How do you know if a girl is a lesbian?

[ChefPapiChulo]

[MissStrawberry912]

I’m bi. If you’re not sure and suspecting, you just ask her directly if she’s into girls or guys. Or simply ask what’s her sexual orientation she identifies with, its not offensive :)

[pierre7i]

That makes so much sense @MissStrawberry912 ! Has that ever happened with you?

[ChefPapiChulo]

You’re a dude.

[MissStrawberry912]

@pierre7i lol funny thing in lesbian world, it’s easier for them to seek out queer vibe but most pan/bi/les know it’s hard to tell sometimes unless you ask directly, test the water or build something. Of course it’s easier to recognize the more butch mannerism/look than femme. @ asker Cis female. Why would you think I’m a dude? 😅😂 maybe you don’t know much LGTBQIA folks or community to make that weird assumption…

[ChefPapiChulo]

come on. you're a catfish.

[MissStrawberry912]

Nope. Real. Person. I don't know why you think so?

[ChefPapiChulo]

cause its likely.

[MissStrawberry912]

If I’m a dude… you’re a woman 🫠😂 gl with all the ladies with that demeanor.

[ChefPapiChulo]

not how it works.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

Simple: You ask her. You could probably say something like "Hey, I'm not trying to be invasive or anything, but I was wondering, are you a lesbian?" (I probably did this terribly, forgive me LOL)

[ChefPapiChulo]

what if theyre not?

[PBandJ_Nerd]

Then maybe ask if she'd be interested in dating you? I don't know at that point honestly.

[ChefPapiChulo]

Who said this is about dating?

[PBandJ_Nerd]

Oh, sorry. My mistake. Is it just a friend that you're wondering about? I know when me and one of my friends questioned our other friend about their romantic orientation, we said something similar to what I originally typed at the top.

[Miristheiss]

If she is only 100% attracted sexually to women and would never have sex with a man because that is a repulsive thought to her.

Otherwise, if she is up for sex with both then she is bi.

[aceleon]

i kind of want to know that as well, more like bi ones to be exact since it makes iteasier for me to have the type of relationship i want, me, she and other GİRLS ONLY.

[Lisia]

I'd say ask her but I don't know if that's rude.. I wouldn't be that offended.

[Cute_potato01]

Show her a shirtless guy

[slatyb]

You don't, asked it's none of your business. If you want a date, ask for one.

[ChefPapiChulo]

so what would i say? something like, if you're not a lesbian will you go out with me? if you think about it, i'm asking both questions at once.

[slatyb]

You don't need to know if she's gay. You can assume that if she accepts a date with you, she's not. So ask for a date -- would you like to get coffee (or lunch or dinner or whatever) with me?

[WhitneySnow]

She has a girlfriend or is known to mess around with girls

[ra787878]

Lol, that's most...

[Tim2nice]

She’ll have a thing for other women

[Fireguy17]

You ask her.
Pretty much the best way.

[FunkyMonkee]

Take another girl with you and, when you meet her, both of you drop your pants. If she goes after you, she's probably straight, if she goes after her, she at least bi..

[sheikalana]

Ask her.

[Tharithi]

What makes u think she’s one

[Nik1hil]

look for her SICCOR collection.

Ask her if she is vegan.

[The-Stud]

Don't worry , they'll tell you

[ChefPapiChulo]

do i ask?

[The-Stud]

I bet she'll tell you that if she's one when she sees you're making a move

[_Bernadette_]

If she says so.

[collie22]

Inquiring minds or something

[KittygosMeoWW]

Ask her to eat pussy I don't know

[Staximus]

They usually tell you

[Nifrayu]

You can't really know for sure without her saying so. Otherwise you can only guess.

[orangecherry]

She likes girls?

[AndrewAzul]

If you like her, ask her out, if she rejects you maybe she'll say if she's a lesbian

[Worst]

if she has sex with other girls

[captain_voidwalker]

Well if you as ugly as me they all become lesbians when you talk to them lol