How do you feel about your partner initiating sex while you’re asleep?

Woke up last night being fingered and it led to some great sex but is it a bit weird?

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  • Im a guy. So if my girlfriend wakes me up in middle of the night giving me a bj, I let her finish. She loves giving me one and likes my taste. If she starts riding me samething. She likes it when i orgasm in her bc i throb. I do same for her. Sometimes she gets annoyed but rarely. Usually its bc she's got a long day ahead and she's tired needs rest.

  • Depends on which point of sleep im at. If it's the wrong point I'll spend the whole day feeling wrong.

  • Not at all, rather great joyful moment.

  • It can be fun. I've had girlfriends wake me up by playing with my dick or sucking on it. I've woke up girlfriends by playing with their VJJs. My over ex was usually the most horny in the morning. I'd wake her up playing with her vjj and she would absolutely flooded.

  • A big no for me. I would not do that to someone and would not want it done to me.

  • I would be a very very happy man if I got woken up by my wife performing a sexual act on me

  • Well, yeah waking up feeling his dick between my ass cheeks is a nice feeling :D

    • That’s the best way to cuddle

  • Love it! We always sleep better after sex so it's great at night but fun to be woken up throughout the night by her playing with me. I love to touch and if I wake up horny in the night I'll try fingering her to see how she reacts and go from there.

  • My girlfriend always wakes me up in the middle night either on top riding me or giving me a bj even though we had sex once or twice already. She says she gets horny in the middle of night when she sleeps with me naked. The sex is awesome but I sometimes lose a little sleep and feel tired at work

  • I’ve had 2 ex’s that loved it. Usually just spooning and enter her from the back and wake her up.

  • I love waking up to it

    • @kerryk88 does it happen to you?

    • Yes last night

    • How did you feel about your partner doing it

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  • We do that and it’s wonderful

  • It's considered date rape, if you're boyfriend girlfriend. You didn't give consent. Consent isn't implied/assumed

    • No it’s not. Date rape refers to being drugged and taken advantage of.

    • No, it''s date rape. I work in a place where consent is ALWAYS asked for. Not automatically assumed. He date raped you because he didn't get consent first

    • Work where you like but you’re still wrong. I understand about gaining consent but the terminology is wrong.

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  • Go for it anytime you want….

  • I'm awake 17 hours a day... why would you wake me up for sex?

  • When I had a partner, I would love it. To give and to receive a sexy wake up. I would finger her or go down on her to wake her. She usually would wake me by going down on me too.

  • As long as you both agree with that beforehand, it's fine. Otherwise, we call it rape.

  • Fuck no its not weird I my self love waking up to my Dick being in my girls mouth or ASS or Pussy nut my most favorite spot is for her or any of my girls to be giving me head then just jump on top stick in that ASS an FUCK me like sue will never let him go.
    God Bless

  • Not a fan! As much as I like sex, sleep is actually more important to me. Stress both at work, gym and being a father makes every resting hour that much more important.

    By all means, initiate while I'm awake, willing and able to consent.

  • Pretty sure this is a regular guy fantasy. I've mentioned it to every partner I've had that thebidea of being woken up by being played with turns me on but either I'm a super heavy sleeper or it just hasn't happened

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