How many people have you had sex with?

[billmunch]

I've kwpt tract over the years. It's approximately 696 - all but five of which were with prostitutes.

[Anonymous]

Somewhat to my own surprise, when I stopped to count it out, I have had 14 sexual partners.

To start, I lost my virginity to my high school girlfriend when I was 16 and she was 15. I have also had 5 one night stands and one, what would be called today - though I don't think the phrase had been coined at that point (I was in college) one "friends with benefits." That lasted about 8 months.

Frankly, this also resulted in 6 pregnancies. One of which ended in a miscarriage. Three of which were with my current live-in girlfriend of 11 years, with whom I have two little boys and my little princess. (The first two were unplanned pregnancies. The third was planned.) My girlfriend and I love each other, she is the center of my universe, and have talked about marriage but in some weird way we feel like a big ceremony and an expensive ring would just cheapen what we have.

Also, I was contacted about two years ago by a woman with whom I had a one night stand. We did not know each other well, frankly, but we had an amazing night and, it turns out, I got her pregnant,

The thing is that she decided not to tell me and raise the baby on her own. However, as he became a teenager she decided that her child needed to know his father. So she tracked me down two years ago and now I have a 14 year old son. (My other children are 10, 9 and 7.) I am very proud of him and although it was awkward to start, we have grown quite close.

The only one I regret is a girl I dated just out of college. I got her pregnant and at first she seemed really excited - and I was, for sure. Then she changed her mind and - long story short - had an abortion without telling me. It is the most painful thing I have ever known and I miss so much the baby I never got to hold in my arms. Honestly, sappy as it sounds, when I think about that baby, it still brings tears to my eyes.

So I got off topic a bit, but there it is. Frankly, it is perfectly natural for a man to have sex. Nature made us with the instinct to implant our sperm in a female and make offspring that carry on our DNA. So we need it - not like our lives depended on it - but for emotional health and our sense of our own manhood. So other than the one case, I have no regrets and right now, with my girlfriend and our three children and my son, I have never been happier and cannot imagine my life without them.

Still, I won't lie. I have to admit that when I look back and think that I have had 14 sexual partners and 6 pregnancies - 5 of which were unplanned - gotta admit that I am a little surprised at the number... and also a little, even though I know it is silly and maybe a bit egomaniacal, a little proud of myself.

[LigmaBallsack]

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”Came” very close in April though. Was at a frat party and this girl came up to me and started grinding on me and French kissing me. Asked me to walk her back to her dorm. Thought “oh my god here we go” but alas, it wasn’t meant to be.

Hottest night of my almost 19 years of life. Unfortunately she had the Saturday regrets and I haven’t talked to her since. Oof.

[Anonymous]

If I'm being honest I'd be embarrassed with how high the number is. However, that's mostly because for about 2 or 3 years after my divorce I was hooking up with guys left and right. If you don't count that it's 5 men.

[laurieluvsit]

You must be an engineer on the side when not fucking prostitutes... lol

[Guardian45]

Engineer?

[laurieluvsit]

@Guardian45 He's into math and keeping meticulous track of things... why did I think I was the blonde... lol

[Guardian45]

He should have just said 700

[Guardian45]

I have regular 'blonde' moments due to being neurodivergent. LOL

[DizzyDesii]

2 and am even ashamed of that

[Guardian45]

Why?

[DizzyDesii]

@Guardian45 because i hoped to never surpass 1. But i’m trying everything in my power to make it work with the 3rd because i dont think im willing to have sex with more than that. I've dated so many people but once i spot that we’re not a fit in terms of personality/values/interests, i end things before we get to the point of sex. I just dont want to make that mistake for a 3rd time. To put in 2 years to each of them just for it to result in bad sexual experiences, sucks so much. And i dont mean it in a “try before you buy” type of way. Im glad we took our time to get to the sex. But i just hate i had sex with two practical demons. I’ll stop ranting now 🙄

[insteadfew]

Why ashamed?

[DizzyDesii]

@insteadfew read above

[insteadfew]

How about you try sex with women now 😜!

[Guardian45]

Forgive yourself and forget then and move on.

[DizzyDesii]

@Guardian45 i have forgiven myself and moved on. But i also stay strong about being extremely smart in choosing whou give myself to. After the first guy took advantage, yea i dated others but it took me 7 years to trust someone enough to give myself to. Then he fcks me over after he did some dumb shit and thought i was pregnant. So again, i have to be even wiser in who i choose to give myself to. @insteadfew This is not a joking matter. Please stop

[Guardian45]

I have faith that you will find him.

[DizzyDesii]

@Guardian45 maybe he’ll find me. Bt atm, I’m trying to escape another looney who won't let me go, so there's that. Either way, i’ll just keep praying

[Th3ft]

@dizzydesii don’t beat yourself up over a number. You are still a total gem and honestly any man who is lucky enough to get you should feel himself a king. And if her doesn’t treat you like his prize every day then it is okay to acknowledge that he isn’t a good fit. I’m not trying to talk you out of anything and the fact that you are doing all you can to keep this one is awesome and just proves how much of a gem you are. But also don’t let issues and life beat you down! You are still an amazing woman!!

[DizzyDesii]

@Th3ft thank you but im still single lmao

[Th3ft]

😂😂😂 @dizzydesii see… I was so confused when you said you were going to try with all you had to protect this third relationship…🤦‍♂️ I knew that you were single… and the numbers just didn’t add up. Can I just chock this up to me being a sentimental bozo?

[DizzyDesii]

@Th3ft i was saying I've had many relationships but only slept with 2 and am very careful in who i choose to sleep with. Yet still had 2 major fail of choices. Hopefully the third is a wise one

[Th3ft]

And that does make so much more sense. I think perhaps I was still asleep when read it at first. But I did know that you were single and honestly I have a feeling that this next guy whoever he is will be a keeper because every fail is only a lesson learned.

[DizzyDesii]

@Th3ft so true

[MTC29]

More than 100, all of the women.

[BrookeAZ90]

I think 7

[insteadfew]

Think? 🤔🤨🤫

[BrookeAZ90]

Trying to remember how many boyfriends I did or didn't sleep with in high school isn't exactly fresh in my memory anymore. It could be 6, could be 7, could be 8.

[insteadfew]

There have been bfs with whom you didn't sleep?

[BrookeAZ90]

14-17 years ago in high school there definitely were

[insteadfew]

Wow at what age did you start to date and fuck boys?

[AsunderingNova]

@brookeaz90 do you give advice?

[BrookeAZ90]

@insteadfew Think my first boyfriend I was 13. First time I had sex, it was summer either right before I turned 16 or right after

[BrookeAZ90]

@AsunderingNova What about exactly?

[insteadfew]

Did the boy wanted sex or it was you?

[ChrisMaster69]

Don’t really know, never counted, it’s just something that happens.

[Slingblade1126]

My twenties were a blur. So, if I had to estimate, I would say, more than 20 but less than 30.

[StevieNix]

It depends who's asking.

[MasterKS]

@stevienix you nailed it! LOL

[StevieNix]

@MasterKS Thanks

[MasterKS]

@stevienix follow me, would like to be friend!

[rachel776]

hundreds less than that

[LazerBean]

1 that I married

[CubaPirate]

Good for you girl

[ThinkerShell]

I fear Vald show up again hahaha

[LazerBean]

Fr, so insecure 😂

[ThinkerShell]

:))))) I'm having fun times with him there but if notifications are annoying to you I can suddenly stop it no worries what he thinks he's victorious or something ?

[Fvghtlxght]

Zero

[Smartman5]

How old are you

[EmmaMary]

Including my husband 5.

[Lyndsielee666]

Three

[BradBoy]

4 different women, 3 different guys

[slxt_hxle69]

I think about 800 now xxxxxx

[OlderAndWiser]

You must have skipped school quite frequently, or you were the main attraction at group events.

[DonkeyDan]

Lost count years ago, what kind of sad sack courts how many people they've have sex with if it's more than 20..

[HatiVargrrr]

5 maybe 7 I don't know lol

[insteadfew]

So less?

[Th3ft]

@hativargrrrh ow did you lose two partners?

[AviatorTom]

So what's your point?

[Th3ft]

Only one at the moment… but I hope I get at least one more at some point in my life… haha!

[Dontaaaa]

Two.

[sheikalana]

Between 20-30. I don't really keep track.

[Drumlin2001]

Two.