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Sexual Health Guys, how do I give a good blowjob?
Anonymous
My ex-boyfriend was my first boyfriend. I'm 19(and a virgin) and we started dating back in February and broke up in May. In those few months we dated he would beg me for a blowjob whenever we were alone. I would refuse to and it was not because I didn't want to give him one, trust me I did want to give him one, but I was afraid I wouldn't be very good at it which would result in him not enjoying it. And when I would refuse to give him one he would get mad at me for the next few days and would call me a p*ssy. I felt bad because of it and want to get some tips so when I have my next boyfriend (It'd take a miracle) I'll be prepared to give him one.
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What Guys Said
(21)Just lick it a lot. There's a lot of questions that asked this already though.
I watch a lot of porn. Do you think watching some blowjob videos would help?
I don't know I think it's better o read a guide
I like lots of suction. That drives me crazy.
Practice makes perfect.
all blow jobs are good a pair of lips 0n my cock is great I like being sucked better
If your boyfriend truly loves you for who you are that shouldn't matter. The whole point of a relationship is so that both partners learn more about each other, and how to make each other happy. The point is to figure these things out. Ask him how he wants it done. Talk to each other. Figure these things out.
It really depends on your end-goal. Is it done for foreplay or are you wanting cum?
In either case;
1. No teeth
2. Suction
3. Use your tongue
4. Your hand gently squeezing it at the base
5. If you want cum incorporate 40% handjob 60% blowjob
6. Be dynamic and change what you're do
7. When something's working and he's close, stick with it.
8. You can build him up and closer doing an array of things but ultimately it will completely depend on the person and practice on that person will make perfect.
dont actually BLOW its a misleading name... hahaha
Step #1: Relax
Step #2: No teeth
Step #3: Pretend you're either licking/sucking a lollipop or an ice cream pop.
Step #4: Incorporate hands in a stroke/twist motion
Step #5: Incorporate tongue while penis is both inside and outside of mouth
Step #6: Spit
Step #7: Moan, talk dirty, eye contact
Step #8: Take breaks but never relinquish skin to skin contact i. e; use hands only for 5 mins (thereby giving your mouth a break and vice versa with hands, tongue...
Step #9: Don't neglect the balls
Step #10: Swallow, its NOT battery acid. How would you feel if you were getting head and every time you came your man made a 'lemon face' and hacked and spat in the floor...
You are being manipulated and used sexually by your boyfriend. Be honest with yourself whatever you do now unmarried you will have to tell your husband one day. Dont go too far. Rather meet a decent man who is loving marry him and give him everything. Trust me I made stupid mistakes and I have to tell my wife one day about it. Keep it pure miss. I know this sounds old school, but going through life with guilt is a terrible thing. I hope all the happiness and joy in the world to you. Have a great day :).