How would you react if you caught your teenage son or daughter having sex with their boyfriend or girlfriend?

Would you be upset or shocked? Would you be disappointed or embarrassed? Would you ground/punish them afterwards, give them the talk again, or both? Would you hope they were being safe and wearing protection?

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  • If it was my daughter I'd prob let the mother do the afterward talk as I'm sure it's a female discussion needed but with the guy with her, we would be having words, I'd say if he pushed her into it in anyway or if he breaks her heart, hurts her in any way I will break every bone in his body.

    If it was my son I caught I'd make sure he was safe because if he got that girl pregnant he will take responsibility, no ifs, no bits...

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  • I'm sure they would be very embarrassed and I would be somewhat shocked. What happened next would depend on their age. If they were a young teenager they would probably be grounded for life and be given the talk again. Hopefully after all the talks we have had over the years they were smart enough to use protection.

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  • Probably more embarrassed than anything else, but also a touch upset with her. I would not bring it up again nor would I try grounding or anything else as I know from my own past that it would never accomplish anything.

    • Very true. In high school was walked in by her mother. She was bringing in clean laundry. Her mother put the basket on dresser said, don't stop have fun. Then she walked out.

    • @Mansearching WOW! That woman would be voted Mother Of The Century by most all teen girls especially and likely most guys as well. She sounded like she was one step from asking if you needed any help! LOL

    • No. She was embarrassed. When we were leaving her mom was red as red could get. She couldn't look at us in the eye. She did talk to us later. Asked us to put something outside of door, as a warning. And she was happy we were there instead of an ally, car or a dirty by the hour hotel.

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  • I would apologize, quickly and leave them to it, after all, they are only doing what comes naturally,

    • Another woman admitting she a hoe

    • @Jdjfjcjj your an un-celled brainless idiot, and should be banned fromGAG

    • @Jdjfjcjj you can't even spell the word, its whore

  • None of the above because they would have told me that they were enjoying and I would have ensured that they had taken care of safety and contraception.

    • @ushagomez what kind of safety you will ensure?

    • @Prince_09 she's 22. Her answers are reflective of her currently being in her finding herself phase

    • @Jdjfjcjj she have boyfriend

  • I be pissed at the beginning but i'd probably be that weird parent that makes them get their asses dressed and tell me the details of what was going on. Was there condoms involved? Why did they do this rn now? How long this been going on?

    And when I got the story... make sure they do it safely and want them to tell me when they wanna go at it so I can buy them one night in a nice motel somewhere. Don't want to nasty "juices" in my funkin' house

  • A little taken aback, but I'd let them finish, and then ask that they get dressed and come talk to me on the couch. We'd have a discussion about what's going to happen next. Sort this out like rational beings. But they'd know they went too far, and that they had to take responsibility.

  • well i did it so i know they're going to

  • As you know teens have sex. Most of did. I would talk with him/her and say to be more discreet and have a long talk about birth control. Even offer to buy them condoms. They are going to have sex even if punished or grounded.

  • c'est la vie

  • Say "excuse me" and then let them finish. Later, merely ensure that protection is being used, preferably by both of them. Move on.

  • I would be ok with it

  • A) they wouldn't have a boyfriend or girlfriend

    B) I would beat their asses. badly.

  • I would turn a blind eye and let them fuck-away and hope he is wearing a 'rubber'. Later get her on the pill. If you caught them fucking, you KNOW they are fucking elsewhere.

  • Well you start, one is much different than the other

  • Would you be upset or shocked?
    Nope

    Would you be disappointed or embarrassed?
    Nope

    Would you ground/punish them afterwards, give them the talk again, or both?
    Nope

    Would you hope they were being safe and wearing protection?
    Yes because abortions are expensive

    I don't care what they do, long as it's consenting and no adults are involved. If an adult was going on my kid, consenting or not, the cops will never find what's left of em.

    • To me, abortion is never an acceptable answer, even if money weren't an issue. Making a baby get the death penalty because the parents were reckless is just fundamentally perverse!

    • 1. This is 3 months old. 2. I don't give a shit about your opinion. I didn't ask you.

    • Then why so much anger?

  • Throw a bucket of ice water on them and yell, "BAD DOGGY!! BAD DOGGY!!".

  • Are they legal adults? Are they using protection? If not, I feel a lecture brewing!

  • i would tell the girl to get dressed and go home and I would give my son a lecture about responsibilities and tell him if he got her pregnant he would be responsible for that baby and it would change the whole course of his life.

  • As long as they are using protection, I would be OK with it.

  • I probably wouldn't care and would just pretend I didn't see it

    If they have a kid or get STDs, then it's their problem, not mine

  • I don't know. Haven't had to deal with that.

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