How do men feel if a woman comes to soon?

I know it’s an issue for obvious reasons when men do it and woman can keep going after and even go for round 2-5 more orgasms... but how does it change the guys feeling toward the sex🤔 in the moment.
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Ok.. the graphic nature of some answers is making me 🤢 a little queezy... I don’t wanna regret this question so try keep it pg k guys🥴
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  • If she likes it the most that way then that's how I want her. I think the arousal and orgasm (s) of a woman are at least as hot as anything else and there is nothing I like more then to feel she's receiving real pleasure I always give a woman head, and have 2 vibrators available in case she likes to get filled both vaginally and anally inserted and working before she gets to 1st climax. If I don't happen to have them I like to keep a glass with ice cubes softening so just before the first big wave of orgasm hits I can insert a few soft edged cubes in both her pussy and her ass which often takes a good orgasm and puts it in the hall of fame. and try to coax as many orgasms as possible from her before we turn our attention to my priapic needs. Depending on what we've already done, it may be vaginal, anal or oral- more and more women seem to like anal, esp. rimming (which necessitates a very clean and hair free rosebud of an asshole on any possible recipients.

    Your turn, how do you like it to proceed?

  • I did my job. Now, I can go back to my video gaming

    • MHO coming at you bro

Most Helpful Girls

  • every guy I know that has made me orgasm before he DOES, is happy that he is that Manly to give me one!

    Usually, i get the reverse like you said.. he orgasms, rolls off and is all done.. i was just getting started!

    • I honestly cannot figure how a guy could quickly be “all done” with a woman as sexual and sexy as you are! Knowing the pleasure one is giving the other is such a boost to one’s own sexual pleasure. And that is made greater when the partner is so appealing.

  • It doesn't bother my husband that we cum first and more times than him... he keeps going

    • We? Do you have additional participants in your relationship with your husband?

    • @NYCQuestions1976 just my girlfriend

    • Nice. I only had a threesome just once in my life, years ago after my friend's wedding. If was a great night of fun, but the two girls involved were just friends and not into one another at all, so I had to do everything myself. I needed a lot of Gatorade that night. lol

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  • I don't think there is a too soon for her. She can cum an unlimited number of times and I love to play the game of making her cum until she's screaming, begging me to stop. Edging is also fun.

    Would love to chat on messaging sometime. I had a girlfriend like that once. Huge fun.

  • There's no such thing as a woman cumming too soon.
    Lots of times, when a guy cums, it's over. It he cums fast, it a drag for his partner who barely gets fucked at all. But if a woman cums, #1, it's exciting for the guy and, #2, she can still keep fucking (or getting fucked). The juicier and more responsive the better.
    If a woman is cumming - bucking, writhing, and crying out - I can keep slamming her without pause even if I cum. There's nothing like filling her up and then continuing to top her off repeatedly.

  • I dated a LOT of women and I've never met one who would cum to soon... I have met some that after they came, the game was done and they didn't want any more til next time, but most girls, when they cum easily, they can keep playing and will in a few minutes be able to cum again... I like girls who can have multiple orgasms, and even those who take a loonng time to cum can usually have more fairly quickly after they get the first one out of the way...

    there is a surprising amount of women who can have 4 to 6 orgasms within a 30 minute period... guys are lucky if they can get 2 in that amount of time, but 1 is the norm.

  • It feels great. Sometimes women seem to go forever before they cum and can wear a guy out. On the other hand, if she can cum quickly, a guy can feel great about giving her several orgasms, and then having his once she has had many!

  • I've never had a partner come too soon but I also wasn't the prize bull at a stud farm either.

    After years of marriage my wife and I know exactly what the other likes so our orgasms are intense but our total time spent isn't long. I can say though that we're both satisfied at the end of it.

    Trying to keep it pg here. There are times where she just wants to do things for me without reciprocation but for everything else I make it a point for her to get hers before mine because I know I don't last as long as she does. She appreciates that. She doesn't always get a second round or third round because she gets sensitive so I try to make sure she gets a first. if that makes sense.

    I guess my point is to communicate (most important) and experiment and you'll find what works for both of you. In the end it's something to be mutually enjoyed. Otherwise you're better off doing yourself.

  • Well that's the goal make it all about her now I like to take a long time than a her there but then slow down and build back up ,, but if I can see in her eye or read the color of her cheeks the way she breaths or is moaning and she's going to cone right off the get go ,, then I Wil make her cum hard but do allow a ful blow orgasm because the next 2 will be so hard and hot and wet

  • It is a good thing. Hopefully she can have a few more!

  • Maybe a challenge, if she gets off really soon, like maybe trying other things, and EDGING her, but not going so far, letting her have another. . .

  • I'd just be happy I got her there🤷‍♂️

    I dont think I'm gonna get girls off when I start doing it (I'm a virgin). So there is no too soon for me lol
    I'd feel like a big shot if she came before me🤣

  • If she is able to keep cummig, I fail to see a problem. It seems to me it just means she gets more orgasms. Now if she got completely done before him and didn't care to see him through, that would be a problem.

  • I feel pleased that I was able to make her feel that way.

    I really don't understand why it would be an issue for any man?

  • I don’t mind at all. It’s part of my mission so it doesn’t hurt my ego. Sometimes I’ve finished after while during penetration or gotten a BJ or handjob. There have even been times where I get nothing after her. No worries for me.

  • It's fine if she can handle me continuing. If she can't I'll figure something out.

  • I haven't experienced it personally, however I would love that I did it for her so quickly. And women don't have a problem with going again usually, so I'd love it. I'd only see it as a good thing.

  • It’s very hot as long as she letM’s me finish lol but making her cum is my mission , I am not satisfied until she is satisfied , that’s the turn on knowing I made her cum

  • It’s not a problem

  • I like it I try to came the girls come as much as possible

  • Sooner the better. Seriously.

  • Too soon? No such thing. For me the sex is all about pleasing her, the more evidence I get that I've succeeded, the better.
    If I reach the finish line and she hasn't? FAIL

  • It actually doesn't matter if a woman comes too soon. It actually makes it fun. I like it when a woman quivers while we are having sex. It is encouraging.

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