How should I feel if my boyfriend prefers anal sex vs. vaginal?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months and we have never tried anal. Our sex has been lacking and I’ve recently been voicing my concerns. I feel like he’s been more interested in his own satisfaction but not mine as well. He’s a straight man who only watches tranny anal porn and has recently told me he’s very into anal and that may be a reason why the sex has gone downhill. He told me he prefers anal sex over vaginal and I’m having a hard time wrapping my head around this. He’s got a large penis and I can’t do that all the time for him. I’m into anal, I’ve done it in several other relationships but those men have paid much attention to my satisfaction as well. I’m confused, is this “normal”?
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  • Personally i hate the thought of anal

  • If u prefer virginal sex tell him it's Ur body

  • It's totally normal @misslisalynne!!

    You're the one being selfish and unfair towards him. I mean... come on. You already did anal for other boys, why is it so difficult for you to provide hi pleasure?

  • Well in a good relationship both should enjoy it equal. Maybe you meet halfway and do sometimes things what he likes and the other times he is there for your needs. But don't force you or him to do it. If you don't like it he needs to respect that

  • Tell him he is probably gay