Guys, how do I give a good blowjob?

[Anonymous]

My ex-boyfriend was my first boyfriend. I'm 19(and a virgin) and we started dating back in February and broke up in May. In those few months we dated he would beg me for a blowjob whenever we were alone. I would refuse to and it was not because I didn't want to give him one, trust me I did want to give him one, but I was afraid I wouldn't be very good at it which would result in him not enjoying it. And when I would refuse to give him one he would get mad at me for the next few days and would call me a p*ssy. I felt bad because of it and want to get some tips so when I have my next boyfriend (It'd take a miracle) I'll be prepared to give him one.

[stevie123]

You will be fine, practice makes perfect, so go at it.
Every guy likes something a bit different, but basically it is the same.
Keep mouth wet
Use plenty of tongue, lick up and down and my fav, swirl tongue around the head, then suck.
Play with the balls GENTLY, while you work the shaft, either with your hand or mouth.
The guy will cum in 3-10 minutes approximately, and it is best if you can continue to suck while he is cumming.
Swallow if you can, just gulp it down.
Spit if you have to, but don't make a big deal about it.
Think popsicle/creamsicle.

[murphchapter2]

Well just the fact that you want to give them is a huge advance. I have sais the same thing a lot of times, WE (guys) are all different so the best thing to do is to (just as you are about to start) ask him for very specific directions, ask him exactly how he like to be sucked, doing this will be a big turn on for both of you

[Asker]

I don't know if he's ever had one before though. I'm pretty sure he's a virgin too.

[murphchapter2]

thats so fantastic !! so you both get to play "lets explore" and see what is best. Try watching some soft porn to see what goes on. For me I like it nice and slow with just a very little suction and simotaneous hand stoking

[madpete1111]

Horse crap. No one has the justification to be mad because you refuse, whosoever you date next should respect you. Anyway, don't ask us about bjs, get on google and look for good bj tips. All guys are different, just like all women like different styles of sex. If you wanna s that d, just dive in, ask your new man, do you like this? Faster, slower, deeper, communicate! Have fun and make him wear a condom for sex!

[MPnick]

That guy was a douche.

[JuicyBrain]

Be open minded about learning, accept your mistakes and practice. Porn could give you ideas about what moves to try. I love when a women act like my dick is the most delicious thing there is. I also love when she looks at me with eyes that say: "This is MY dick now !". You should also vary your moves every minute or so to keep it interesting. Good luck !

[RajeshTheJeshter]

Sweetheart, just open your mouth and let him fuck your face.

[OldMarriedGuy]

Go to this website and read the entire article

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[rock_the_web]

keep your teeth away and it will be ok :)

[Nice_Guy_Last]

A: What a baby. That guy needs to grow the hell up.
B: Get a banana, and just suck it a couple inches in, and don't let your teeth scrape it. Do this slowly and methodically. When you giving head, just hold onto the base of it with your hand, and move your hand with your head. If you want to show a little flair, move your tongue around a little. Just remember, we are super sensitive there, so try your hardest to not hit your teeth there.

[CountVronsky]

It's very sexy of you to want to pleasure the man. You should watch porn in order to know how to give the best blowjobs. Search for "oral only" videos on porntube or any other good website, and try to imitate what they do there. You can practice with a dildo, or a banana.

[Nathand]

like a lollipop...

[Not_Helping]

Believe in yourself! :D

[hypno-trip]

Just lick it a lot. There's a lot of questions that asked this already though.

[Asker]

I watch a lot of porn. Do you think watching some blowjob videos would help?

[hypno-trip]

I don't know I think it's better o read a guide

[Tom1984]

I like lots of suction. That drives me crazy.

[Marinepilot]

Practice makes perfect.

[evad46]

all blow jobs are good a pair of lips 0n my cock is great I like being sucked better

[Anonymous]

If your boyfriend truly loves you for who you are that shouldn't matter. The whole point of a relationship is so that both partners learn more about each other, and how to make each other happy. The point is to figure these things out. Ask him how he wants it done. Talk to each other. Figure these things out.

[Anonymous]

It really depends on your end-goal. Is it done for foreplay or are you wanting cum?

In either case;
1. No teeth
2. Suction
3. Use your tongue
4. Your hand gently squeezing it at the base
5. If you want cum incorporate 40% handjob 60% blowjob
6. Be dynamic and change what you're do
7. When something's working and he's close, stick with it.
8. You can build him up and closer doing an array of things but ultimately it will completely depend on the person and practice on that person will make perfect.

[Anonymous]

dont actually BLOW its a misleading name... hahaha

[Anonymous]

Step #1: Relax
Step #2: No teeth
Step #3: Pretend you're either licking/sucking a lollipop or an ice cream pop.
Step #4: Incorporate hands in a stroke/twist motion
Step #5: Incorporate tongue while penis is both inside and outside of mouth
Step #6: Spit
Step #7: Moan, talk dirty, eye contact
Step #8: Take breaks but never relinquish skin to skin contact i. e; use hands only for 5 mins (thereby giving your mouth a break and vice versa with hands, tongue...
Step #9: Don't neglect the balls
Step #10: Swallow, its NOT battery acid. How would you feel if you were getting head and every time you came your man made a 'lemon face' and hacked and spat in the floor...

[Anonymous]

You are being manipulated and used sexually by your boyfriend. Be honest with yourself whatever you do now unmarried you will have to tell your husband one day. Dont go too far. Rather meet a decent man who is loving marry him and give him everything. Trust me I made stupid mistakes and I have to tell my wife one day about it. Keep it pure miss. I know this sounds old school, but going through life with guilt is a terrible thing. I hope all the happiness and joy in the world to you. Have a great day :).