How to talk him into MMF threesome?

I am Bi, And my husband has agreed to a threesome but says it has to be FFM. But i really really wanna have a MMF threesome... But he just doesn't wanna have a another guy there. Any suggestions on how i can talk him into it? :)
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  • If he doesn't want to there's probably nothing you can do. That could cause problems. What if he finally does it cause you talked him into it and then half way through he regrets his decision. Or maybe after its all said and done he regrets his decision. That could cause huge problems. My ex and I had a threesome with her bestfriend cause I talked her into it and halfway through she got so upset. So we stopped it and afterwards things were so fucked up

    • yeah.. i know thats a huge concern... but just kinda trying to find a way to make him be ok with it. and to trust me.

    • he's not ok with it because thats just the way his brain works. there's honestly really nothing you can do to change that unfortunately. Maybe he just doesn't want another man touching you. He likes that your his and wants to keep it that way

    • he says thats exactly how he feels. But he lets me be with women. isn't that the same thing?

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  • That is a tricky one. Maybe introducing him to mmf p*rn is a start. He may get turned on by it. Personally i love watching mmf, watching a girl enjoy 2 cocks at once is such a turn on.
    What turns you on about it?

    • Simple, i love cock! :D lol i wanna know what DP feels like, i wanna have two cocks at the same time lol and my man is small, so i also wanna know what a bigger one feels like :)

    • I love girls who know what they want and talk straight ;) I wish i was your boyfriend... we would find you another cock... mmmm

    • lol yeah... i know there are a lot of guys out there that woudl love to have a girl that wanted what i want. but mine is just vanilla and possesive... :(

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  • I can understand that. Do you think that he might feel a bit more comfortable if it was someone that he knew already. If he doesn't want to do it, then I don't know how much more you can talk him into it.

  • Tell him he can have a ffm if you get your mmf first, if you give him a ffm first he might be a jerk and back out of the one you wanted to do

    • lol true :)

  • You can't. Either he's into it, or he isn't. You shouldn't force him to do something that he doesn't want to do.

    • So i should just give up all my fantasies and desires? WE only get to do what he wants? I mean, im into a give-take relationship with compromise... ya know.

    • Of course there are things that you should talk about and of course the both of you should consider doing stuff you normally probably wouldn't do. But ultimately, you shouldn't force him to do it. In the end, if he still REALLY doesn't want to do it, and won't budge, then yeah, you're better off dropping this little fantasy. If your guy asked the same question about you and something you don't want to do, I'd give him the same advice that I'm giving you. I'm all about giving and taking, for sure. But there comes a point where you can't have everything your way, even if the both of you normally compromise on most things. Now, I don't know if this is something he might be able to compromise on, so that's why I said that you can't force him.

    • Also, I never said that you have to do everything that HE wants without getting anything in return. I was just saying that in general, you shouldn't force your partner to do stuff he/she doesn't want you to do, whether you're a guy, a girl, straight, gay, bi etc.

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  • Make him watch mmf p*rn, webcam shows (real couples not paid one) etc - don't make it look like you are forcing him to watch, let it be 'accidental' and spontaneous.

    Force & hurry will never achieve anything here while patience and a little strategy will. Nor should it seem like a barter that you let him have his FFM so you get your MMF. End of the day it's about pleasure mutually.

    You need to open up his mind. Try doing this and give it time :) Auto suggestions work.

    • That all makes a lot of sense. thanks :)

    • You're welcome and since he's interested in FFM, maybe you guys can join up some site like swinglifestyle. com those are pretty genuine and original people. Good luck :)

    • If you post pics on SLS no one can copy them too - so they're secure :)

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  • Good luck with that!

  • Okay, don't talk him into it unless the relationship isn't important to you. That's a good way to destroy what you have. But message me and I'll link you to where you can find out what you need to know

    • but if i can make him ok with it... lol ill message you

  • Just get a transsexual, everyone wins!

  • ask him what he wants in return for mmf. make a trade/deal lol.

    • what would i be able to offer him? i already give him killer blowjobs without anything in return and i already do anal lol

    • it doesn't have to be anything sexual. it could be literally anything. I don't know him personally so I don't know what to offer up as a good example:p

    • gotcha

  • I'm of the opinion that a threesome is not something a partner should be "talked in to." It can certainly be discussed and you can let your desires be known, but the decision to enter into one is one that both must make on their own terms. Then, ground rules must be set and adhered to. If there are jealousy issues with either of you, then a threesome is probably not something the relationship can withstand.

  • Say he can have his ffm if you have your mmf.

  • Give him what he wants but agree that if you give it to him which is another female that he have to be open to at least letting a guy suck his cock for your plunger. I'm sure that would turn you on right watching a man's that you're in control of get down on his knees and pull out your husband's cock and suck his dick off right in front of you maybe even have your husband fuck them I'd be open to that I'm very curious and I like the fact that a woman can be a little bit in control of it and the fact that it really turns her on turns me on to think about it

  • If he isn't bi then it will never happen. For a variety of reasons. Not want to share with another man and quite frankly. We don't want to be rubbing nasties with another dude.

    • never thought of that last thing...

    • The initial though would be of all 3 equally with each other. Fine if it's with 2 women. But not with a man. Not a real threesome that way, but then again he doesn't want a MMF

  • well... tell him how much you want it and how much you would enjoy it. Tell him while making sweet love to him and say you would be like awild lion in bed after that just for him and do things he had never imagined u doing for him in bed.

    Then i guess select someone whom he dont know and he'll never meet again routinely. Next, promise him there won't be man-to-man contact. Agree to his rules if he dont want to see you fucked by another guy.

    • those are good ideas... Make him see how desirable it is to me and make it more about him too. thanks

  • Why dont you just have both mmf and ffm

  • Thats not going to happen. He doesn't want to share you with another guy.

    • i know he doesnt. but you dont think i will be able to make him ok with it?

    • I don't think so. But hey, is it such a big deal? This means you're unique to your man. Look at the bright side.

    • yeah, thats true. i knwo its a good thing that he just thinks i so special and unique that he doesn't want any other guy to have it. But i need more.. Our sex life is getting kinda boring.. :/

  • You arrange him FFM and tell him to arrange for you MMF.

  • let him know you are open minded and adventurious girl, and do few mff and tel him want to make different thing maybe mfff and then tell him you want to try mmff or swinger, tell him kindly he touch other woman you want that to (it doesn't need mmf it can be swinger you want to other man after all of this you ask him mmf (or maybe you can't get this far ask him sooner) if he says no dont do anything than regular (maybe act like you bored and not get excited for a while)

  • Offer him FFM if he gives you MMF.

  • Do one thing get a couple. Then you guys can have both mmf n ffm

    • thats an idea...

    • You could have asked me in private lol.

  • Kind of sucks for you. Of course he's willing to do it if another female is present, but is completely against having another guy join. Personally, I think that if he loves you enough to have a 3some with another woman, he should man up and have a 3some with another guy. There's plenty you can do where there is no guy on guy contact if that's what he's afraid of.

    • thanks for the support. I don't know if he is afraid of guy on guy or just another guy with me.

    • I would just continue to talk to him about it. Keep telling him how much the thought of it turns you on. Maybe you could get him to watch some mfm p*rn with you, and describe to him what about it you want so bad. Go slow with it, and also set some ground rules as to what is and isn't allowed if you do go through with it.

    • thats all helpful. thanks :)

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  • Your not gonna be able to do it lol 💯 guys never go for that

  • Tell him you will cheat if he doesn't

  • If he's not BI then the mmf won't happen.

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