How can I deal with getting caught by my parents?

My parents caught me sneaking around to have sex and now my sex life is ruined I think. I lie to them about where I’m going and they saw me there and knew I was having sex. Now I can’t lie to them about that anymore. How can I deal with the fact that my sex life might be ruined now because I wasn’t careful about not being caught? Keep in mind I’m over 18 and my parents still treat me like a child unfortunately and it’s affecting my relationships with guys.
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Superb Opinion

  • I mean you made the choice to do what you did. Why don’t you get married to someone? I’m sorry your parents treat you that way but it seems that you make poor decisions. It really does… there is so much more to life then sex. People who refuse to wait until marriage theow their sex lives away.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Your profile says you are 25-29 years old. You should have moved out of your parents' home many years ago. If you want to be independent. . . be independent, but don't complain about the consequences of the dependency which YOU have chosen.

    • And your profile says you are 69 when you were at that age life was extremely more affordable. Younger people aren’t moving out because they can’t afford it- it’s very simple and a quick google search of credible sources would provide you that information. But unfortunately you’ve been using your access to the internet to give over 15k opinions on sexuality topics. Nothing you said was helpful or productive.

Most Helpful Girls

  • That's how life is. Stay home with parents is economically convenient but they do try to control you. Maybe considering move out, get some friends and live together, so you can have more flexibility on how to manage your lifestyle

  • Don’t let them shame you for being sexually active. I know it’s it may be a bit uncomfortable for a while but you're grown and should feel comfortable in your skin.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Find somewhere else to live and have the freedoms u want

  • You are in you late 20's? Why are your parents controlling your life?

  • If you want to be independent and in charge of your own life, you have to get out on your own.

  • just do what you want anyway. wtf difference does it make. be respectful, but also you're apparently over 18 so do what you want

  • It sucks that you got caught in there not on board with you being in control of your sex life. But, I hate to say this, I think this is going to be one of those situations where their house their rules. Don't worry, you'll be out of there soon enough!

  • Move out of you live with them

  • You're an adult you don't have to listen to your parents

  • Just own it lol

  • It is time to move on if not their house their rules. But you are over 18 you can try telling them you have a date don't wait up goodnight and go if they ask tell them it is a date and you don't know when you will be home no more no less

  • Um, are you lying about your age?

  • When u day they caught u, u don’t mean in the act?

  • Its your life, you are adult, they have nothing to do with your life. your body your choice.

  • first you need to tell me how do you got caught? they saw you in that position or you just assumed that they show you?