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Sexual Health My boyfriend's dad clearly finds me attractive, he's made a few comments and he'll say flirtatious things. I guess it kind of flatters me because I think he's a nice looking man, he's got the same dark eyes as his sons, the same thick hair, except he's a little grey. But I'm 18 and he's 48!
My boyfriend has problems. He'll get angry, we'll argue and I'll get upset. When these outbursts also effect his mum and dad, his dad will give me a ride home. But last time we took a drive somewhere to talk about stuff.
We were having a nice time and he was cheering me up. He was telling me how his wife never wants to go out and do things together anymore, like they did when they were young. He said his sons cause trouble and he doesn't know why they've turned out like this.
He made multiple comments that day, he said I make him feel young, he really enjoys my company, he also asked me how old I was with my ex boyfriend (first boyfriend) I told him I was 16, and he went on to talk about how he never had no interest in girls when he was a teen. I said I didn't have interest in boys until I was about 16, and he said "not till the hormones started kicking in ay?"
he also made a joke about how he'll go home and tell his son that me and him had a lovely day out and that we went to the beach and I stripped down to just my underwear and romantically threw sand at him. He laughed and asked me what I think he'd say to that, I joked he'd probably punch him.
He likes being around me because he said my company is a lot nicer than being around the usual drama, and asked if I want to come down to the family farm when his wife goes camping with her friends
i know people will say "no it's a bad idea he'll try something with you", but I think he's got more respect than that, he seems pretty lonely and his family are all wrapped up in their own stuff, and I think he just enjoys actually spending time with someone.
But how can I stop finding him attractive?
How can I stop feeling attracted to my boyfriend's dad?
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Some of these replies make me sad. Sure I think he's good looking, but I think that about a lot of people. Doesn't mean I'd carelessly have sex with them. I don't want that. But do you guys genuinely think he has no interest in my personality, that he's just saying he likes my company and talking to me just because he thinks I'm attractive and young, not for me? It's nice to think he actually likes me as a person, because I like him as a friend and someone to talk to. It wouldn't go beyond that.
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18 15he wants to fuck you no doubt
sleep with him
if you are attracted him then why are you still with your boyfriend
I'd honestly break up with your boyfriend, you don't seem like you are in a happy relationship anyway. The further you stray from the Son, the further you stray from the Dad.
There's no need to stop finding him attractive. The best you can do is fuck your bf's dad...
Seriously, though, the best sex I've had in my life was with my (now ex) bf's dad. The guy knew how to please me in ways that his son couldn't and we had good chemistry (not only sexually). The problem was that I had to keep my relationship with his son or else I wouldn't be able to see his dad.
You can't stop finding him attractive. He either is or isn't and apparently to you, he is. Just don't let it progress to more than just talking or it could open up a whole can of worms that you don't want.
have you seen him naked and it turned you off yet?
He looks like he's in shape
so you'd want him?
In a parallel universe perhaps, but I know it could never happen because I care for my boyfriend, he's his dad, married, etc. Just couldn't happen. But I still enjoy his company, he's funny.
lol if I were you I'd tease him and see how he reacts.
Lol, i also had muscle pain in my back and he told me he is a "healer", he said his right hand is his "magic hand", and he pressed it against my back, didn't really get rid of the pain tho! 😂
lol that's his masturbating hand
Yuck, kind of makes me feel grossed out thinking about that, because although he's still attractive for his age, he's still older and you can tell he is. I told my mother about it and she said no matter what age a man is, they will still have fantasies about a girl they find attractive even if she's younger. She's probably right. Plus he must know his wife wouldn't like us hanging out because he asks me to see him when she's not around. Red flag, I don't want him getting any ideas (not that I think he would when it comes down to it)
are you a virgin?
No I've been with two people including my current boyfriend.
so what if he wants you?
I already said, I wouldn't
ok up to you.
Real life isn't like a porno I can't have any sexual relationship with his dad, it's wrong
have you even had a mental image of it yet?