Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Lol I know guys like the girl to come first but some girls like the guy to cum first. It would be lovely if we could all just cum in sync instantly 🤣 I’ll be nice and cum at least once, but before i cum all those times after, he needs to cum at least once after me. Seeing his reactions when he cums is what makes me cum
#FeelFreeToList #CumToMe
How many times do you allow your partner to orgasm before you allow yourself to?
DizzyDesii Editor
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Im just shocked so many people say its easy for the guy to cum. I’m also shocked so many say most guys tire after they cum that one time. I mustve had some pumped up exes. Cause one could cum in 5 mins and fck all day. The other could cum in 10-20 mins and fck all day. They always got hard again in no more than 2 mins. We just couldnt fck the next day cause we’d be hurtin from goin all day. I couldnt even walk 🤣 but he wasn't hurtin too bad cause he still enjoyed head the next day & came after
+1 y
Of course many of us cum from being fingered or eaten out but i was referring to penetration. I shouldve specified. So im asking how many times does your partner need to cum through penetrative sed before you allow yourself to. I say allow because some people be edging themselves and shit. I’ll never understand that tho
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21 72Mostly she cums before I do, cause she can last longer after it lol
Ahhh okayy
It's not our fault lol men cum like magic you donot even need to put much effort lol.
Where there is science involved to make women orgasam 😂
That is so true
I find at least once helps make the woman warmed up and more enjoyable to fuck.
True
She needs to cum till she's too exhausted to cum anymore, or tells me she can't take it any more !! Only once has it happened that I was with a woman who didn't muster enough energy to take care of me, even when she was wiped out.
So when would u cum
I like cumming together on about your 5th time, or you could just make me cum whenever you felt like it !!
we take turns
I like for her to orgasm first as it is easier for guys to, and it does happen where you both do at the same time... not easily done but it does lol
Everyone keeps sayin its easier for the guy too. Lmao ig
Seriously? for us takes two secs.. you women it's like a maze LOL
Depends of I learned how to play her likeca trumpet. I'll enjoy it either way.
Hahaha
I'm a virgin and I'm not married yet so I have no clue. But most people say let the woman orgasm first so I guess that's what I'll be aiming for. It sounds logical, anyway!
Yea its about being a gentleman ig. But i want him to cum first haha
@DizzyDesii It depends on the guy, I think. Sometimes it's better if they cum first and then rest and come back. Because they can stay hard for longer the second time.
It didn't matter to me who cums first, as long as we both get off, preferably repeatedly
Definitely repeatedly
At least once..
Whatever makes her happy.
Even better
I used to make her cum twice before I cum. She would cum twice while I eat her and finger her at the same time. It happened one after the other.
Thats the only way i like being eaten is if im fingered or tonguedcked 😍
What a coincidence, it's the only way I do it
I usually edged myself to make one session last for 1 1/2- 2 hours before I cum. We just kept changing positions when I was close.
I can't stand when guys edge. That would frustrate me lol
As long as you keep cumming does it matter.
I'm not edging my partner, I'm edging myself.
Thats what im saying i can't stand lol
Wow. You are the first woman to ever tell me that.
I like the guy to cum fast as long as he recharges quickly and can cum again in that same hour. My exes recharged in less than 10 mins and could easily cum again that same hour
I hate cumming fast. I'm more like the guys I porn. Fuck for hours, make her orgasm a lot then cum.
Yea but when my exes cum fast, they still last all day. We went from 10am Saturday til 2am Sunday
I had a fuckfest before too. I still lasted the whole night, I just didn't cum as much as she did. That was the time my daughter was conceved
Thats the time i thought i was about to conceive 🤣
It sounds like you are a younger female version of me. Lmfao
Twin haha
Hahaha 😂🤣
I like one for one. Lol. But if they are quick up to 3. I can hold it pretty well. But from a guys perspective... I love when a girl cums at least twice. You get that wet feeling and that wet glide is amazing.
Ahhhh that explains a lot. But i always like to get fingered before sex so ima be extra gushy regardless
Yeah, I’m like you. I like for play a lot. Some girls don’t get super wet and if you lube up early you can still need something a little later. If she cums, a lot of times it’s noticeable and it’s just hot knowing she came and the feeling too.
Me and my exes never used lube in our life. They dont even need it for jerking off because they precum a lot
Yeah, I’ve historically gone down first to get stuff flowing. Lol. It’s a plus to have a naturally wet girl. Solo I gotta use something. I don’t pre until I’m really getting into it. But that does help when it starts going.
I make sure I cum haha jk never had sex
Even better
At least once
Fair enough
At least once. My ex didn't cum after she orgasmed
Damn
I thought cumming and orgasming were the same thing.
@Jamie05rhs i said the same til @ohshee broke it down
My bad i mean @billhe1 broke it down
@BillHe1 Please explain?
@DizzyDesii But the context here was the female orgasm, not the male one.
And @BillHe1 had a surgery, as he explained to us.
@Jamie05rhs Read my input on one of the previous opinions above. I am sincere about my feelings in that opinion/reply
I can and do feel an Orgasmic High even though I can't feel the Cum experience anymore.
@BillHe1 Thanks, man. I saw what you wrote. I appreciate you sharing that.
It will be a nice feeling once a woman of mine orgasms a bunch of times, especially after a certain phrase gets said.
Phrases can make me cum without the dick even in 😂
Do you want to hear one from me?
😂😂🤷♀️
A woman of mine says "I'm Hungry" my primal instincts will kick in and it will be a long night.
Lmao hungry for the D 🤣
Even just for regular food. It gets said, the long night begins.
We orgasm when we orgasm, lmao, whatever happens happens.
I guessss lol
She should feel drained and the she can work on me
Haha niiice
Whys it so important for girls to cum when their orgasm isn't even necessary. Backwards ass world
How is their orgasm not necessary?
1 orgasm does literally nothing and 1 is necessary for life creation. Yet people nowadays are more concerned with the orgasm of the woman