There is nothing wrong with masturbating if you're in a relationship, for either party! It's completely healthy and natural, and if you're being intimate together it's important you both know your own bodies. You only have reason to be concerned if masturbation becomes more important than sex between the both of you. Otherwise you should both still be masturbating, together and apart
perfectly said
Calm down life goes on. Move on to a new issue this is your second post on the matter. Pick your battles and thisnisnt one to pick.
Find a way to move towards the middle. You're involved in some sect of a mainstream religion that is radicalizing you. I'm not saying give up your faith but swim closer toward the updated living view of what your religion is or you will continue to be disappointed. Guess what? It isn't okay for men to ask a woman if she is clean before shaking hands with her meaning is she on her period. It isn't okay to require women to not speak on religious grounds. And it isn't okay to require men not to wank. The Catholics do this to priests but guess what we all have sexual desire and it has to come out somewhere. There is nothing wrong with wanking off. The only reason the people in your books wrote it was to coerce more women into sex. Wankings a sin, give it to me baby.
We have sex regularly so he doesn't need to masturbate
It doesn't work that way honey.
Literally?
Masturbating is not cheating so why would it be behind your back? People are allowed a release alone.
Why would you care if he's masturbating? What a bizarre thing to ask!!
"masturbating behind your back"
Uhh... less ejaculate probably cos he's spent and all... tho... you have a no masturbation policy in your relationship?
Harsh.
You Canadians always so nice. More like unreasonable inaccessible and begging to be lied to. No honey you get all of my holy cum.
@sjoes006 LOL , I've only been in Canada for 2 years , but still , I won't judge , it's their religion and all. I mean if the hubby don't want to play by her rules he shouldn't have gotten into the relationship in the first place. He went in fully knowing what she's like , what's each other's boundaries , he signed up for it I'll say.
Exactly Thanks
Wouldn't this be oxymoronic since you said "guy" and not husband after you claimed that masturbation goes against your religious beliefs. What religion?
Lol Islam
What's done in the dark will always come to light, takes time to tell
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Masturbating behind your back but what if he is thinking about you when he does it. Why is that a problem?
You can't have sex at least give him the chance to masturbate
Although it's against religion
I think that you have a perfect relationship but you just want something to worry about
If he cums on your ass *rim shot*
Turn around?
lol!
ahhhhhhhhh it got in my eye!
He just is... you worry about that? Smh
95% of guys masturbate, the other 5% lie about it. :-)
why do you ''need'' to know is the bigger issue here lol.. let him do whatever he wants in his spare time
No help? 😂 LOL
@hotstuffSRD it is ridiculous lol
Oh I see 😂😂😂
There is no way to tell. Guys have perfected the art of sneaking a fap ages ago..
Depends on how close behind my back he is 😂
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behind your back? wtf? Its no wonder he does it behind your back if thats a rule you have
We all do it.
Some lie about it
Is he alive and breathing? That is how you tell, everyone masturbates.
Some guys on GaG say they never masturbate, so i believe them, they seem serious about it. Your boy can also, maybe...
The signs is the way he talks when you question him about it.
It's the only way.
You can't find out
smell his junk. if you dont clean properly there is a distinct smell.
smell his hands as well, it will smell like dick if he's been masturbating.
it should be easy for you to know the scent of his dick
Behind your back? :D What is that even supposed to mean? Can he safely take shits without having to report to you?
^ this
There's two types of guys: guys who jerk it, and liars.
Did you ban masturbation in your relationships?
Yes Read the updare
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@asker learn some new moves but be prepared for a world of disappointment. Asking someone not to wank is like asking them not to breath.
Why do you care?
You basically can't unless its happening too often and has an impact in your sexual life.
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