I suppose it depends on the guy. My boyfriend doesn't always cum. Sometimes it can be a few days before he does - and we have some loooong sessions even when it's a quickie. At first I thought I was doing something wrong but he reassured me it's just something that's normal for him. Now it doesn't bother me (unless I'm really gagging for a mouthful or something). I know I don't always cum, not because I can't but because sometimes I just want the sex not the finish. He's obviously enjoying himself so I just go with it. Only ground rule is I won't swallow if he hasn't cum for a couple of days as there's usually enough to float an arc!
0 1 0 0Like he needs to take two days off work for a sex marathon! I'll bring the protein shakes and water! ;)
The only man I've ever met that had a hard time cumming, constantly jerked off (2, 3 times a day). Fixed that by agreeing neither of us would "do ourselves" for just under 3weeks.
He came no problem the next time we had sex. -Victory. ^.^0 1 0 0awesome
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(6)It doesn't feel good, that's for sure. I can't help but get a little bitchy when i don't get any cum. But sometimes it does happen. Sometimes it can take a little longer than usual or maybe his cock will go soft. If he's not able to cum the first time, we'll try gain a little later in the morning. If he's still not able to cum, we'll try again the next morning as usual.
1 0 0 0i like the trying again parts
It has never happened before, so I would wonder what I'm doing wrong.
0 0 0 0you won't have done anything wrong.
Never had that happen, but I'd probably blame myself a little. My boyfriend couldn't get it up once because he overdosed on allergy meds, and when it happened my mind instantly went 'my fault' even though i knew it wasn't.
0 0 0 0I've got your issue though, so typically it's me who can't cum.
awww i'm sorry
If he is inside me I only feel his twitching, but not his cum inside, if his cum comes in touch with my skin, its warmth is awesome feeling to me
0 0 0 0thats so hot
This is it, the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth
still really hot the way you describe it.
I hate it. It makes me feel like im useless and i can't pleasure him. In my mind, if he hasn't cummed then I've failed in my mission, and i won't stop until he has or he stops me. 😕
0 0 0 0its good that you keep trying but i don't think it would be your fault. i know for me i enjoy the motion of the ocean if you catch my drift.
Basically like a gigantic failure and a horrible wife. I always get him there, always. But there were like two times I failed and I put it completely on myself. Like 'Did I do something wrong? Am I unattractive? Did I not set the right mood?'But I really shouldn't because his track record with me doesn't even come close, his track record doesn't even exist yet. Still though, I ooze insecurity.
0 0 0 0awww, i'm sorry. as a guy who as never cum during sex, i don't think its anything to do with you. i would put it all on me but not brave enough to go to the doctor.
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