he’s in your mouth. That’s the bit I always had difficulty with.
    When he’s close just use your hand and have your mouth near or on the top, then you don’t have so much of a surprise.

    • its really good tips. well done!

Most Helpful Guys

  • You should definitely only swallow if you want to, and if it is your own decision, not something you have been pressured to do. Love does not require or unduly pressure you to swallow. Love will likely bring you to consider swallowing, and determine within yourself if that is something you can and are willing to do. If you can not swallow, it does not mean you love him less, it merely means it is something you are too uncomfortable to do. And it's a minority of women who swallow. Of course, there is nothing wrong with swallowing, and if you want to swallow, go ahead. And his desire to have you swallow is really more of a psychological thing, as the pleasure is the same if you swallow or not. There are also some good alternatives to swallowing, such as him telling you just before he comes, and you putting his dick between your lubricated tits and letting him finish thrusting and coming.

    • Yeah there’s no pressure I just know he’s talked about it months ago and I said no multiple times

    • Lia: It's good that there is no pressure. That's an indication of him caring about you.

  • If you are referring to swallowing semen, don't do it if you don't want to. If in your mind, you are telling yourself no, then don't do it. If not, go for it. You'll either like it or you won't. Taste can vary based on whatever he is eating.

    • I’m not really telling myself yes or no but I’m willing to give it a shot

    • Then go for it lol like I said, you will either like it or you won't. Then you will know for sure. If you don't, then simply don't do it again.

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  • I think it's gross, but that's just my opinion. He shouldn't force you to do anything you're not comfortable with though.

    • I feel like it would be gross but I feel like it’s worth a shot.

    • Unless he eats healthy it's not 😂

    • Haha 😂

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  • It's not hard if you see it as honoring the precious gift he gave you and the only proper place for it is inside you.

  • Sounds like another fake pink account to me. They are multiplying like rabbits. Sorry, you have to decide for yourself. Only a guy would ask this kind of shit.

    • Well girl I’m actually indecisive which is why I need to ask. This isn’t a topic I really want to ask someone that I know closely.

    • Oh please! You going to listen to a bunch of strangers on the internet when it is something you have to decide for yourself. The guys on here will be happy to tell you to suck it up. It is you who has to decide and not someone else for you.

  • It's pretty much no big deal.

    • Why not?

    • Oh, it's not much liquid, it doesn't taste all that bad.

  • It's entirely up to you if that's something you want to try. Don't be pressured into it if it's something you don't want to do. I was scared the first time I swallowed too, but didn't find it to be too bad. It has a bit of an aftertaste and the texture can be offputting for some girls. I wouldn't say I love the taste, but I'm not averse to it. Since guys seems to love it so much, I'm willing to do it.

  • I've been told that it tastes like a salty egg white and smells like mushrooms.
    Good luck.

  • You can always do it in a way that is kind of bypasses your mouth/tongue and just goes straight down. Use gravity to aid you, have a position to wear his organ is parallel to the ground and you are in an upright position and let him release while towards the back of your mouth/throat, or you can even further use gravity to help it bypass your mouth and to go straight to your throat by laying back and let him release pointing downward.

    Also, you can have a glass of whatever is your favorite to immediately drink immediately after... milk, soda, fruit juice, wine, beer, whiskey, coffee, tea... whatever and just take a good drink.

    Mentally, try to focus on how intimate it is. This is an intimate act, you are fully taking your lovers orgasm and taking all of him. This isn't some gross human waste, it is a totally natural substance that exists to be absorbed inside his lover's body, it exists to be inside you... it is natural. It is such a small amount too, just enough for a spoon. It is only present when your lover is in absolute ecstasy. You are taking him to heaven on earth and that is the only time he releases this intimate fluid.

    Enjoy the closeness and bonding of the moment.

  • Don't do anything you're not comfortable with.

    • You by the way are very cute and sexy looking!

    • Oh come on! It's a fake pic from a new troll.

    • Oh so now I’m a fake troll nice to know 😂

  • Don’t do something you aren’t ok with. And it can be a bit awkward, and depending on his diet it’s liable to be bitter or salty. If he’s a big fruit lover it may be sweet.

  • Well the stuff is gross, some people like it but others refer to it like downing expired milk

  • it won't hurt you and some girls do it effortlessly but yea kind of gross. You like thick salty loogies? I wouldn't care if a girlfriend wanted to swallow or spit he shouldn't make you do anything.

  • Just do it. Lots of girls like it and you won't know until you try.

  • Sure you should. Nothing to lose here

  • It's not going to bite you never know you may just like it !!!


  • I don’t mind it I just don’t want to do it every day of my life LOL

    • If you’re not ready though do not do

  • You should swallow him every time. It tells him that you really care for him and want to please him to the max. Hope you enjoy it as well.

    • Easy for you to say you’re a guy! I wanted girls with experience to help me out

  • Ya dont know until you try it.

  • Try it out, I'm pretty sure nothing bad can come of it and you don't have to do it again, but you may like it.. I really enjoy doing it, it feels intimate, can taste just fine and there's zero clean-up 🙂

  • Just try it, then you'll know if you like it

  • swallowing cum is like pretty common things for girls nowadays, so go for it and try it, i think you would love it if it happens well.

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