How can I handle my boyfriend that's pressuring to cum in me?

He says we are a serious couple and I should let him go bare and finish inside now.
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  • If you don’t want that, tell him that you don’t. If he has a problem with it, then he needs a serious talk about the future.

  • well if that's not what you want, tell him what needs to happen untill you want that, so that he can know what to expect from the relationship with you.

  • You tell him that he needs to respect you boundaries.

  • Tell him that he's gonna have to start paying for birth control or put your foot down and remind him that you're not ready for a family.

    He sounds childish as hell and just wants to do it for a cheap thrill. If you give in to that pressure then you're basically ok with him doing that.

  • Don’t have sex if you don’t want it.

  • He wants to make you mommy.

  • That's his excuse for not wanting to wrap it. So here's my questions:
    1) Are you on birth control?
    2) Do you care if you get pregnant?
    3) If you did, would you have the child?
    4) If you have it, will you want to raise it with him, in other words, is he "the guy for you"?
    5) If "he's the guy for you", are you the girl for him and will he stick around and support?

    If you answer "NO" to any of them, tell him "no glove, no love". Don't like it? Fuck off.

  • Go on Youtube and find lots of examples of what its like raising a baby. Oh, and make sure he understands the concept of child support for 18 years.

  • Has he recently been tested for all STD'S shown you the all good results, and if he was a safety conscious type, he would want to see your test results too, if he blows this off, then no bare, back there, or anywhere. If he doesn't get it , he's probably to irresponsible to have sex with you, ditch the bitch

  • Once you explain how you feel about it let him know it is disrespectful for him to keep pushing the subject

  • don't give him sex again until he promises you not to pressure you anymore. if he breaks the promise... well its up to you but maybe reconsider dating this guy at that point

  • It's actually quite easy, you break up with him because he's obviously a control freak who doesn't care what you want. I would understand him bringing it up (cumming inside a girl is so much better than cumming outside of her), but it shouldn't get to the point of him pressuring you.

  • Make him eat out your cumfilled pussy and ass after youve been gangbanged.

  • you say no, until you're ready for kids

    and if he can't handle it, you break up

    what he's doing is a form of rape

  • Let him cum in your mouth

    • That counts

  • require a down deposit of $10,000 to pay for a baby

  • then do anal or oral if he wants to cum inside you

  • I expect my girlfriend to let me go raw and cum in them. Most girls let me with just meet ups.

  • He must give you written consent of being their for you and baby and still its your call to say no or yes and that just dont means elimony

  • Don't do it

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