The alcohol is definitely a problem. But what do you see as the point to your life? Because that question is going to nag at you constantly if you don't give it some deserving resolution. That's God - and your conscience - screaming to bubble to the surface; and it sounds like you've been suppressing because you want to be in charge, but haven't a clue what to do with that control.
This is not a unique problem. In fact, it exists to a degree inside everyone alive.
Alcohol is also a common suppressant - but with plenty of its own problems. Be fortunate it hasn't driven you to have sex with all those random guys yet; as that would send your life spiraling down in a hurry. If you sleep with even one of them, that one time could be one too many.
See, I don't go to a lot of parties. I never know what to do when there. But I hate alcohol, so I don't drink. At a party where I'm the only one sober, I quickly get nervous and want to leave. I don't always know what's going on, and instinctively don't trust anyone there. Turns out, I'm usually right, and a good third of the bastards I avoided wind up with jail time for one silly reason or another.
Social anxiety like this has ruined most of my social life, so I hide in my apartment and build things instead. To the point that if real-world physics worked like it does in comics, there'd be a 60% chance I'd become some variation of Iron Man or Spider-Man.
Not sure what you believe in, but depending on what church is in your area, a lot of them have plenty of programs going you could join. Feel closer to God and what-not, and spend your time on something constructive that is much less likely to fill you with regret later.
Beneath its glitz and glamor, I see the party scene as a culture of slow death, in denial of what it truly is.
You know, when I think about what it's like to be a young woman, this is one of those things that I consider to be really, really difficult. I mean, you should be out having fun. You only live once and you're at a time of your life when you have this unique opportunity to mate with reckless abandon so if you want to go hook up, you should. But at the same time, I think it can be hard for women to really enjoy themselves without feeling guilty and this is basically what you're talking about -- some sort of self-slut-shaming thing.
So here's what I would say: do what feels right, do what you enjoy, try not to worry about what everyone else thinks.
You said you enjoyed fucking these guys. Why do you care about the impression that others have of you? When you're being bad, that's when people let you know about it. When you're being good, nobody gives a shit.
This exactly
@ChocEyes1 You mean the memes? I agree 100 percent.
maybe try falling in love.. having sex with lots of people causes problems... you should also think of the men's girlfriends too and think of how much pain they'll feel when they knew their man has cheated
How do you know she hooked up with commited men?
@ChocEyes1 because she said she have sex with lots of men and they might have girlfriend
Oh ok, so it's just an assumption. I thought I had missed something
Make sure you go when your friends go home. There's nothing wrong with hooking up with someone but if you feel bad about it just be careful and don't do it.
Alcohol has that effect on people! If it bothers you I'd say limit your intake, if not just be safe :)
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Only cucks downvote this.
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@disgustingweebtrash agreed, they just love the idea of their girls sleeping around. I bet they can't stop watching the cuck porn
"I feel like i am giving people wrong impression and look like a slut"
Also look at this anon girl in denial ^, anon girl can't keep her legs closed and she thinks she 'looks' like a slut, she doesn't know that she already crossed the line ages ago
Cucks will always defend sloots
If you feel out of control, then stop drinking! However, If you're having fun and you want to have sex with these guys at parties, then just do it. Don't worry about what people think!
Masturbate before going to the parties. When your need of the body will be satisfied by masturbation at some point the it can be controlled but still it will be chance to have naughty thoughts triggered and to hook up.
Giving impression to be a slut. Then dear it is your life. People will never be happy. So just enjoy without thinking about people. You are knowing what you are doing and it is more important than what people are thinking about you.
Take a blocker with you.
Let's try, not getting drunk, and also maybe just not fucking people.
You do know that hooking up, MEANS sex right? No one was going to assume you meant kissing.
Wear a strap-on, then you won't be able to stop thinking about your artificial dick... neither will the people who you talk to.
If you enjoy it and you're being safe about it, what's the problem?
That's easy, stop drinking. Alcohol is a bad drug because it not only lowers inhibitions but your ability to think and reason. It also has an LD50 (Lethal Dose that kills half of consumers).
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Well, I suggest stop drinking. Aside from the physical harm it does your body, it serves as something with which people judge you by. Hooking up is also pretty pointless in my opinion. Actually, it proves to be more detrimental most of the time than beneficial.
Don't worry, you're just naturally horny. You need to channel your horniness toward one person, someone you really like.
Honey, that's not a big deal! Kissing is harmless.
Stop it where you still have control over yourself, which means don't get drunk. Once your drunk your primal instincts take over as alcohol silents the rational mind.
Stop overdrinking! don't get drunk! As easy as that ;).
Learn impulse control... you're going to have to eventually unless you want to be dependent on a man for everything for the rest of your life.
Get a "Cock Blocker" - A friend who will tell you that if you do this, you will hate yourself in the morning.
If you want to stop, stop drinking, and see straight.
Life's too short to worry that much about the impression you're giving. Do what you like!
Doesn't sound like you look like a slut. Sounds like you are being a slut. Which is fine. Many many girls go through a slutty phase. Start college, get divorced, whatever. Doesn't make you a bad person, but it doesn't mean you get to absolve yourself from people's opinions of what you are doing. I've never met a slutty girl that didn't have some unhealthy motivation underneath. Figure out what this behavior is doing for you, and work on getting what you need to fix it that doesn't involve sex...
Why let it bother you. You enjoy it. It's your pussy. You can do what you want with it as long as its consenting. Fuck what anyone else will think. Those guys that would judge you would be first in if given the chance.
Times have changed. Women are allowed enjoy their bodies.
So you were thinking with and talking about the wrong lips!!
Stop drinking
If you like it then who cares what people think.
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