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How do I ask a girl if she is DTF?

I really don't know how guys just get girls to smash almost instantly like that. I'm usually the relationship guy but I don't want that right now. How do I ask a girl if she's DTF without making her runaway? Do I have to take her out a couple times or what? How do you guys do it? Please, serious answers
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I have five to six weeks of summer vacation left before i have to go back to school so a relationship where I'm at isn't possible
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Most Helpful Girl

  • A girl who is DTF will say yes if you directly ask her. In cases like these you have to be 100% honest and upfront. Otherwise it's called using and that is wrong. Taking her out a couple of times is giving her false hope and then she might be under the false illusion that you like her. Taking advantage of a girl's emotions like that is messed up. You ask her if she's up for hooking up and that's it.

    • I agree with avoiding misleading, done n that didn't feel good when I realized. Now my friend actually told me to ask this kind of stuff to girls like "want to kiss" or "want to u know". I thought it would sound insecure or qualifying (therefore a turn off, and automatic no). I guess "can I" is what sounds bad. but confident direct and not too later on "want to" might be ok, if there's a spark: she's into it n say yes; or she's not into that, feel disappointed but hey, no harm done, initial spark needs to be there for either case. Anyways, I was thinking of the only way as: read interest signals, and go for a kiss after a laugh and pause, say code like "come in for a drink or something" so the woman doesn't feel cheapy and she can get to it in the cleanest way. But just to be clear: better avoid the actual, accurate, and literally citation of the word "f**k". Like is better the "u know?" typo thing? thanks

Most Helpful Guy

  • Well bro you are contradicting yourself here, If you don't want a relationship than it wouldn't matter if she runs away. As she'd only run away when she wants a relationship and you want sex simple as that. So better ask her during the first date only if she runs away no problem find another girl Simple...

    • Gotcha, so i'll try not to give a shit if things go south from asking

    • Yea man go ahead and ask. Enjoy...

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  • I have to ask what is a DTF?

    • Down to Fuck. Like if she's ready to screw at any moment

    • OH well just ask - I mean worse comes to worse she will slap you

  • Ew. Women are not sexual objects.

    • Right and men aren't supposed to be used for the sole purpose of getting attention but some women still do it.

    • Can you say generalization?

    • Read it again, I said "some" oh smart one

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  • what is a DTF?

    • Down to fuck

    • you will only know a DTF when she invites you to her home on first date or wants go get to yours. otherwise threating her with no respect while she does to you is a signal of you as the powerful who will decide what happens. actually you can't go down there with the dick in your hands and ask if she's DTF. you threat her with respect when she does too. interact to her and keep dating. sex after 1 month or later if you think she won't run away

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