If it was a guy our friendship would be over... I don't want that kinda shit in my life
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GwenhwyfarMaster
+1 y
Depends who the friend was
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Lost_in_the_Woods
+1 y
Finally the real answer. A lot of the time the only difference between "attractive flirting" and "creepy harassment" is how you feel about the person doing it.
FunkyMonkeeMaster
+1 y
If it was a girl, at least slightly thrilled! If it was a guy, not quite so thrilled. I've already seen a guy do it!! On a bus!! He just sat there staring at me with his hand down his shorts! I don't think he was chasing a squirrel!
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snackthatsmilesbackYoda
+1 y
Very weird. Would ask them not to again.
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NightroadsXper 6
+1 y
My wife tells me, i enjoy hearing it. It makes me feel that much more attractive that she chooses to do that while thinking of me.
There was a time i came home from work early for lunch walked past my roommates closed door, heard moaning and kept walking down the hall. On my way back down the hall i hear her moan my name.
I asked her about it that night and she admitted to masturbating while thinking of me. I told her i was flattered, but that for the sake of our friendship and her friendship with my wife, she should try to refrain from that. And if she didn't want to stop at least be quieter about it. So i don't have to hear it.
To be honest that made me feel wrong and guilty. I know i can't control her thoughts, but Its the closest thing to cheating that the idea of me has ever done.
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VDrago14Xper 6
+1 y
Maybe a little surprised that they saw me that way, but indifferent otherwise.
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YollyMXper 5
+1 y
Not be friends anymore, you can never have a pure friendship after that
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exitsevenMaster
+1 y
I would think it was really hot. It would be even hotter if I did it to her.
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FilmGuy93Guru
+1 y
I'd laugh and say thank you.
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elizamichale1Guru
+1 y
I would be flattered n it has happened few times
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Red_Arrow
+1 y
I don’t know how many times they have told you, but I am sure they have masturbated to you quite a lot more than a few times!
elizamichale1
+1 y
@Red_Arrow hehe i believe it so
J2ohhhhhExplorer
+1 y
I'd be like "I know it".
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honeylover21Xper 6
+1 y
I'd think they were crazy or either weird
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jamesgoldmanMaster
+1 y
My second girlfriend probably did to be honest Might not chose to bring it up next time we talk
She did confess that when she blew me, she would have screwed me if she hadn't been worried about waking me up and the amount to coverup if anyone returned
With the blowjob it would be about putting me away and nothing else but with a screw she'd have had her own clothes to consider as well
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chriscdiMaster
+1 y
Act normal but probably be weirded out or just awkward
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MakeushiverYoda
+1 y
If it were a girl I'd be turned on.
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ChubbyKingXper 5
+1 y
That depends, is said friend a guy or a girl cuz that'll REALLY impact what I say/do next
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GhostlockXper 4
+1 y
If it were a she friend, I would have to consider if I could be more than friends with her, and whatever answer that be, let her know that I either would have obliged her, or could never go there with her. But I would let her know either way.
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24 85Confused, but also intrigued
Fine. I don't care what they fantasize about
If it was a girl, disturbed.
If it was a guy our friendship would be over... I don't want that kinda shit in my life
Depends who the friend was
Finally the real answer. A lot of the time the only difference between "attractive flirting" and "creepy harassment" is how you feel about the person doing it.
If it was a girl, at least slightly thrilled!
If it was a guy, not quite so thrilled.
I've already seen a guy do it!! On a bus!! He just sat there staring at me with his hand down his shorts! I don't think he was chasing a squirrel!
Very weird. Would ask them not to again.
My wife tells me, i enjoy hearing it. It makes me feel that much more attractive that she chooses to do that while thinking of me.
There was a time i came home from work early for lunch walked past my roommates closed door, heard moaning and kept walking down the hall. On my way back down the hall i hear her moan my name.
I asked her about it that night and she admitted to masturbating while thinking of me. I told her i was flattered, but that for the sake of our friendship and her friendship with my wife, she should try to refrain from that. And if she didn't want to stop at least be quieter about it. So i don't have to hear it.
To be honest that made me feel wrong and guilty. I know i can't control her thoughts, but Its the closest thing to cheating that the idea of me has ever done.
Maybe a little surprised that they saw me that way, but indifferent otherwise.
Not be friends anymore, you can never have a pure friendship after that
I would think it was really hot. It would be even hotter if I did it to her.
I'd laugh and say thank you.
I would be flattered n it has happened few times
I don’t know how many times they have told you, but I am sure they have masturbated to you quite a lot more than a few times!
@Red_Arrow hehe i believe it so
I'd be like "I know it".
I'd think they were crazy or either weird
My second girlfriend probably did to be honest
Might not chose to bring it up next time we talk
She did confess that when she blew me, she would have screwed me if she hadn't been worried about waking me up and the amount to coverup if anyone returned
With the blowjob it would be about putting me away and nothing else but with a screw she'd have had her own clothes to consider as well
Act normal but probably be weirded out or just awkward
If it were a girl I'd be turned on.
That depends, is said friend a guy or a girl cuz that'll REALLY impact what I say/do next
If it were a she friend, I would have to consider if I could be more than friends with her, and whatever answer that be, let her know that I either would have obliged her, or could never go there with her. But I would let her know either way.
Flattered.