How long will you be willing to wait in a relationship to have sex?

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meetkitty123 · Accepted Answer

I never rush sex in fact I can go almost a whole year or more without it when getting to know someone. the way I see it I'm a hypersexual so there's no reason to rush it because once I give it they're going to be getting a whole lot of it and every man I've ever known has actually complained about me wanting to give it too much. 🙄 Seriously offering it three or twice a day is really too much?
If Im lucky I get it 3 times a week but luckier when it's every other day.
Anyhow in the beginning I much rather know who I'm with intellectually emotionally before I even bother with the full blown sex now that doesn't mean that we ain't doing other things such as heavy petting mutual masturbation or oral.
But full blown sex I wait off on

PBandJ_Nerd · Accepted Answer

Not sure. I would like to get to know the person I'm dating before I even decide to do that. But we do have to have a healthy relationship and everything else, as that is what is more important to me. A person doesn't get sex just because we've dated a few months. We both have to like each other and want to be together.

Reaperbot666 · Accepted Answer

I tend to have 4 rules when dating someone new. 1. no sexual interaction until were in a exclusive relationship together. 2. no sex until we have been dating at least 90 days. 3. both of us get tested for STD's and other nasty things to prove we're clean. 4. we both use protection to reduce risk of pregnancy. if a new partner can't follow those. then their most likely not worth my time. just don't find it worth while to sleep with someone. until I can tell if we have a deeper bond or not. then just physical and/or sexual ends. because I am not into hookup culture and/or one night stand culture.

AustinMan · Accepted Answer

It's not about time. It's about establishing a strong emotional connection. Then talk about it.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

Waiting for sex in a relationship, WTF? On the other hand now we know why so many people cheat in relationships nowadays. Buy a blow up doll dude!

BlondeGoneWild · Answer

2nd date tops

Danny98 · Answer

I would be willing to wait for marriage.

0112358 · Answer

For intercourse or anything? what’s her prior experience level?

Browneye57 · Answer

About 20 minutes. LOL

Jessie91331 · Answer

couple of hours

okeydoke · Answer

Definitely no more than a couple of months. Sexual chemistry is important.

Posterboy56 · Answer

Uhh... we aren't "in a relationship" at all in the first place until I've already fucked her a few times, so this isn't answerable as asked. A relationship without sex or physical romance is called a "friendship."

jmstarling · Answer

More than a year. I'd have to be close to someone to want to actually get physically intimate with them. Better to wait and fantasize than to break up after we've done it.