How do you feel about your partner initiating sex while you’re asleep?

Woke up last night being fingered and it led to some great sex but is it a bit weird?

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  • I do this everytime.. she enjoys it

  • I love it, I wish my girlfriend would wake me up with it tbh

  • It's definitely something you should discuss prior to because not everyone is down for this.
    No, i didn't learn the hard way I had a discussion with a partner

  • I had a girlfriend who asked me to have sex with her while she slept and leave it in. That was interesting!🤣

    • It wouldn't bother me if a lady gave me a Good Morning BJ or ride!

  • I'm game

  • Bring it!

  • I have a simple rule when it comes to sex. Any time, any place, anywhere, any way.

  • Love it love it love it.

  • As long as it's with me then I am fine.
    If I am asleep and she initiates sex with someone else then that would be a problem.

  • I'm cool with it as long as it's been discussed that you give consent while sleeping. If not, that could be grounds for rape and might piss some people off

  • I wouldn't mind if I had a girlfriend who woke me up with oral sex

  • It is awesome to have a nice experience while sleeping.

  • I always wanted to wake up ex riding morning wood she was one heck of a cow girl and a rider

  • Within a relationship I think it can go either way. As long as you know what your partner is okay with/enjoys, yeah it can be nice

  • I do it often with my girl... whenever i wake up in the middle of the night... i wake her up too by doing stuff and we end up having great sex

  • If you both talked about it beforehand and agreed that if anyone of you is horny and the other is sleeping, they could initiate.. then nothing wrong..


    Else it might feel creepy

  • That is a very normal thing for us!

  • Love being woken up by sex!!!

  • Briliant.

  • As long as its agreed upon prior as a relationship rule. I think its completely okay for her or I to initiate while the other is sleeping. However if she said she was super tired earlier before bed I would refrain from doing that.

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