How did you lose you virginity?

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What was the setting? Who was it with?

COMMODOREII · Accepted Answer

For awhile now at age 23 i had been jerking off to porn online. I couldnt get over the feeling of being horny. I made girl friends online like usual but there was one woman i felt comfortable talking to her about it. She never made feel bad or disgusted for what i was going through. I just was able to vent my frustrations to her. She was a good friend. She was 36. One night before she came online to chat i had just jerked off 3 times and i was just not satisfied. She came online and we started talking about it and i mentioned that i just couldnt take it any longer and i needed the real thing. So she told me that i was a nice guy and she liked me so she was willing to help me out. At first i was skeptical, then confused, then shocked. I asked her if she really meant it or i was just reading that wrong. Lol she laughed and said no she was serious. So we arranged to meet right then. I turned the computer off and jumped in my car, i drove to pick her up and we had to find a secluded place somewhere because her roommates were having a get together at the time. It was October and at around midnight. We found a small secluded spot in the desert. I used my foot to clear the debris in the sand and plopped my butt right into a pile of stickers. It was painful and i was nervous. I had to stand there while she laughed cleaning the stickers from my butt. I was wearing only athletic shorts. We laid down in the sand and looked up at the night sky. It was amazing. We talked to get to know each other better. I wasn't sure whether we would actually do anything. But then she leaned towards me and put her hand on my abdomen. We continued to talk a few minutes more and she asked me question. I could onlynget a few words out before she had her hand down my shorts and pulled my dick out playing with it. I got hard in her hand and loved it. Then she leaned all the way and gave me my first blowjob. It was amazing i always wondered what it was like and now i knew. I moaned after a good 10 minutes and she jerked me off to the side helping me blow my load in the sand. She said she was glad she could help. We decided to make it a night because it started getting windy and ice cold it was October.

Makeushiver · Accepted Answer

In a meadow next to a pond in the middle of the woods on a blanket. I had just changed high schools and made mr any attractive women friends at new school. We were both 13 and I got her off orally before actually her virginity was anatomically broken. From that and other experiences I've always advised women who thought losing there virginity would be unicorns dancing, butterflies singing and multiple rainbows that it usually isn't like that. I think it's smarter if a girl can get her hands on a vibrator to take teir own cherry in the privacy of their bedrooms. There are too many unpleasant stories of girls &( & guys though they don't suffer from their own lack of experience as much as she does but there can be surprise at the pain, blood, and often wind up w/ a partially torn hymen since he didn't have the ZIP code right until you guided him in and then, as your experiencing pain and blood you realize he already finished- god knows where. I think if a girl can do it in privacy, with all the modcon hygeine things. decent lighting and some warm soft towels at a speed and degree of pressure best suited, it also give them a chance to explore their bodies using a vibrator that has a very high success rate of causing orgasms. She can tell where and how hard she likes to be touched, the extent and timing of her sexual response and how she can handle more direct contact on her clit increases as she gets more aroused. in order for her to explain the timing difference and gives her a chance to come up with a creative way to tell the lucky guy that foreplay isn't named for the four seconds they often want it to last.

DrippingHoney · Accepted Answer

It was with my boyfriend in his apartment. We had dinner first and then went to his bedroom. We talked about it for a few days beforehand so it was something I was prepared for.

LynxBach · Accepted Answer

Staying at my parents house for a weekend, my buddy from work was flirting with me and he stayed the night. We ended up hot and heavy until he was slipping inside of me.

NamerOfStars · Answer

I wouldn't say that I lost it. I gave it to someone who I thought would like it better (plus, she'd asked nicely, which is a good way to get what you want). She actually knew what she was doing, but took the time to make sure we both had fun.

katiesmuff · Answer

It was in the backseat of a car with my best friends older brother.

Quackthulu · Answer

When I lost my sexual innocence, or the first time I actually had sex?

pajamasam · Answer

Snuck into the county fair grounds and hid under a stage to hide to not get caught. It was cramped and uncomfortable but it still was worth it. She was my girlfriend at the time and taught me what she knew. I was 15 and she was 14 just a few months younger than me.

She was my first real serious "love" and for a while after that the sex and connection we had were intense and it was great. But she turned out to be VERY unfaithful and I had to walk away from her for my own sanity.

Still great memories though.

Sonorous · Answer

I lost it to my hand when I was 10

DontFvckingAskMe · Answer

On new year's eve. I must say it changed me.

Poppykate · Answer

Just some guy I was dating when I was 19/20. It wasn’t anything special.

Jamie1865 · Answer

Party, girl I fancied and was sort of dating at the time (14?). We did it on the bathroom floor at a friends house. Classy ;) !!!
Can't remember how long it lasted or anything, but she was hot (even when I was sober!) and I'm sure I was terrible at it!

Elliegirl · Answer

How? My boyfriend put his penis in my vagina.

Amanda2 · Answer

In a cheap motel

JaneDoe377 · Answer

I try not to remember... 😑

rohan08 · Answer

Im a still virgin. but want to break my virginity as soon as possible after finding a girlfriend.

EmmaMary · Answer

The same way all girls do, by having a guy's penis penetrating me. 😉

Jjpayne · Answer

Have not yet but I hope to with the right girl

Bluemax · Answer

My girlfriend at the time. We were both 18 and both virgins, which increased the awkwardness by a lot. It was the summer right after we graduated from high school. Her mother and step father were on vacation. I came over. It was in her bed.

I'm still in touch with her. We remained friends. She's happily married and lives in San Diego.

RydiaMagnifique · Answer

Got sick of being made fun of for being a virgin. So pre transition, I went to grindr and got fucked by a man twice my age. Eww.

louyaa · Answer

15 and it was with just some boy I was seeing. It was nothing special.

Kaneki05 · Answer

Tell you in 90 years lmao

Hermes-Paris · Answer

At the petting zoo... Heyyy it's not what you think! There was a cute girl who worked there and well I guess seeing those goats must have given her some ideas.