How many times a married couple have sex in one year?

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Sangita93 · Accepted Answer

Most people do not speak truth in this matter. Reported data are falls. It is not a good idea to compare your sex frequency with other couples. But it is interesting to look at what statistics say about this issue. You may think that you are having sex fewer times than your peers, but scientific studies may prove you wrong. For example, a recent study shows that American couples are having less sex than they did a decade ago and much less compared to Asians and Africans. ‌It is also worth noting that there is no perfect answer to the question, because people usually lie about it. It is said that only 25% American adults have sex weekly, all others have it much less. ‌A study published in 2019 found that about 47% of married couples have sex less than once a week.‌

‌The frequency of sex is said to be closely linked to a happy marriage. But married people who have more sex weekly are no happier than those who have less of it. Happiness and sex are two different things.

‌most people are probably within the normal range according to their social and cultural practices. Economy and family circumstances play a major role. If you’re happy with the number of times you have sex in your marriage that is the right amount of sex for you. Pushing sex frequency to more than that may decrease your desire for and enjoyment of sex. This is to say that quality is as vital as quantity. Married sex is basically for happy and easy life with emotional and social satisfaction. ‌Satisfaction and interpersonal connection are more important in marriage than the frequency of sexual intimacy. There is also a strong connection between well-being, positive emotions, and sex. ‌Mutual respect is a huge contributor to sexual satisfaction. We enjoy more quality time with their partner, less stress and freedom to express love and romance.

Strive to be a better communicator. The journey of making your sex life better begins with ensuring open communication with your partner. Sexual communication is also linked with a better sexual experience and satisfaction. For example, you are less likely to fake an orgasm if you have open talks about sex with your partner.‌ More you fake orgasms, the less likely you are to talk about sex with your partner. This is because you will feel embarrassed and choose not to talk about it. Some reasons for this include not wanting to hurt your partner's emotions or not feeling comfortable being explicit.

As a tradition of our culture and family, we had no se before marriage. After marriage, we – husband and wife are living separate – away from parents because of job. We had more than two times every day in first year of our marriage – may be more than 1000 in a year, it is still much above 500 in a year after three years of marriage. We are enjoying our special circumstances and covid – working from home.

DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

Its 365 days in a year. Ima need sex like 4 days a week (AT THE LEAST) and i will skip one week a month because im not having sex on my period. But i’ll still consider doing lots of other sexual things that week when im not having sex

boltfox20 · Accepted Answer

We're not married (yet) but I do live with my fiancé and have been living with her for nearly 4 years, now. We've reached what I would call "marriage level" of sexual activity, considering I am hypersexual and she is not. We tend to have sex every 1-3 weeks, give or take her level of horniness and how physically able she is to have sex (lots of painful body issues and gets sick easily). I would bring the average closer to 3 than 1, so, we can assume 2.5 weeks between sexual encounters.

So... about 20-21 times a year? I'd definitely prefer it to be a lot higher than that, and I think she does, too, but it is what it is, for now. I might be hypersexual, but my fiancé is significantly more important to me than her body. :)

AviatorTom · Accepted Answer

That depends. Newlyweds probably have sex several times a week. As they get older, the frequency typically decreases to about once a week.

So, to answer your question..
Newlyweds... 150-250 times in a year
Older couples... 50 times in a year

Markm3212 · Answer

newly married couple, maybe 300+ times a year  couple been married maybe 3-5 years 150 times a year  couple with Kids... 52 times a year if lucky lol  lots of factors in that answer

LikeALog · Answer

About eleven times a week is my best guess. She quit putting notches on the headboard.

loves2learn · Answer

Depends on the couple. Sometimes daily, sometimes a few times a week. Sometimes a lot less.

RobT312 · Answer

365... on average once a day I think

ushagomez · Answer

I am not married so cannot answer from personal experience. However I asked my parents and they say currently they enjoy around 400 tines a year they think.

Poppykate · Answer

It depends on the couple. Some have it several times a day…. Others haven’t had sex since Bush was President… most fall in the middle. 🤔

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

My hubby & I have sex everyday.  Oftentimes, we have sex multiples in a day.  My "guesstimate" is more or less 450 times a year for us.

all_hayl · Answer

Um….. with due respect, who cares (?). Have sex as much as you and your spouse want. I’m divorced, but when I was married (before things started going south), we had sex all the time. Morning, night, mid-day. Whenever we wanted (as long as we were in an appropriate location to do it).

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

With each other or other people?

Tamera952 · Answer

No idea, you tell me

Hermes-Paris · Answer

My birthday... Christmas... Anniversary... Superbowl if her team wins... Oh and the first night we are on holiday. So that adds up to... either 4 or 5. Yup. Welcome to marriage boys.

JoyGirl · Answer

Depends on the couple.

Rjc36 · Answer

This totally depends on the couple and the state of the relationship. I have been with a woman over a year and we had sex as often as we could and have also been with my wife and didn't have any sex for well over a year.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

I've never been married so, no idea but, I used to fuck my ex-fiance about 160 times a year.

Sugar100 · Answer

I thought by having sex one time you already are pregnant lol

exitseven · Answer

I wish I counted because of all the questions like this. When you first get married you have it multiple times a day until you have kids. Do the math.