Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health I guess I mean like until it started feeling pleasurable? Because first times are usually awkward or uncomfortable or painful. Like did it take rounds or different days or even different partners?
Like for me, it hurt the first 3 times (different days) with my first ex. The first day, he caught me offguard and i didn't even realize “trying to see if the tip could fit” was considered sex. The tip itself could hardly fit and i was already in pain 🙈 He pressured me into letting him continue to experiment on other days because he said i had already allowed that much, and well why stop now. So yea for me, i was only able to take the tip each week we tried. It took the 4th try at sex for him to finally get at least half in. And omg it felt good af. We were in this spinning chair and he lifted both my legs over his shoulder as he hit what felt deep but omg it was like i was on cloud nine. I dont even remember how long we went but when i heard my mom coming in through the garage, i rushed him out the backdoor 🤣🤷♀️ I could hardly walk for shit but made it to the bathroom. I started bleeding like crazy and it freaked me out because this was the first time it happened. I had to lie and tell my mom it was that time of the month 🤦♀️ So yea it took our 4th time before i got used to it.
I stopped having sex in 2010 after that first ex but its Crazy though because when i tried it for the first time with my virgin ex in 2018, i expected it to hurt all over again since it had been so long. But it didn't. It only took one time to feel good.
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How many times did you have to have sexxx before you got used to it?
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It only took one time to feel good for me
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It took two or three rounds before it felt good for me
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It took a totally different day before it felt good for me
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It took a different partner other than my first before it felt good for me
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It still doesn't feel good for me
Vote E
I haven't had sex yet but want to
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I haven't had sex yet and dont want to just yet/at all
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What Girls & Guys Said
41 53Lol I'd love to say I was a natural but it took me 3 times with my 1st boyfriend and I was ok with the next 3/4 lads until one guy had a really big dick! He was the 1st one to make me squeal.
Hahahah
I haven't had sex yet but want to 😊
No rush. Sex is overrated
Third time, first orgasm during sex. (Had done it masturbating previously but only awkwardness and pain the prior tries.)
I was instantly hooked. And now it is frankly all I seem to think about at times.
Haha wow
I’m still wondering why he was forcing the issue, when he clearly hadn’t got you ready for entry? ...
We were 15 and he was just a jerk boyfriend trying to take advantage
Never had sex so 😁
I understand
Why do you torment us with these kinda questions? 😂😂😂.. What kind of pleasure do you get? 🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂🤷♀️ im not so bored at work anymore
It took a month or so, we were virgins and had no experience, she wasn't into oral untill i started shaving back then, and I learn few tricks and found rythm of course. And that when i witnessed the first female orgasm and am addicted since then
Lmao that was me 🤣 i didn't wanna suck it until he shaved
Not just that! She convinced me to start waxing, but she never even trimmed hers 🤭. She never waxed hers because she thinks it's painful (well duuuh) but after few times it's like nothing.
What ages are we talking here
Gosh that sounds scary 😭 I heard it hurts like hell and bleeds. Everyone told me they had a big bleed when it went all the way in and small bleeds everytime they tried. Some women said they just allowed him to force it in and took the pain and it hurt like they literally said “HORRIFIC PAIN” and I was traumatised. I don’t think I can just grit my teeth and take that. 😭😭😭
Yea it feels like your periods on for about 3 days
Oh God I don’t want to do it now ☹️
Once you get past the tip its not bad. After that, the sex isn't painful. Its more so after the sex that kinda hurts. You can't even walk sometimes haha
Did you cry?
For sure. You can read what happened here
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Two too three for me.
Three times to feel good?
No three times to get used to it and 2 to feel good
Ohhh i see
It's always pleasurable the first time with a partner but it gets exponentially better as we get comfortable with each other and feelings develop.
Too bad i can't say the same lol
Late 30s seems to be the sweet spot for women and sex
I wondee why
For those who don't know, it's a combination of experience, confidence and biology (limited fertility window).
Depends on person how much pain is bearable
About 4 times
Same
Right away. It just felt a little foreign at first.
Oh i see
Perhaps there was instinct involved but it almost immediately seemed natural. My first try, however, was a massive fail.
I'm a virgin
Stay that way. Sex is overrated
I'm waiting for marriage
Maybe after 2 or 3 times.
Yea i feel you
The first time was very awkward, I did feel a sharp pain for a few seconds and I was sad because I thought that I would an experience of heavenly bliss and a great orgasm.
There was no bliss at all and I did not enjoy only a little bit the whole experience.
The next hours and the following day I felt a bit sore.
Only after the 8th or 10th time I could enjoy.
Daaaaamn 8th. Nah thats crazy
I haven't yet, but I want to eventually
No rush. Its overrated
Yep three times for me too, but when it's a different partner, it'll take another 3
Oh damn
Ya finding eachother's sweet spots is fun :)
I not sure, I remember having blue balls so bad. That all I felt was pain
🤣🤣🤣
Sorry all I see is a bunch of grey boxes. I can't see them fancy dancy icons. Sorry
Just read the paragrapg. Ignore the pics lol
It was your reply that I can't see
Use the mobile browser
I can't I'm on a laptop. I don't own a cellphone
Once 😋
Nice
Was like an "awakening" lol...