How many sexual partners have you had?

I'm now 19 and I had over 20 different sexual partners in my life. I don't know if that makes me a "slut" and I'm kinda afraid of being judged. How many have you people had and am I still normal or is it over the top?
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  • Well honeyy you shouldn't be worried at all and you should just enjoy your life as much as you can and the way you want
    I don't think at all that there's anything wrong in what you did no matter how high this number goes
    I have sex with like 3 to 7 persons every night or say at least 4 days a week n i am so happy with my life

    • nice

    • @Mackrxx yup

    • just laying down and let strangers fuck you

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  • Like 10, more or less

    • You've really been at it, damn.

    • With 15?

    • Yea... almost 16

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  • Don't you ever think/say/believe or be told your a slut ok. You enjoy sex, so do most guys and they don't get a 'label'. People who judge are narrow minded and focus on their own lives so if any one passes judgement towards you show them the middle finger 🖕. I am happy to discuss more, if you like pm me

  • Just enjoy yourself. Who cares what others think

    • No one would call a guy a slut if he had done the same.

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  • *Holds back the tears* Just the 1 😂

  • I had 1 lol... nothing wrong with casual sex tho but many people still like to slutshame so maybe its better to keep your sex count to yourself

  • I'm at 2 :)

    Well it's your own decisions, if you personally don't like it then you can always tone it down. At this point done is done, if people judge then that's up to them. Don't bother with what others think. If you enjoy sex and haven't found someone you want to be with then why not just enjoy. I don't see the problem.

    Slut is such a meaningless word.

  • I've had sex with thirty something but if given head to a good 60 or more for sure. Lol

    How many sexual partners have you had?
    • Proud of the honesty. Girls like you make the world turn. Do ya thang girl. I love that growing up for some reason women friends were drawn to giving me head more than any of my other friends. It's not like I am extremely handsome. But something about me brought many of my female friends right out of any shell they had lol. Do girls like a certain aspect of a guy for them to want to perform oral on demand

  • I've had hundreds lost count many years ago but well over 200 for all I know it could be 400 or even 900. There was a three year time frame where I was Fucking 2-3 different guys a day Saturdays and Sundays sometimes as many as 6 different guys. I'm a Sex Addict in Remission currently. I will never say someone's numbers are over the top only you can decide that for yourself. What I would say is ask yourself "are you happy with how many Sex Partners you've had and what is your reaaon for having Sex with All these People?" I also tell all young people, just because ypu started having Sex doesn't mean you have to keep having Sex. You can decide if you want to wait and put it off for something else such as a more Solidified Monogamous Relationship or even Marriage.

  • You're not a, slut, you're a, stud. lol BIG difference.

  • In my late 20's and early 30's I had quite a few, mostly one night stands. I wasn't looking for a relationship and a 'quick bit of fun' kept my libido in check. I tried to think of all of them a couple of years ago (with help from a friend) and got up to 34 that i can remember.

    • Are you single? .. message me !

  • Nothing makes you a “sl*t” but your Admission makes me think you might want to be choosier in the future.

    • That's very true. I've been choosier for some time already

  • Another 0 here.

    As for the slut thing..
    I dont think its necessarily about how many you've been with, more about the circumstances and whether you intended to used them or not.
    Not counting using them for sex, but if sex is a means to an end..

  • I guess 4 or 5. 3 of them i was in a relationship with.

  • If you play safe , and protect yourself , and are having sex because you enjoy it , then you are not a slut.
    If you are randomly screwing guys because of personal issues, still not a slut, but seek help.
    I am 47 and have had 15 or so...
    However I was married for 16 years, all together 22 years same woman.
    Currently been with baby mama 5yrs.
    So most of my partners were when i was between 18 and 22.
    Have fun be careful...

  • Including my husband 5.

  • Does this include prostitutes?

  • I personally wouldn't be too fond of a woman with a high count like that since that doesn't seem like relationship material in my eyes.

    I have only had three women I have slept with. Would prefer the woman I end up marrying with no experience or a low body count like me since that suggests careful and consistent choosing with men.

  • Zero.

    • FInally there is hope!

    • @Jackpot777Returns what are you talking about?

    • I am saying it is nice to see a girl who doesn't sleep around.

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  • Triple digit. I lost count 2 or 3 years into college

  • Nice. Your experimenting. I only had 11 but I would’ve tripled that if I wasn’t so busy with school and work. So many times I dropped the fling bc I was tapped out with work and travel.

  • 0 and idc, when the time comes it will happen. I am enjoying my life as it is for now :)

  • 19 and zero partners. As for the twenty you have, its higher than I expected but it's your life, and who am I to judge? If you enjoyed it, and your partner did as well, then what's the problem?

  • I have had only three (3). And I wish it was less. I want my wife to be the only pu**y that matters.

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