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Sexual Health HELP: Are guys into BDSM (sexual wise)?
Anonymous
I've been dating my boyfriend for two years now and how can I put it? I like being dominated in bed like really really dominated (hair pulling, choking, hitting). He's the complete opposite- he's very gentle. I really want to try BDSM but i am scared he's not into all of that and i am scared to ask him about it cuz its kind of awkward. Help?
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What Girls & Guys Said
1 25Suggest taking turns picking p*rn clips to watch together.
I think you know what to show when its your turn.
You can talk about if he finds -seeing- it hot. You can talk about if its something you two would actually want to do, and with what safeguards.
Are guys into it? Some are, some aren't. I always found it hot, but was kind of uncomfortable with that desire when young, and would have probably not brought it up (maybe the B part, lol).
If you think its awkward saying you want to be submissive, consider how awkward it is to tell someone you love ' by the way , i'd like to slap you around and then roughly use you while you try to get away, it would really make me hard and cum hard seeing you panicking and struggling'
watching p*rn together, is that something people actually do? That's just weird
Izz2102 yes that is actually something a lot of committed partners do
Let me repeat my answer. Some do. Some don't.
Some guys are, some aren't.
But any guy worth a damn, will do whatever it takes to get his girlfriend off. If you like that stuff, he will accommodate you (if he's any good) but even if he's not into it, that doesn't mean you have to be scared about asking.