How would you feel if you could never orgasm again (but if you're a guy, you could still ejaculate)?

If you're a guy you could still ejaculate, but without accompanying orgasmic pleasure (it's called "ejaculatory anhedonia"), so fertility isn't a factor.
How would you feel?
How would you feel if you could never orgasm again (but if youre a guy, you could still ejaculate)?
I've never had an orgasm
Vote A
I'd feel happy or indifferent
Vote B
I'd feel slightly disappointed
Vote C
I'd feel considerably disappointed
Vote D
I'd feel very upset
Vote E
I'd feel extremely upset
Vote F
I'd feel suicidal
Vote G
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Most Helpful Guys

  • There is already not much of an orgasm, like women experience. There are no shivers or very intense or pulsating feelings. Personally, because I don't know other's experiences, I very rarely get any feeling remotely similar to an orgasm, but even when I do, it's maybe a 10 percent as intense as women explain theirs to be. I masturbate like some people smoke cigarettes: just to pass time and, yes, to also feel good. But the good feeling is always after I finish and after I cum. Before that, I can feel that I am about to cum, so I jerk off faster until I cum, but again, there is no physical feeling. My brain tells me "Come on, keep going, I'm right there." But after that, I feel relieved and also very sleepy, but I think it has something to do with the hormones and the brain.

    So, to answer your question, I don't think I would feel any different, because if you say that I would still be able to ejaculate, that means that there wouldn't be excess of sperm in the balls to drive my brain and my hormones crazy, so after getting them out I would still feel relieved and with a clearer mind.

    But I think I am missing a piece of your question: orgasm during sex, but I can't answer that because I am still a virgin and I don't know how would that orgasm feel and what I would do if I couldn't feel that orgasm. So my answer is strictly related to masturbation.

  • I'd feel very upset, but then go into porn. If I can ejaculate, but don't get off, so I can stay hard, that's worth some money. If the physical component of getting off is gone, then being in, and remembering enough fantasies might allow me to get off without the physical component. Or get one of those spinal implants with the "pleasure button"

    Either way, it isn't the end of the world, the ability to ejaculate and be fertile still would be a silver lining, as I can still please who I'm with, and that's very important to me.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I did go part of my life thinking I couldn't orgasm at all. It wasn't pleasant. While I never considered suicide, it did make me feel mournful, almost like I wasn't even human. I felt like I was missing out on one of the greatest parts of life. Obviously that's a bit of an overreaction, but you can never fully understand what it's like until you're that person. The worst part about it is wondering what it feels like. You kind of paint this perfect picture of it in your head. I wasn't disappointed the first time I had an orgasm even though I had high expectations. It wasn't quite what I was expecting and it took me completely by surprise. I'm just extremely grateful I could eventually get there.

  • I'd feel concerned, just because that's a way I release my irritability that builds up due to my hormonal disease. While I am a sexual person, sometimes I have to matstrubate when I'm not even in the mood just because it's been too long and I'm angry from it.

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  • If ejaculating still served to take the edge off, and I still felt all the pleasure building up to it, then I'd go C.
    I already go for quick, slightly uncomfortable ones if I just need the release (after a few days without) . It'd be disappointing to miss out on the great ones, though.

    If there was no feeling of relief, ever, then... It'd be like #nofap. I'd either wind up B or G.

  • I’d be considerably disappointed, but I’ve had sex without having an orgasm before and it’s still fun and still feels good. It’s just better when I get at least one orgasm.

    • Yes.

  • Honestly I'm used to it, so that'd not be a big deal.

  • I always orgasm whenever I ejaculate - every single time, be it through masturbation, sexual foreplay with a girl or sexual intercourse - so can only imagine it must be a very frustrating & upsetting thing for any guy who experiences that

  • Would I feel anything at all?
    Like that feeling before orgasm isn't that bad either, so if I would still have that feeling I wouldn't bee too upset.

    • did you vote?

  • Absolutely never would probably be quite devastating, but i love orgasm denial. So if i could make a deal with a demon that removes my sexual limit and thus makes me able to have sex any time i want and never experience blueballs in exchange for me only being able to reach orgasm once or twice per month i'd love that.

  • I’d probably become a billionaire or something since I wouldn’t be so focused on girls. Dating is expensive 😂😂😂

  • Already feels like that now. Has me feeling like "What's the point of this sex thing?"

  • OMG! Why would you even ask that question? Are you the type of chick that asks a guy that just bought a brand new car, if he's worried about getting into an accident right before he gets home because most accidents happen within 10 miles of your house? DUDE WASN'T EVEN THINKING THAT... then you show up... smh😬

    This sounds like a question for the dude that just arrived in hell... with the hottest girl in the world...

    I will not give the question any strength by answering it, and I think you should never ask this nightmarish question again...

    Worst Question Ever!😬😂

  • Ahhhhhh

  • I be pissed off and would probably turn the world upside down

  • What is this pleasure you mention?

  • kill me now lol

  • I never knew the difference so it wouldn't bother me

    • Never knew the difference in what?

    • I voted N

    • ... B

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  • Pfff, that's been my reality for the last 10 years.

  • For women I don't think that would be a big deal but for men it would terrible.

    • Dude!!! For women it wouldn't be a big deal? What women do YOU know. It's a big fucking deal if you can NEVER orgasm. That release is worth its weight in gold, platinum and rhodium... Normal folks love this ability and how it makes them feel: warm, happy, relaxed. If you can't due to some illness or other disfunction that can't be treated... that's one thing that can't be resolved. But if you can fix it... I think 99 percent of people would fix this...

    • You clearly don't know nothing about woman lol

    • @Screenwriter search for Jessica Ann Pin

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  • Well, if I was still single (and feeling pessimistic about my prospects), then I would probably be happy. Because this would mean that it would be easier not to masturbate, being that there would be no physical reward.

  • I would need to orgasm...

  • As long as he has fun

  • Freedom! Seriously, I'd probably end up getting a PhD

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