How come guys cum so quick?

Just about every guy I been out with since high school cums in only few minutes, why? I am starting to not like sex since so fast. One guy cum in like under couple minutes.
How come guys cum so quick?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • They will be very turned on by the thought of sex with you. They will get more turned on as the two of you do a lot of sexual touching. He will be more turned on when he sees your naked body. He is so turned on that the moment he enters you he will shoot his load then! He should masturbate shortly before getting with you. You should have him eat you out before fucking, so you will cum that way and be ready for more. After shooting his load he will need a bit of a break till he is good to go again. Use that time for him to do all the touching that makes you feel good. Soon he will be able to get hard again and will last lobnger this time.

  • I get too excited. Sad 😔

Most Helpful Girls

  • I think its hot if he cums quickly as long as he can go another round or two right after. If he cums quick then maybe your puss is just that good. Its better he cum quick then not cum at all 🤷‍♀️

    • So I take forever to cum. I’ve been with women and not cum. They always blame themselves like there is something wrong with them. Fact is I did a lot of edging during masturbation from early on. Also I like to see a woman cum and heard the complaints of women around me about dudes being “one pump chumps” so I did everything In my power not to be that guy. Now it takes me forever. The not cumming isn’t indicative of a bad experience for me. Because I enjoy so many aspects of fucking that cumming is not the end all be all.

  • I have a fetish for guys cumming quickly, so this isn’t an issue for me. It just reaffirms that I’ve got a good pussy. Most guys don’t last long at all with me.

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  • You need to find a guy who has more experience. With a little practice, a guy can learn to last longer, so the sex will be more fulfilling.

    Are you using foreplay, at all? With proper foreplay, a guy can get you to orgasm before you even engage in penetration. Plus, the extra time spent on foreplay will also make the actual sex more enjoyable, as well.

  • 1) they have not had a lot of practice in holding off in shooting their wad. 2) they get so excited getting to fuck your hard body, that is all they can think about.

    I wrote a long 'dissertation' to a question that HelenJacobs asked, and if you look her up and look at the answer I gave her, it should give you a good several reasons and what the guy can do to prevent shooting too quick


  • Life style, habits, exercise and nutrition all play a major part in your sexual stamina. Someone who eats right and eats' certain foods and who has a healthy lifestyle, good habits and exercises will last longer during sex ten someone who's the opposite.

    Also if they don't have sex often or have never had sex then they don't have the sexual stamina that goes who have sex a lot or more often would have.

    There are a lot of factors that play into it and it's something that can be fixed fairly easily.

  • Sex is a time of vulnerability. So it's better to be able to finish quickly in nature so that you reduce the amount of time you are defenseless.

  • Because not all guy are numb-d**ks. One thing that guys can do is go back and forth between eating a woman out and having sex with her and going back down any time he feels he is getting close to help prolong he experience. However, a lot of guys would be weird about this, but that is what I would do.

  • It depends on if they workout their PC muscle that contracts when the urge to spill happens. For guys if they clench their butt cheeks they can prevent cumming if their PC muscle is strong enough. With an ex of mine I usually could reach an hour before she would tell me to cum for her. One time I had held it too long and it was extremely difficult for me to cum. She told me to not hold it that long, but I told her it's cause she was in a trance from cumming so much

  • I wish I could cum that easily. It takes quite a bit for me to cum which means I have to be on top every time. I've never cum from a blowjob or handjob so I envy those who can cum quick.

  • I pat myself on the back if my sex makes him finish quickly.

  • Some guys do not. Fast for me is 20 min. Just how it's been for me even when I was in my early 20s. It is normal for guys to cum quick but if they're young they need experience. Age will also naturally help too for most people. Rarely have I found a woman to take longer than me but in those situations I make sure they go first with whatever she needs or likes to get off.

  • Its your hot body.

  • Well it has a lot of different contributors, it could be overstimulation or just lack of experience, thus not much control. Do you do kegels? You probably have a pretty tight pussy as well.

  • Take it as a compliment.

  • It takes longer to cum the second time so maybe give him a BJ and swallow all of it and then have sex after that and it will take longer to cum.

  • Sorry.

  • Selfcontrol

  • They’re too excited am I’m not gonna lie for younger less experienced guys they’re gonna finish quick because they’re not used to it guys get better the more they do it and I always thought it was stupid that people break up over sex the more y’all do it the better it’ll be this would be best with a long term partner women have very little to gain from hooking up

  • Even if we cum fast, there is pleasure in make a woman cum, so I don't know why they wouldn't do something to get you off.

  • keep meeting different guys, i’ve had girls complain i last too long 🤷‍♂️

  • It happens

  • I dont cum at all from sex. I have to masturbate

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