How would you feel if (while you were single) you lost all desires/cravings for sexual pleasure (including both masturbation and sexual relations)?

How would you feel if (while you were single) you lost all desires/cravings for sexual pleasure (including both masturbation and sexual relations)?
I don't have any desires/cravings for sexual pleasure in the first place
Vote A
I would feel very upset if I lost all my desires/cravings for sexual pleasure
Vote B
I would feel upset
Vote C
I would feel indifferent or 50/50 positive/negative
Vote D
I would feel positively
Vote E
I would feel very positively
Vote F
I have no idea
Vote G
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I've been experiencing this feeling for years now, and I can say I'm indifferent.
    I can honestly say I don't miss sex or crave it as hard as that might be to believe. But then I've also been single a while (nearly 12 years) so after a while you just... lose interest in it and don't think about it as much.

    Yeah you miss the physical intimacy at first, but over time you find other ways to satisfy those cravings- no, not masturbation!
    I mean hobbies or interests that stimulate your mind and body, such as: reading, video games, exercise, listening to white noise, etc...

    Basically I don't crave or want it as much because I've found other means of pleasure in my life.

  • Wait I misunderstood the question! But... I guess my answer wasn't so bad.
    I originally voted 50/50 positive and negative, but I realize that I moreso meant indifferent. I don't really feel myself "craving" or heavily desiring sexual pleasure often at all. When I feel like having some, and find private time to, I have it. Simple as that. If I no longer had any cravings (I won't lie, I do sometimes...) I'd probably just masturbate less. But it is really fun, and it'd still feel good. Maybe I'd even feel a little positive about it? Who knows.

  • Hey that’s not too bad. You can focus on your goals and being independent. Relationships and dating can sometimes stunt you from doing the things you really want to do. I would be concerned if this never ended, but enjoy it for now!

Most Helpful Guy

  • I'd automatically assume I'm actively avoiding something that is leading to a depression, that is affecting my sex drive. Because healthy people have sex drives and by and large your sex drive is one part psychological and one part physiological. Assuming you're not severely out of shape or dealing with some condition or hormonal imbalance. I'd think it's mental/emotional first and foremost. I can't think of a single person whose sex drive is just gone one day, without other life factors being at play. Like that just does not happen.

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  • Nothing. Being sexual isn't the be all of life

  • I would feel indifferent to it but man I would get so much other stuff done.

  • It happened to me once, it was strange since the drive for it is usually high. But it came back eventually. It's normal, everyone goes through their low drive phases.

  • im at that stage of my life right now, im slowly getting tired of masterbation
    and i might give that up soon because i get no gratification from it anymore
    and yes i am single so i got a first hand view of this no pun intended lol XD

  • I voted F, but, in retrospect, men are commonly expected to be the bold ones when courting. If I had no sex drive, I'd probably never get to have a romantic relationship. I'll change mine to C.

  • I am not sure what I would do with all the extra hours I'd have each day if I no longer felt like masturbating. Write a book about how to refrain from masturbating I suppose.

  • Well the ultimate resource is masturbating... if you lose even the desire of that then it's a sad life in my opinion at least masturbating gives you some pleasure time and don't get crazy

  • Upset, yet its partially reality. My body especially during the burnout fluctuates heavily. Sometimes i will go trough a peroid where i can't have the pleasure and stuff like porn won't turn me on even though i mentally really want it. But other times it will cause me to be insatiably horny. Most of the time its more akin to my usual libido though.

  • I felt fine, this happened to me back in 2007. My grandfather died and so did my aunt, same year lost both in one month. very few weeks later ! One of my best friends (childhood friend) got bad news that he had cancer and lost his battle later in 2011. I was depressed, felt tired all the time, felt meh all the time and even when i had girls around didn't fell the sexual urge , i only wanted some close friends, no masturbation, no sex, no porn, just trying to find some happiness.

  • I'd hate that. I enjoy orgasms quite a bit lmao

  • Single life gets you farther in life, I think the sang goes "no wife, no life" tho I disagree

  • I'd hate it!

  • If I were to suddenly feel non sexual, I'd think something was wrong with my brain or body. Am I getting depressed or sick?

  • I'd feel fine

  • I have no idea that doesn't even compute at all I think a man would have to be extremely depressed to become that way way like suicide watch kinda depression

  • Sexual pleasure is my drug...
    Without it I would go mad..
    I am fondling a HARD ON.. As writing this..

  • I've never really had any cravings for sex.

  • kill me now lol
    but if I had no desire for it would I miss it?
    wait, yea. I know what I would be missing

  • As long as they're back when I get in a relationship I have no use of that while single

  • That would be ideal. I would thank the Lord.

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