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Sexual Health How to I tell my boyfriend I want to have more sex?
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this is a bit long and i'm sorry but advice would be very appreciated.
We've been dating for almost 7 months now and we get along so well! and we're very compatible when it comes to sex.
i'm still learning how to be more confident and stuff, and I have a mental illness and traumas which makes simple things communicating and saying what i want a bit hard. so for those who will probably comment "you can't be in a relationship if you can't talk to your partner" or "it's simple just talk!" , bear with me.
I think all I'm asking is advice on how to word it properly or ways I can possibly show him I'm turned on or wanna do different things, I don't know.
Ok so, here's the thing:
I'm kinda kinky and i wanna do several things and I want to have sex a lot.
I understand if he doesn't want to most of the time or if he doesn't wanna do the things i want to, but he is interested in the same things, we just never do them.
I realised we just have sex when he wants to, i want it as well but i realised it only happens when he makes a move. Like if he grabs my ass or my breasts then that's it 90% chance we'll end up doing it because yes I'm that easy and keen. But i don't know how to show him when I'm turned on and i want to have sex. I hate being rejected and it just makes me feel awful if I'd try something and he'd tell me he's just not feeling like it.
Also whenever I'm on my period we never have sex, and i just end up giving him bjs but when i'm on my period it's the time i want sex even more and i just don't get anything. I know he doesn't like period sex so i don't ask him to, i don't feel very comfortable with doing it while i'm on my period either so it's fine, but sex isn't just penetration and stuff.
How can i tell him i want to have sex/more sex? or i wanna do something different?
I don't know if i'm making any sense, it's my first real relationship and i'm a bit upset and don't really know what to do. any advice would be great ! anyways, thanks for reading.
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What Girls & Guys Said
8 21Just talk to him and say it. Don't beat around the bush. Guys are blunt and appreciate it back. It's what we respond to best.
Text him saying it as a shy girl the only way I can sort express my horny side is texting my husband it turns him on like crazy an he gets the point other wise if I didn't do that I'd probs never say half the things I want to
the easiest way is to be blunt and just tell him