How many men does a woman have to be with to be a slut?

[Anonymous]

I have only been with fifteen men until this age. I don't want to be a slut. For a man, this number is not much. Is not it? I am a woman of dignity.

[abc3643]

This is my slut/manwhore equation regarding "body count" - a very obnoxious and revolting phrase but, considering that the people who use it are typically manwhores and sluts anyway, what should I expect?

I use a formula for both males and females:
Let Y = cumulative number of distinct sexual intercourse partners
(that is, the "body count")
Let X = age-appropriate maximum number of distinct sexual intercourse partners

X = ROUND_UP [ 1.5 * (AGE - 15) ]
So:
Age = 15, X = 0.
Age = 16, X = 2.
Age = 17, X = 3.
Age = 18, X = 5.
Age = 19, X = 6.
Age = 20, X = 8.
Age = 21, X = 9.
Age = 22, X = 11.

If Y > MINIMUM (X, 10), then "Slut/Manwhore" else "Age appropriate".

Basically, what this is saying is:
1. "Don't fuck until you are at least 16."
2. "Only fuck in committed relationships; up to 3 committed relationships per every 2 years."
3. "If you need more than 10 committed relationships by the time you are 22, then something is wrong with you or you're a slut/manwhore who is fucking too often just for fun."

More than 10 guys is really too much.

Most guys would be rather uncomfortable competing against such a lengthy history because the probability of his being the best you ever had (or having the biggest dick you've ever had) seriously goes down. He wants to be memorable and important to you and "not just another lay".

Nor does he want a pussy with "a lot of miles on it" because, frankly, they are considerably looser so the experience isn't as good for him (although it is still mighty fine!).

So, bottom line; more than 10 guys is too much for the majority of men.

For the record, my Y ("body count") is 5 and it wasn't 2 until I was almost 26!

Body 1: 21 y 09 m
Body 2: 25 y 11 m
Body 3: 26 y 02 m
Body 4: 32 y 10 m
Body 5: 36 y 10 m

[AN1995]

If a girl has ben with 2 guys, or 100 guys they feel the same^^^^^. You can't tell. By how it feels

[abc3643]

@AN1995 yes. Yes you can Start fucking more.

[Andres77]

Slut... is more an attitude.
Some women can be slutty and not have a high body count.
Some women are broken like I used to be and sex is a comfort or coping mechanism to just feel good enough to make it to the next day.
I've been with some classy women who've been with a lot of men.
Maybe stop worrying about labels and focus on being the best woman you can, by YOUR standards, for YOU.
If a guy can't handle your past then love yourself enough to move on.

[Ozanne]

Being a slut is not about a number, but about an attitude. People can have carefree, fun sex with many people over time, not hurting anyone, being safe, and loving life. Who cares? But if a woman only sleeps with a few guys, and all of them were for selfish reasons, hurting the men, maybe hurting her boyfriend if she has one, maybe knowingly being the woman who her man is cheating with -- then that's a state of mind that is more slutty than someone who just happens to have more partners but isn't hurting anyone.

So your number means nothing. It's more a question of how you felt about your sex life and if your experiences were good ones that didn't hurt other people. If so, then no, not a slut. Not at all.

[weysally]

I have been with a few more, but its still there, a woman can be classed a slut easy but a man then he is a man about town

[jackmcmillin83]

not sure about this as it's all relative, but there's something that needs to be done- using a penis health creme, like Man1 Man Oil, works wonders for keeping your penis up to par- there is nothing better than it- trust me my man.

[Hangry22]

Anything after 10 or near it's borderline is a slut for me be it man or woman.

[PhilEvans]

There is no number.
The whole concept of slut is a social construct used to suppress women. Sleep with as many men as you want to. Anyone who thinks that makes you a slut is just a sexist you shouldn't care about anyway.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I guess it kinda depends on when you started. Honestly, I don't really care much about body count

If you're 30 that's about one guy a year since you turned 15. I can't imagine someone thinking that's not high.

It really only bothers me if the body count is from relationships. If it's just from having fun, I don't care. If that's 15 people who you had feelings for that sounds cheap to me.

[ZackBan]

I've been with a woman who was with 16 men before me. But coming in at number 17 I was the first to make her cum and I'm proud of that the previous guys didn't bother me, we all have pasts no one was created "for" someone

[slatyb]

Slut is just an ugly word people use for other people having more fun than them. Forget about it. Take the necessary precautions and have sex when you feel like it.

[Miristheiss]

Sex with 15 men... in your 20's? Full blown slut.
Heck, it could just be with 2 but if someone is going to clubs/bars and leaving with strangers and if they do that a couple of times... that is being a slut right there.

[Celtero]

Lol, 15 is kind of a lot. The average is around 7.2, and you've doubled that. If you're 30 then that means you'd fuck another new guy every year if you started having sex at age 15. It means you've failed at having a successful relationship 15 times.

And for me, a woman is soiled if she's been with 1 guy before me... but there's plenty of men out there who don't mind if she's been with 1,000 guys, so it's not a big deal.

[Purple_Rose]

I've only ever been with one guy and that was 3 years ago. But whenever I go on dates and guys ask this question, they get really upset with my answer every time. Then when I ask them how many sexual partners they've had, they never tell me and are still upset I've only been with one person. I have been called a slut before by a guy who also said I was damaged goods and he wanted a woman who was a virgin. (Even though he wasn't one himself.)

[AFellowWeeb]

Thats actually f up to hear, and the last guy is a piece of shit

[DJB72]

Sorry, but "dignity" wouldn't be the word I'd use.

I've slept with 3. And I wish the number was lower by 2.

I definitely enjoy sex, but I wish I'd waited so I couldn't have the thought "that's not as good as my ex did it".

[Shiver]

I don't think it's about how many people you've been it. It's about how you carry yourself and how you act about it. If you're all like "ah yeah I fucked all those guys like a dirty girl" then yeah, you're a bit of a slut, but otherwise you're good.

[imjustadude]

I'm not sure being a slut is something measured with numbers. A slut is a girl who leads multiple guys into believing they are getting into a long term relationship and then cheats on them after a short time. If you sleep with a new one night stand every weekend, you aren't a slut. You might be sad though.

[pigoat]

A woman can never be a slut tk MEEEEE

[tasleen]

Some men think like my husband that if women have been with one men than also she is slut

[minuteman12]

That makes you a slut as well @tasleen

[tasleen]

I don't care

[minuteman12]

Nice

[winterfox10]

It's more about quality than quantity. A slut is a woman who doesn't keep the bar very high..

[MsLivy]

Depends on the guy

[genericname85]

i think it's not about the "number" but more about the mindset and standards she has.

[loveslongnails]

If you have your dignity in your mind, why do you care what someone else says is the maximum number? And what does the term "slut" mean to YOU, in the first place?

[TheFlak38]

Im sure you're a princess

[MountAverage]

OMG why do you give a shit? Just do what's right for you and what makes you happy. Why do you care what other people think of your sex life? It's no one's business.
Also, do you seriously think there's some universal law of how many difderent sex partners make a slut? Some people will call you a slut for smiling at too many different guys. It's meaningless. The word "slut" is meaningless. And it's bullshit. Its only purpose is to shame women who dare enjoying an active sex life. And you play along to that? Come on.