so in juxtaposition of all the girls telling you to daterape this kid, im gonna give you some real advice.
let him be. let him go as far as he wants when he wants to go that far. dont hound him about it because then he's gonna lie to make you happy. do you want to pressure this guy you like? what if he internalizes that pressure into future relationships?
remember you're HIS FIRST TIME TOO. its important for him as well and you seem to be making this all about your wants and needs.
is that want you want his first time having sex to be? a bunch of pressure to meet all of your demands?
ITS NOT HIS FIRST FUCKING TIME. Im not pressuring him he told me he was fine with it and when the time comes if I sense that he doesn't want to or anything I'm not going g to force him. So calm down
To me, He's hiding something... maybe something about or on his body that he's insecure about. Have you seen him naked before? This seems like there's something he's hiding honestly go talk to him because Ik you should
I've seen him shirtless and I've seen him with is pants pulled down and I've seen him in shorts so I've never seen him naked but I've seen ever part of his body
Have you seen under his dick tho? or under his balls? I highly doubt that... Go talk to him
Look he's not hiding anything he's not gay if that's what you're thinking or whatever we mess around all the time. I've had his dick in my mouth and I ve touched his balls so he's not hiding anything
Maybe stop pressuring him for sex, if this was a guy asking the question then people would be mad at him for trying to push his girlfriend when she isn't ready. When he's ready he will let you know.
You are so lucky you are with someone who is willing to wait why are you in rush? Enjoy what you have now.
He is going away in less than a year... he's joining the army and I want him to know that he's always going to have my heart and the only way I can think to show him is by giving myself up to him. I have 2 more years of school after he leaves but he promised that we are gonna try to make it work. I just want him to realize how much I love him
ok then. wear a hot outfit and underneath your clothes wear your hottest underwear. put some perfume, create en erotic atmosphere, put some sexy music on and then approach him, seduce him, take his clothes off slowly and sexily, be irresistable. Then he'll take your underwear off and he'll make love to you (possibly).
OK thanks
Maybe he is waiting for the right moment or he is nervous about taking your v-card.
Yeah he told me he doesn't want to mess it up but I told him that as long as its with him it'll be perfect and I don't really have any expectations or anything so I'm not going to be disappointed
He is still going to be nervous no matter want you say. Just keep coming on to him, you will eventually wear him down.
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You can also dress in ways just for him that really show off your assets and flirt with him.
Then you should initiate it. Simple as that.
I've been trying to
No I mean physically. It seems like all you've done is told him you want to which doesn't seem to be enough. Show him. But obviously don't rape him.
well if he's not ready thats gonna scare him off. i mean do you like someone forcing it on you when you dont want it?
Just reach into his pants. That'll do it
Haha it hasn't yet
Then just take his pants off and start fucking him. And if that doesn't work, I have a sure fire way, but I need to know more about what kind of stuff you already do with him
Every thing but fuck and I mean he fingers my ass and everything
Just put on your hottest outfit and set the mood in the house call him over and when he walks in go crazy dont even talk just start kissing him really hard and crazy and move him into the bedroom and the whole time tell him what u want him to do to u don't hold back he won't be able to eather
Will that work
Yah unless he has a problem with sex like I seeing him naked or some other reason and he could just feel like he would scare u away if he told u he wanted sex so maybe this is a good thing but why wouldn't he want u when your open like that
Okay
Is he a virgin as well?
Nope
How does he feel about taking your virginity?
He said he was nervous that he was going to mess up but I told him not to worry and that as long as it was with him it would be perfect and its not like I'm going to be the first virgin he's fucked...
Maybe he is not ready yet
He said he is multiple times
Corner him in the toilet.
I want it to be actually kind of romantic
dont rush him, is he a virgin to? he might just be nervous or not ready yet. it will happen when it happens, though sex is not really a big deal I don't know y ur in a rush. but just relax and have fun with what you already have. be careful you could hurt him
No he's not a virgin... I'm not in a rush I just want to give everything I have to him. He says he is ready and wants to but I don't know
And I would never hurt him
Just start making out with him and undo his pants he'll get the message
I do all the time he either tells me know bc "he likes to be difficult" or he doesn't have a condom or something and I've tried to get some condoms to take myself but I haven't found the time yet
Just say " i can't take it anymore, i have needs. Therrs only so long i can wait, Please come fuck me ( or will you come take care of my needs? If you want to be a little more subtle)
I have literally begged for it...
thats horrible, in my experience its always been the other way around, with the guy begging.. have you set aside some time to talk to him about it? get a more solid response other than " soon" ?
Yea kinda
He sounds strange, you're having to beg a guy for sex?
Yes he says that he wants to make it special because it's my first time and he doesn't want to mess it up but I've told him countless times that as long as its with him it'll be perfect
lol i know right, thats so feminine of him. its so bad to be feminine amirite? jeez will y'all let this boy alone? he's perfectly within his rights to make that choice and he shouldn't be shamed for it.
I'm not shaming him. I love him very much and I just want to show him that. he's not feminine and I'm not judging him or anything so you can do kindly and keep your comments to yourself @jjmarvin
You could turn him on so much he rips off your clothes and can't help himself.
I turned him on so much today he fingered me in the back of my dad's car while my dad went into the store... He fingered my ass and Wes pinching my nipples to but we couldn't fuck then obviously
Hot damn. Have you tried denying him letting him finger you? Push his hands away and say, only your dick can enter me? Don't give him a blowjob, or at least, just barely lick it and tease it. Walk around naked.
I like that idea I'm going to try it next time
He's gotta be a virgin too, right?
No he's fucked multiple girls
Hmmm.
And he says that I'm beautiful and that he loves me... He said that he was nervous because he didn't wanna mess up my first time but I said that as long as its with him it'll be perfect and not to worry
…Is he Catholic?
No...
This, morals disgust me.
xD Well, a girl has needs, too! Tell him he's not the only street in the relationship and that he has to satisfy on occasion!
Am I hearing this right? I guess just keep on him about it... Or tell him that there is this guy on gag that said if you don't he will. Lol just kidding
Haha I'd hope you were kidding lol
Just a flirty joke, don't mind my sense of humor
I don't mind at all
I would not wait. I would immediatly fuck you.
Hehe he says he wants to make it special
Just try to suck his rod nicely and make sure you too enjoy it
I suck him all the time
Stop kidding. seriously like all the time luv
Usually one twice sometimes three times a week we don't really see each other all that often soo... Yeah
Ok. First off, in my opinion, I think you're too young to be having sex. I know I know people have sex at all sorts of ages these days blah blah but honestly I think 15 is just too younger be having sex. I also read that you plan on moving in with him, at 15? How do you plan on doing that with very little money and what sounds like no jobs. Do you expect your parents to pay for an apartment at 15 for you. I highly doubt it.
But if you really want to have sex, the best way would be to come up with something romantic that you can do on the money that you do have and just see what happens from there. He wants to make it special, so, make it a romantic night! Whatever romance means to you.
And stop fighting everything everyone is saying. It's annoying
Maybe he's just shy or had bad experience before like I had. My dick didn't get hard at all.
Communication is the key.
We talk about it all the time. He says he likes to tease me
then it's something wrong with him :D
He also says that he doesn't wanna mess up my first time
Nex time you see him, pull his pants down and put his dick in your mouth, he not going to stop you!
He does stop me or I gag on His dick
When he's asleep, waking him up to a bj!
We don't live together yet be we are planning on moving in together soon
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