Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Lol I know guys like the girl to come first but some girls like the guy to cum first. It would be lovely if we could all just cum in sync instantly 🤣 I’ll be nice and cum at least once, but before i cum all those times after, he needs to cum at least once after me. Seeing his reactions when he cums is what makes me cum
#FeelFreeToList #CumToMe
How many times do you allow your partner to orgasm before you allow yourself to?
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+1 y
Im just shocked so many people say its easy for the guy to cum. I’m also shocked so many say most guys tire after they cum that one time. I mustve had some pumped up exes. Cause one could cum in 5 mins and fck all day. The other could cum in 10-20 mins and fck all day. They always got hard again in no more than 2 mins. We just couldnt fck the next day cause we’d be hurtin from goin all day. I couldnt even walk 🤣 but he wasn't hurtin too bad cause he still enjoyed head the next day & came after
+1 y
Of course many of us cum from being fingered or eaten out but i was referring to penetration. I shouldve specified. So im asking how many times does your partner need to cum through penetrative sed before you allow yourself to. I say allow because some people be edging themselves and shit. I’ll never understand that tho
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What Girls & Guys Said
21 72Uh zero, he better not cum before me or he won't see my pussy again.
I usually masturbate before so I don't do that.
Lmao @slizzle01
@reddeadfan1991 smart move
Twice ideally.
Thats then cumming twice before you right?
Yeah. I love feeling her twitch and hearing her pant ❤️❤️
I always believe in the concept of ladies first. And as many times as she likes.
Oooo ok
I always orgasm before my boyfriend then Again I orgasm with him then I orgasm after. And if we go for round 2 or 3 also it’s the same. I don’t know but i get many orgasms whenever we have sex. 💕✨
I get multiple too. Its natural. But i dont like to cum first
Masturbating for me makes it less likely I orgasm first.
At least once. What? Girl you lucky duck. The most recent ex told me he was a sex addict but bitch cause I can't stay off his dick 😂 literally can cum 4 or 5 times in 2 or 3 hours, drained and couldn't get it hard again. 😏
😂😂
Once or twice is good enough for me.
So you’re letting him cum before you?
ORGASM or CUMMING? I can't Cum anymore, and I have never been able to make my wife Cum or reach an Orgasm during penis vaginal penetration intercourse.
But we can and always do manually or orally bring each other to sexual Orgasm. She does Cum usually all over my face while giving her Oral Pleasure and she gives me a hand job or Blowjob and can bring me up to a Great Exploding Orgasm, but without the mess of Cum. I lost my Cum plumbing due to 3 Prostate surgeries. I don't think she misses the messy Cum... But I sure DO.
To me, cumming and orgasming mean the same
OH no, I use to like the feeling of my balls exploding while shooting string after string of warm Cum out of the penis. But that shooting of Cum up through my penis is long gone. But the Orgasmic High building in the penis and surrounding area is still an excitement waiting to be released and then it is an Euphoria of exhilarating sensations exploding and flowing through my body till I'm almost passing out. SO AN ORGASM IS NOT JUST THE "CUMMING" EXPERIENCE, IT'S ALSO THE "SENSATIONAL FEELING" WHILE RIDING THE ORGASM TO IT'S PEAK.
Okay you're right
@jamie05rhs he did here
I try to get her to go first. I am not always successful.
It happens with age
It was worse when I was younger.
Once
Fair enough
I'd probably try for at least once.
Fair enough
Mhmmm.
Depends on my mood. Sometimes I like to make the girl have orgasm after orgasm and overwhelm her like that. Other times I like to tease her to the very edge and keep her there without letting her cross it.
Both have it's appeal.
Ooo i can't stand a tease. I will leave lmao
I mean, that's the point. To create a love-hate sensation for the girl while simultaneously intensifying everything. Making the girl go insane with desire and frustration. And that frustration leads to even bigger desire.
Not for me. I’d be turned off
Once or twice
I always make a habit of eating them out and making them cum at least once or twice before letting them give me a blowjob or going to penetrative sex.
Daaamn
I don’t either are trying to allow the other a certain ‘number’. They are likely more or less just enjoying their moment.
Exactly
I like to get her off orally as many times as she can, I think around 11 was the record for me. Then she's so slick
Damn
if he can cum as many times as he wants with a girl we cum at least 3 times each
They usually let me first lol
Haha i bet
I prefer my wife cum several times before me.. usually 5 plus.
Damn
it doesn't hurt matters that she cums super easy.. Like she's riding and literally within 2 to 3 minutes she has her first one, and then they come in very quick one after the other
I typically won't even consider my orgasm until I've hit 5 with her. Oral and fingers and until she squirts.
Then... I'll consider mine. And it's sooo intense.
Damn thats too long
What's the most you had in one session? If I focus on oral she'll have deep orgasms, five, in about 20 minutes. If I do fingers she'll have 5 orgasms in under 5 minutes. I'm good and she's horny as fuck. We're powerful together.
More than 7 cause we went from 10am-2am the next day. I cum multiple times an hour and stopped counting after the 7th 🤣
Excellent! Your core must be like an iron trap! Kudos...👍
I couldnt walk the next day. So i just laid in his lap and sucked him off 🤣
Fuck... you're the golden girlfriend. He's a lucky man. I wish you both the best!
Lmao he's an ex. He thought he knocked me up and wasn't ready for a kid anymore since he had to do an extra year in college (after failing a year). So yea im not that golden haha
Sorry, but I’ll have mine first! Then he can unload.
Lmao ok
Just being honest.