How Long Do You Like Foreplay To Last Before Sex?

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Do You Spend Hours Doing Foreplay Or Do You Prefer A Few Minutes And Then Down To Business?

BlackRoseFairy · Accepted Answer

Your question reminded me of a joke...
3 friends are discussing:
The first one says "Yesterday sex with my hubby was a pure disappointment. I was looking forward to a hot night, showered, wore my new lingerie and all... and the jerk came home, took me straight to bed, and then slept like a snoring bear. He didn't even notice my new lingerie!"
The second wife says "Yesterday was good. At least we had some foreplay and we did it twice"
The third one says "Oh girls, yesterday was a dream! We had foreplay for over an hour! He gave me 2 orgasms before we even had penetration! It was so amazing!"

Meanwhile their husbands are meeting up for a beer.
The husband of the first one says "Yesterday sex was amazing. My wife was already worked up when I got home so we went straight to bed and almost broke it. Then I crashed and slept like a baby."
The second one goes "uhm, Yesterday was so and so... I wasn't really in the mood, so I tried to satisfy her beforehand so she'd be happy."
The third guy however goes "Yesterday was a living nightmare. I was so exhausted but she wanted to have sex. We hadn't had sex for a while because I was tired and I didn't want her to get the wrong idea. So I started with some foreplay to relax, and guess what? it took me over one f-ing hour to get it up!!"

LuWe22 · Accepted Answer

A few good minutes for sure. Kissing, teasing, oral and then straight to business. I like this Part the Best

Realistic07 · Accepted Answer

For me foreplay intricate I like examining a dance of touch over every inch, taking time to admire, touch, kiss, even lightly nibble.

I particularly enjoy when I create an orgasm without any vaginal play at all.

It’s time consuming, but I find it enjoyable, and honestly I’ve never had any complaints.

I mean it amazes me how a light touch running down a soft figure, or how tracing circles around the most sensitive areas can bring out the most wanting of results.

Plus it’s a good way to set the pace for what will probably be a long few sessions; because well that’s just how I do.

It’s carnal in a way, yet completely controlled, and always respectful, but always described as beyond pleasurable.

The interesting part is that it’s not even really a skill. Anyone can do it, but I would say not everyone can be so patient.

AustinMan · Accepted Answer

It's not about time. It's about building the erotic tension and living out our fantasies. It's gone from 30 minutes to over an hour. Kinky folk like us get to gratify a a lot of our kinks in foreplay.

coolbreeze · Answer

For hours😂😂😂😂😂😂

Pranoo1 · Answer

About 10 minutes or thereabouts. Much longer and I become impatient to take things a step further.

tenukitanuki · Answer

Dealer's choice, it's more or less just an appetizer to the meal. It's like lighting a votive candle, you just do it to display your affections and possibly satiate your own personal need to enjoy your partner.

If you don't actually like to do it, people can tell. Put your heart into it and the time will come as naturally as the mood that sparks the whole thing off. A lot of women straight up call for the D

tonymitchell · Answer

I'd like it to last longer, but my penis gets so hard and throbs so much, I can't always hold back. I would love to take my time and love the girl in all her best spots, and eat all of them.

JackSmy · Answer

For me, it is all about her, and what she needs to get to the point when she wants something more. Sometimes foreplay is enough, a few oral orgasms, cuddling, talking, holding. It's not always about ending with intercourse.

pierre7i · Answer

I think prolonged foreplay is a crucial part of sexual lovemaking, it adds greater intimacy and results in intensely pleasurable sexual sensations & body trembling orgasms, after which the penetrative sex is even more beautiful, especially if/when she orgasms again at the same time as me

ecfresh · Answer

The seduction and anticipation phase that includes suggestive looks, texts, and hidden touches should begin at least 24 hours before. Actual foreplay is at least 2 hours.

Billy96 · Answer

What's foreplay? After u play with yourself 😉

Maraneva · Answer

I'm a virgin so I just masturbate. However I spend quite a while playing with the package, the piercings etc. Least time is 30 minutes and it goes upwards. Longest I've done is around three and a half hours. I build up to the edge, let go and make my penis soft again. This goes on and on in a cycle until I decide to unleash.

sawno · Answer

Long enough to be tortuously overwhelming, we both should go beyond desperation for more.
And when its sufficiently intense and insane we might proceed, would be up to whoever is in charge of that session.

MecheD · Answer

I don’t have a preference for myself Receiving if it’s good. But I tend to go all out for my partner maybe about 30/45 minutes

derek2017 · Answer

about 5 minutes...

Agape93 · Answer

At least an hour

Dargil · Answer

15-30 minutes is good.

SergeantSmoke · Answer

Personally, I'd want Foreplay to last AS LONG AS POSSIBLE... To the point where we're drooling and BEGGING for each other's bodies!

ariadneR · Answer

Honestly till I'm begging for it.

BrookieCookie0422 · Answer

15 minutes or so

JosyJosy · Answer

ForeVERPlay

NicolaJ35 · Answer

Difficult to say exactly but I like it to last a while  Slow and sensual

SugarSkullCat · Answer

I would like for it to last for a good 5 mins.

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