How would you feel if you could never orgasm again (but if you're a guy, you could still ejaculate)?

[mistixs]

If you're a guy you could still ejaculate, but without accompanying orgasmic pleasure (it's called "ejaculatory anhedonia"), so fertility isn't a factor.
How would you feel?

[SeryCoola]

There is already not much of an orgasm, like women experience. There are no shivers or very intense or pulsating feelings. Personally, because I don't know other's experiences, I very rarely get any feeling remotely similar to an orgasm, but even when I do, it's maybe a 10 percent as intense as women explain theirs to be. I masturbate like some people smoke cigarettes: just to pass time and, yes, to also feel good. But the good feeling is always after I finish and after I cum. Before that, I can feel that I am about to cum, so I jerk off faster until I cum, but again, there is no physical feeling. My brain tells me "Come on, keep going, I'm right there." But after that, I feel relieved and also very sleepy, but I think it has something to do with the hormones and the brain.

So, to answer your question, I don't think I would feel any different, because if you say that I would still be able to ejaculate, that means that there wouldn't be excess of sperm in the balls to drive my brain and my hormones crazy, so after getting them out I would still feel relieved and with a clearer mind.

But I think I am missing a piece of your question: orgasm during sex, but I can't answer that because I am still a virgin and I don't know how would that orgasm feel and what I would do if I couldn't feel that orgasm. So my answer is strictly related to masturbation.

[razelove]

I'd feel very upset, but then go into porn. If I can ejaculate, but don't get off, so I can stay hard, that's worth some money. If the physical component of getting off is gone, then being in, and remembering enough fantasies might allow me to get off without the physical component. Or get one of those spinal implants with the "pleasure button"

Either way, it isn't the end of the world, the ability to ejaculate and be fertile still would be a silver lining, as I can still please who I'm with, and that's very important to me.

[ChgzDaniel]

I did go part of my life thinking I couldn't orgasm at all. It wasn't pleasant. While I never considered suicide, it did make me feel mournful, almost like I wasn't even human. I felt like I was missing out on one of the greatest parts of life. Obviously that's a bit of an overreaction, but you can never fully understand what it's like until you're that person. The worst part about it is wondering what it feels like. You kind of paint this perfect picture of it in your head. I wasn't disappointed the first time I had an orgasm even though I had high expectations. It wasn't quite what I was expecting and it took me completely by surprise. I'm just extremely grateful I could eventually get there.

[Anonymous]

I'd feel concerned, just because that's a way I release my irritability that builds up due to my hormonal disease. While I am a sexual person, sometimes I have to matstrubate when I'm not even in the mood just because it's been too long and I'm angry from it.

[Boppy]

If ejaculating still served to take the edge off, and I still felt all the pleasure building up to it, then I'd go C.
I already go for quick, slightly uncomfortable ones if I just need the release (after a few days without) . It'd be disappointing to miss out on the great ones, though.

If there was no feeling of relief, ever, then... It'd be like #nofap. I'd either wind up B or G.

[Elliegirl]

I’d be considerably disappointed, but I’ve had sex without having an orgasm before and it’s still fun and still feels good. It’s just better when I get at least one orgasm.

[Elliegirl]

Yes.

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

Honestly I'm used to it, so that'd not be a big deal.

[pierre7i]

I always orgasm whenever I ejaculate - every single time, be it through masturbation, sexual foreplay with a girl or sexual intercourse - so can only imagine it must be a very frustrating & upsetting thing for any guy who experiences that

[MrTuxedo]

Would I feel anything at all?
Like that feeling before orgasm isn't that bad either, so if I would still have that feeling I wouldn't bee too upset.

[mistixs]

did you vote?

[Dongtai]

I’d probably become a billionaire or something since I wouldn’t be so focused on girls. Dating is expensive 😂😂😂

[sawno]

Absolutely never would probably be quite devastating, but i love orgasm denial. So if i could make a deal with a demon that removes my sexual limit and thus makes me able to have sex any time i want and never experience blueballs in exchange for me only being able to reach orgasm once or twice per month i'd love that.

[ImagineSketchy]

Already feels like that now. Has me feeling like "What's the point of this sex thing?"

[jdhtx1]

OMG! Why would you even ask that question? Are you the type of chick that asks a guy that just bought a brand new car, if he's worried about getting into an accident right before he gets home because most accidents happen within 10 miles of your house? DUDE WASN'T EVEN THINKING THAT... then you show up... smh😬

This sounds like a question for the dude that just arrived in hell... with the hottest girl in the world...

I will not give the question any strength by answering it, and I think you should never ask this nightmarish question again...

Worst Question Ever!😬😂

[brigfrey25]

Ahhhhhh

[broken_heart_at_48]

I be pissed off and would probably turn the world upside down

[Shark_61695]

What is this pleasure you mention?

[Insightfull]

kill me now lol

[ZeussLightningBolt]

I never knew the difference so it wouldn't bother me

[mistixs]

Never knew the difference in what?

[ZeussLightningBolt]

I voted N

[ZeussLightningBolt]

... B

[ZeussLightningBolt]

I thought an ejaculation WAS an orgasm

[JSmuve]

Pfff, that's been my reality for the last 10 years.

[ActiveSh1tter]

For women I don't think that would be a big deal but for men it would terrible.

[Screenwriter]

Dude!!! For women it wouldn't be a big deal? What women do YOU know. It's a big fucking deal if you can NEVER orgasm. That release is worth its weight in gold, platinum and rhodium... Normal folks love this ability and how it makes them feel: warm, happy, relaxed. If you can't due to some illness or other disfunction that can't be treated... that's one thing that can't be resolved. But if you can fix it... I think 99 percent of people would fix this...

[bellapizza]

You clearly don't know nothing about woman lol

[ActiveSh1tter]

@Screenwriter search for Jessica Ann Pin

[mistixs]

@Jessicapin consistently argues in defense of the importance of female orgasm

[ActiveSh1tter]

Yes but 99% of women laugh at her for making a big deal about it.

[Screenwriter]

Those squeaky wheels clearly aren't getting greased in the proper manner. Give me orgasms and a man with warm feet...

[bellapizza]

Maybe they laughed because they feel ashamed for enjoying sex... because a woman who loves sex is seen as a slut

[ActiveSh1tter]

@bellapizza they also attack her and call her mentally ill for making such a fuss about a cut off clitoris.

[bellapizza]

What the heck country were they from?😂woman care about their own pleasure i don't know what the heck you were are watching but majority of womam dont think like that

[ActiveSh1tter]

@bellapizza they do. It's evolution. Trivializing sex and dismissing it is an adaptation to protect women from unplanned pregnancies.

[bellapizza]

Loool i am a woman with a vagina and i love sex

[bellapizza]

My orgasm is important and hopefully you also feel your womens orgasm is important because you saying this makes me question that lol

[ActiveSh1tter]

@bellapizza this is just a coping mechanism. Inside you know very well how disgusted you are of sexuality and how you hate men because they think about sex so much. Women wouldn't be so hysterical about rape if they didn't have an instinctive hatred of the big scary penis.

[bellapizza]

You avoided my question lol women act like they don't like sex because they get shamed for liking it i. e they get called sluts... rape is wrong in soo many levels

[bellapizza]

Not sure why y think u know what women think or feel because you dont have a vagina but here you are trying to speak for me

[ActiveSh1tter]

@bellapizza women are hysterical about rape because they have an instinctive hatred and disgust of the penis an of the male sexual lust. So they only tolerate it if they get paid, either through commitment or cash.

[bellapizza]

Okay now you making yourself sound like a rapist 😂man or women does not want to get raped we like a choice on our bodies

[Screenwriter]

Wow!! That is a dark, fascinating and quite profound comment. I think I agree with the basis of it...

[Screenwriter]

What ACTIVESHITTER said about women downplaying sexual interest, response... to protect themselves...

[ActiveSh1tter]

@Screenwriter I can't really tell if you're being sarcastic but whatever 😒

[Screenwriter]

It's not a hatred of the PENIS, it's what the penis can do: foster pregnancy, be an intstrument of terror and humiliation through rape... Women love men's bodies and their sex organs... They keep quiet about it for self preservation...

[ActiveSh1tter]

@Screenwriter "Women feel terror and disgust towards the penis"... "Women love the penis but they won't say it". So you see the contradiction?

[mistixs]

"Trivializing sex and dismissing it is an adaptation to protect women from unplanned pregnancies." it is evolution for women to trivialize and dismiss sex that is experienced with inadequate partners, but to enjoy sex with suitable partners. seems you were never a suitable partner

[ActiveSh1tter]

They can enjoy it but they don't give it any value and can be happier without it.

[Screenwriter]

This just isn't true. Maybe you've had odd partners. With partners they enjoy and value, women make it clear they enjoy and value sex with them. Terror and digust of sex/penis and men sounds like sex with traumatized women or women with no sexual experience or a minority of women who are sexually confused and are lesbians.

[ActiveSh1tter]

@Screenwriter it's the norm. Hatred and disgust of the penis isn't a result of women's fear of rape, it's the CAUSE of it.

[Screenwriter]

The cause of rape is psychotic males, a tiny minority, who want to dominate, humiliate and emotionally snuff out women. A few want to actually snuff out women, period... the Ted Bundys. Rapists cause rape, not their victims. A small percentage are women rapists.. So women rapists are clearly not disgusted by penises... But they're angry at them. Rape is a POWER crime fueled by anger. It involves sex, but it is about removing agency from the victim. The satisfaction rapists feel upon commission of rape isn't from ejaculating, it is from crushing a woman sexually, emotionally and taking her normal power to lead her life safely from her.

[ActiveSh1tter]

@Screenwriter the cause of rape is sexually aroused men wanting pussy. The reason women want to think it's about "power not sex" is because women inherently view sex as unimportant and trivial, so saying that rape is about sex in their minds trivializes rape. Case in point: Gay men don't rape women. They rape men.

[Screenwriter]

I didn't say rape wasn't about sex. It's about the POWER of sex to rob rape victims, who are forced into participating, of their agency. Of course gay men and gay-hating men rape men to wield power over and humiliate their victims. Any study shows that rapists were not men who couldn't easily have regular sex with women or gay men. It's not about regular sex. It's about the specific sex that involves hurting the victim. Most people are not aroused by the idea of hurting someone. Rapists are. Ordinary ass or pussy doesn't do it for rapists. They're sadists..

[ActiveSh1tter]

@Screenwriter rape is literally just sex. The sole difference between rape and sex is that the former is acquired by the man for free. Since women have a visceral hatred and disgust of the penis they only tolerate it if they get paid, never for free. That's why they consider rape so bad, because they have to "endure" the penis without getting paid anything in return. You will give me some melodrama about rape being "humiliating" and "violating" but that doesn't change that's it's just sex.

[Screenwriter]

NSA hookups are free. But they aren't rape. Same as friends with benefits sex. Rape is perpetrated by men who usually know their victims. It's sex that's forced and without consent on the woman's part. The difference is CONSENT. If rape were ONLY sex, there would be no complaints. It would be relegated to the bad sex ledger. But rape isn' t normal sext. It hurts physically and emotionally.. It wasn't solicited by the woman. Those are the differences.

[ActiveSh1tter]

@Screenwriter women who do hookups and casual sex always say the same thing as women who are raped, that they feel "used" and "worthless". Sex is something women always expect to be paid for. Rape is literally just sex she doesn't get paid for. Consent is acquired when she receives payment.

[Screenwriter]

Consent is REQUIRED BEFORE a couple HAS sex. It has nothing to do with money. If a person has not given an OK to have sex with them, THAT is rape. The only PAYOFF, which you have confused with financial transaction, both men and women desire is an emotional connection with the person they're having sex with. Both men AND women can feel empty if they're simply getting off with another person's body. However, that's not rape since consent was given and the aim wasn't to hurt the person you're having sex with. Rape is FORCED sex with a person you have NOT GIVEN YOUR CONSENT TO HAVE SEX WITH. In fact, rape is when you have EXPLICITLY told a person you DO NOT want to have sex with them. You have told them to STOP what they are doing, you have said NO, to the consent question and they ignore you for their own reasons.

[ActiveSh1tter]

@Screenwriter payment doesn't have to be financial. It can be in the form of commitment (which itself results in acquirement of his finances). Either way the simple fact is women never give sex for free, they give it in return for commitment or cash. Free sex is by definition rape and women find it exploitative and disgusting. You claim rape is about "lack of consent" rather than "lack of payment" but consent and payment are the same thing since she doesn't give consent without receiving payment. For example if I steal a product from a store you'd say I didn't payment for it; the lack of consent is is just another term for the lack of payment.

[ActiveSh1tter]

*didn't pay for it

[Screenwriter]

"Commitment" does not automatically result in the acquirement of a man's finances. Women DO engage in sex for sex's sake, or "free", just as men do. Consent is NOT equivalent to money. Commitment is no guaranty of financial support or exchange. People often say they "love" someone when their goal is to acquire sex from them momentarily. There is no actual commitment. But if the other party believes the lie, they give consent and sexual access. No charge of rape can occur because one party lied, however. Even if consent was acquired through deceit. And such sex is usually about having access for sexual pleasure, not for emotionally or physically damaging someone, though the lie will eventually emotionally injure the person. The point being: You are mistaken in believing women are not equally attracted to men and their genitals and their only attraction to men is acquiring their finances in what could only be called an exploitative arrangement for both parties. Men get regular sex and offspring for access to a woman's vagina and womb. Women get a measure of financial protection for themselves and their offspring and childrearing success. To lower loving relationships to that level is pathetic. I don't know what's happened to you to be so sour about sexual relationships, but I don't know any women who married men for anything other than their love of the person and their joy in being with them and having children with them. I'm sad for you if that's been your experience. Regards.

[ActiveSh1tter]

@Screenwriter "Even if consent was acquired through deceit" funny you mention that since studies show most women believe that should be prosecuted as rape. Women don't marry broke jobless men, that is proof that sex always costs men money. If women didn't have an inherent hatred and disgust of the penis they wouldn't make all this drama about rape being violating and soul-crushing. They would see rape as just sex, which is what it actually is.

[Screenwriter]

Maybe if men didn't marry broke, jobless women there would be equity in commitment. Why would men, in effect, "pay" for commitment? I think both partners should provide income in a relationship. Sometimes one or the other will contribute more or less: during pregnancy, birth, early childhood breaks, during education or training breaks. But your adhering to women being disgusted by male anatomy and sex is bizarre. Men tricking women into sex, just as women tricking men into marriage via pregnancies., or worst, lies about pregnancy, is deceit, but not rape. If a woman has pleasant sex with a man who says he loves her, but he really doesn't, well, that's on her. Maybe be more selective with sexual partners. Rape involves force, anger, humiliation, pain. If a woman has good sex with a man who ultimately ends up NOT being a good person, that isn't rape. Just like if a man has sex with a gold digger. He or she ultimately finds out they've been deceived. Tricked, yes. Raped, no.

[Jamie05rhs]

Well, if I was still single (and feeling pessimistic about my prospects), then I would probably be happy. Because this would mean that it would be easier not to masturbate, being that there would be no physical reward.

[Tunasub]

I would need to orgasm...

[that_one_chick]

As long as he has fun

[Stu023]

Freedom! Seriously, I'd probably end up getting a PhD