not necessarily. the point is that guys (believe it or not) want to think it's special if you have sex with them. i know that is some irrational/emotional bullshit but that's what it is. so if you manage to have sex on the first date and still make him feel like that was really "special" and wouldn't have been that easy for other guys, then you're golden.
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HinkyXper 2
+1 y
It's never too soon. What will turn a guy off is a history of being easy, you flirting with other men, whether in front of him or not, you acting shady, etc. That feeling that you want to fuck a guy and he wants to fuck you? That's what made the people who made the people who made the people, know what I mean? You think your caveman uncle Bob and auntie Ursula counted the days until it was ok? Fuck no, there werent even calendars. If he has a problem, he's a fuck head. But be aware of a guy that's generally interested in you, and one who must wants a nut. Plenty of dickheads out there. Know his history. Knowledge, as they say, is POWER.
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morganloveXper 5
+1 y
Wouldn't want a relationship with a one night stand or a girl that fucks on a first date. If it's someone I've known for awhile and it changes from friendship to romance them immediate sex is great.
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Itsmeeeee77Xper 6
+1 y
Nagging. And fighting.
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dthomas89Xper 7
+1 y
The third date, is known as the sex date. That's the "guideline". However, there are occasions where first date sex can work
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andrermmXper 5
+1 y
What is it and girls and slut mentality? You're free to have sex. If a girl wants me in bed and I want her, let's do it. You guys really have to ease off this idea that sex is bad
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COMMODOREIIMaster
+1 y
3.6 seconds is too soon. 😛
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pizzalovershouseMaster
+1 y
Yes an usely less than really getting to know them which could be a month to 3 depending on the female
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TwalliMaster
+1 y
I decide the earliest I will have sex. If she's with me that long it's not too soon.
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alance99Guru
+1 y
It doesn't affect anything and if she is geniune with me i will reciprocate it 100 times to make her feel comfortable and special
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yourpsychosuburbanXper 4
+1 y
I mean I'd rather wait even if I wanna smash
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colinthenewfieXper 4
+1 y
If it's the right girl it doesn't matter
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ArunTXper 4
+1 y
Not sure. Because if you sleep with someone, he likes you. So does not affect
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zane1987Xper 2
+1 y
Some times yes because it makes some people think how many other people you have slept with right off the bat
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bklynbadboy1Guru
+1 y
No I don't think it does cause I have no set time limit did the pins on a connection on make with the person a could be the 1st date or could be in the 1st month it just depends
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Scoobydoo12Xper 2
+1 y
Not at all , we all have our own tastes on who we find attractive. Me personally I will Probably have sex with most women I find attractive. However, I won’t date them or get into relationships.
So it depends! , if the girl is my type (which is hard to come by) because most girls I really go crazy for won’t date me for what ever reason. That’s not to say I don’t date girls that I find are really hot. There just not my dream girlfriends if you get me
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JerreMaster
+1 y
No, it has no affect on her being a potential girlfriend.
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andy530Guru
+1 y
Not at all
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TellmeGuru
+1 y
No, not at all. I rather see it as a sign of trust and feeling at ease with each other.
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coolhandrooXper 6
+1 y
If I think its normal thing then I'm not into it but if we hit it off and are feeling it then i would like her that much more.
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5 53not necessarily. the point is that guys (believe it or not) want to think it's special if you have sex with them. i know that is some irrational/emotional bullshit but that's what it is. so if you manage to have sex on the first date and still make him feel like that was really "special" and wouldn't have been that easy for other guys, then you're golden.
It's never too soon. What will turn a guy off is a history of being easy, you flirting with other men, whether in front of him or not, you acting shady, etc. That feeling that you want to fuck a guy and he wants to fuck you? That's what made the people who made the people who made the people, know what I mean? You think your caveman uncle Bob and auntie Ursula counted the days until it was ok? Fuck no, there werent even calendars. If he has a problem, he's a fuck head. But be aware of a guy that's generally interested in you, and one who must wants a nut. Plenty of dickheads out there. Know his history. Knowledge, as they say, is POWER.
Wouldn't want a relationship with a one night stand or a girl that fucks on a first date. If it's someone I've known for awhile and it changes from friendship to romance them immediate sex is great.
Nagging. And fighting.
The third date, is known as the sex date. That's the "guideline". However, there are occasions where first date sex can work
What is it and girls and slut mentality? You're free to have sex. If a girl wants me in bed and I want her, let's do it. You guys really have to ease off this idea that sex is bad
3.6 seconds is too soon. 😛
Yes an usely less than really getting to know them which could be a month to 3 depending on the female
I decide the earliest I will have sex. If she's with me that long it's not too soon.
It doesn't affect anything and if she is geniune with me i will reciprocate it 100 times to make her feel comfortable and special
I mean I'd rather wait even if I wanna smash
If it's the right girl it doesn't matter
Not sure. Because if you sleep with someone, he likes you. So does not affect
Some times yes because it makes some people think how many other people you have slept with right off the bat
No I don't think it does cause I have no set time limit did the pins on a connection on make with the person a could be the 1st date or could be in the 1st month it just depends
Not at all , we all have our own tastes on who we find attractive. Me personally I will
Probably have sex with most women I find attractive. However, I won’t date them or get into relationships.
So it depends! , if the girl is my type (which is hard to come by) because most girls I really go crazy for won’t date me for what ever reason. That’s not to say I don’t date girls that I find are really hot. There just not my dream girlfriends if you get me
No, it has no affect on her being a potential girlfriend.
Not at all
No, not at all. I rather see it as a sign of trust and feeling at ease with each other.
If I think its normal thing then I'm not into it but if we hit it off and are feeling it then i would like her that much more.