How to tell husband I'm into scat?

Question

I've been with him for two years and a few months into our relationship I found that I have a scat/fart fetish. I am afraid to tell him about it. He loves me for me, that is obvious, but what if telling him this changes that? Once he asked if he could pee in me when we have sex somedat and I said yes (I was into watersports that time, but he didn't know thar either). Watersports actually led up to me finding I enjoy panty pooping, watching people shit, fartinf, etc. One time in mid-sex he said "I wouldn't even care if you farted right now" and that made me cum hard. I've told him after that a few times that I wouldn't mind if he farted during sex. He said jokingly "I think you want me to!". I came out to him liking when he farts and finding it hot and he said "as long as you don't want to put your face down there!"...ugh. How do I tell him? I don't expect him to ever act out these fantasies (except maybe the farting during sex) but I've always wanted to try it. I don't want to scare him. Please advice would help!!

Mainetain · Answer

If he doesn't know about your fetish then maybe you shouldn't tell him.

Jacob224 · Answer

It's easier to start small, in your cutest possible way ask to watch him pee/poop, if he's willing to try go from there,

22224444 · Answer

Sit him down to dinner and tell him

Craig8 · Answer

I am going to be honest so deal with it. The time for two people to open up about who they are and what they like sexually is BEFORE they get married. I also have a problem with the fact that you bring your question on a social media site instead of seeking counseling. This isn't about playing with shit. It's about not being honest. How would you feel if your husband did the same to you and then you catch him fucking a cow. Seriously, get a professional opinion from a therapist and find out how you can save your marriage. Every relationship must be built on a foundation of honest and open communication or, it is doomed. Also, you don't even know how to edit your profile and correct your age or, find out how is suspicious and casts doubt on everything you say. Problem is, fake accounts and profiles are on all websites so, you could some 16 yo boy hiding behind Anonymous. I think you do need help but first, become a mature adult and know how and what you want to say or ask BEFORE posting it. Again, if you were over 18 you'd already know how to write a draft so the final version gave the best impression of you instead of a moron who no doubt is concealing much more shit from hubby. Or, look me up and we will take a walk on the wild side. (Must prove over 18)

DorienGrayPainting · Answer

So what happened? What did your husband end up saying?

Curiousonlots · Answer

Hi. I know you have had some negative and positive responses. Firstly I want to tell you that you must believe that there is nothing wrong with you for wanting to indulge in this act. Yes it is a difficult act to discuss and admit that you are into, but do not be ashamed. I will keep this simple. You have to tell him. I know that is scary and it may end your marriage, but then again, it may not. He may entertain the idea. If however he says he does not want to indulge then your marriage is over anyway because you will always have this urge, these needs to satisfy your urges and undoubtedly this will lead to more sneaky behaviour down the line. I hope he does entertain it but if he doesn't, go find yourself, explore your urges and hopefully you will find a new love in that process.

thehermit · Answer

My dear Anonymous, everybody is different and I cannot tell you what will work on your husband. It all depends on the extent of your fetish and whether he is selfish and self centered or unselfish and cares about what you want. I have had this " kink " all my life and have dealt with exactly what you are dealing with. I think if you start out by simply asking him if you may go into the bathroom with him, that might be a good way to start. Let me know how it goes.

Travick · Answer

I have the same desires on scat play and piss ( Not smeared all over our bodies but to know we have each other in us ) and when I was married years ago I would love for my wife to be like you as we would have a great match. Instead we had a no fun marriage and after 17 years it was a divorce. We should have discussed all the pig sex type desires ( they can be so much fun acting out in some but not all cases unless we share agreeing on them) and made a pack that we firsts just explore and share all sex ideas and maybe later agree to act on them

thedelicatepoly · Answer

I've been into scat since young. i have had Asian hookers squat and sit on my face, i lick their bums gently and get then to relax, like she is alone on the toilet. and poop in my mouth. but i always use saran wrap in my mouth when she pushes out her caca. then they wipe clean and i lick without it. i have videos

Anonymous · Answer

Ditch him. Use me. I would even go as far as shitting in your mouth 👄. Or even slamming some of my own shit up your ass cheeks. Are you ear the DFW? Also are you hot as f : like at least a 7 1/2 - an 8?

Anonymous · Answer

I have a similar predicament, except I'm on the male side of things, my girlfriend didn't develop the pee fetish on her own, but she originally had a thing for spit and cum and I informed her that pee is sterile. After that she opened up to it and found she liked it herself. Although when I told her I had a foot fetish she was very clearly repulsed by it but was still willing to go through with it. She also gave me a grossed out look when she caught me sniffing my finger after fingering her asshole. She love anal and I have eaten her shit without her knowing it. It appears you've been through something similar and I'd like to hear your advice. I kind of wish my girlfriend was kinda like you (as in having that fetish, she perfect in every other way and wouldn't change a thing).