I might think they might be desperate to have sex and to say they are a virgin to you they think you want to take there V card from them.
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Still-aliveGuru
1 y
"oh... i see" (blank stare)
"anyways..." (continue on with conversation)
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Still-alive
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So you may not agree with me but i strongly feel we as a society should demystify sex and part of that is treating things like 'i lost my virginity' not as something impressive but just kind of like doing any other activity. its just kind of a 'oh ok nice' and then you move on to another topic. there is no discussion needed to be had there. its like somebody saying 'i just did ten pushups today.' just meh. hope i made sense there lol. the less emphasis or importance we put on sex the less people feel the need to see 'virginity' as this super sacred thing that if one gives it up can be used to shame them. or be used to make them feel like they really accomplished something amazing when really its just... meh as i said lol.
AimeeKyleYoda
1 y
Respond…. Uh….. ok…. and keep the conversation moving. Would be a bit awkward…. And would also talk more about the topic if they wanted to.
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Hispanic-Cool-GuyMaster
1 y
What am I suppose to do? Worship her or something?
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TallAnonMaster
1 y
Depends on their age / gender / whether I am attracted
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FuentesMaster
1 y
She's now off my smash list
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NigjtYoda
1 y
Well then I wanna find out if I can have some if u are a Woman. God Bless
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PudsmuckerYoda
1 y
To me it's nobody's business if you're a virgin or not. But it sounds like this person wants you to take their virginity.
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shanshuExplorer
1 y
I'd say ok cool, that's for sharing, then I'd ask why did she decide to share this news with me
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Guardian45Guru
1 y
Okay.
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peterrezeeekExplorer
1 y
it sounds so good
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dragoblackYoda
1 y
Say..."that's cool." Then proceed with what ever conversation we were having
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I might think they might be desperate to have sex and to say they are a virgin to you they think you want to take there V card from them.
"oh... i see" (blank stare)
"anyways..." (continue on with conversation)
So you may not agree with me but i strongly feel we as a society should demystify sex and part of that is treating things like 'i lost my virginity' not as something impressive but just kind of like doing any other activity. its just kind of a 'oh ok nice' and then you move on to another topic. there is no discussion needed to be had there. its like somebody saying 'i just did ten pushups today.' just meh. hope i made sense there lol. the less emphasis or importance we put on sex the less people feel the need to see 'virginity' as this super sacred thing that if one gives it up can be used to shame them. or be used to make them feel like they really accomplished something amazing when really its just... meh as i said lol.
Respond…. Uh….. ok…. and keep the conversation moving. Would be a bit awkward…. And would also talk more about the topic if they wanted to.
What am I suppose to do? Worship her or something?
Depends on their age / gender / whether I am attracted
She's now off my smash list
Well then I wanna find out if I can have some if u are a Woman.
God Bless
To me it's nobody's business if you're a virgin or not. But it sounds like this person wants you to take their virginity.
I'd say ok cool, that's for sharing, then I'd ask why did she decide to share this news with me
Okay.
it sounds so good
Say..."that's cool." Then proceed with what ever conversation we were having
I'll just say 'okay' and nothing else
With respect
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