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Sexual Health How can you be Christian and gay/lesbian/bi etc. at the same time?
Anonymous
So I've always looked at girls but it never hit me that I was attracted to them I thought I liked only boys. I met this gorgeous lesbian girl who basically tried to seduce me but I never let her know I liked her because I would have lost my Christian straight friends. So I'm in an extremely conservative Christian environment and I told my mom I was bisexual ( I could never tell my dad.) she told me if I ever came home with a girlfriend I couldn't live at home anymore. She loves me a lot and she cried a lot when she said it but it still hurt. I stopped looking at fashion mags (I've never watched or read anything about being gay). And it still doesn't help. I have a crush on a guy and I think he likes me. I day dream about guys. But When I see a beautiful butch girl I feel attracted to her. So I have a crush on a butch girl at my school. It's really hard. I haven't told anyone else😔. My mom asked me how i could be bi and Christian at the same time. It says clearly in the bible homosexuality is wrong. I said I don't know. I love God but I have a connection with girls that I can't deny help!
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8 22its the cross Christ chose for you to become stronger in faith. do not succumb to it. Christ will heal you one day. its up on His discretion though when that day will be... .
You can't, it's God or the girl you love.
That's hard 😒
And this is why religion is bullshit, as George Carlin would say.
Just say to your mother that you don't believe in god, but in his wife Asherah (well, one of the two gods mentioned in the bible - Yahweh). If that fails, just say you believe in the other god, Elohim
She would freak out. I believe in God and Iove him.
Which one? There are two gods in the bible
My demonimation, which is a pretty large mainline christian one, accepts homosexuals.
The bible says a lot of things are wrong - lending money at interest, wearing different fibers together, mixing beef and dairy, eating pork - that were rules in the old testament.
Jesus does not talk a whole lot about homosexuality, and by 'not a whole lot' i mean -not at all-.
Yeah I wish I could see if this is a phase or not and get it out of my system and explore it. But instead I have to go to Christian colleges have Christian friends and date guys the whole time. I'm a softie and I couldn't lie if I got into a deep relationship. It's kinda depressing
Have thought about maybe speaking with your Pastor or church leaDer about this maybe they can answer Your questions and give you some guidance
I don't want to. I know them very well and they like be and they would be hurt. Besides I know what they are going to say.
OK well it was just a thought.
Thank you tho 😊
Ur welcome. Hope you find the answers you need.