Guys, what makes a guy who's in a relationship think it's ok to watch porn after saying he'll stop? ?

[SoDisrespectful]

She is understandably hurt each time. Yet, you continue to do so behind her back.

It wouldn't be ok if she kicked you in the nuts every day simply because she enjoyed it. In fact, every person would be calling her abusive and telling him he's abused / severely mistreated. Yet, guys do this everyday while acting as if it's "normal" to just ignore their partner after she's telling him he's hurting her. Is it because you enjoy it so much? So does that mean because she thoroughly enjoys kicking your nuts everyday, she finds it therapeutic or entertaining in does that jake it ok for her to continue doing it?

[Anonymous]

There is a continuous and nagging imperitive for men, some more then others, that women do not understand because they do not have it. It's not necessarily about enjoyment, it's about emotional and physical health.

Women have a habit of deciding they just don't want sex or it's a lot priority or they weaponised it and make it conditional. They assume their partner will just deal with it without cheating. Well this is one way they can deal with it.

You may feel hurt by it. Many men feel hurt by constant rejection from the one they love. Comparing this to physical violence is not appropriate and dismissive.

[MisterWack]

I wouldn’t use a kick to the nuts as an example since p*rn is entertainment just as watching movies & tv shows, reading magazines, playing video games would classify as entertainment. While kicking your partner in the testicles is abuse and can cause rupture, irreversible damage, loss of fertility which is really serious. P*rn is fueled by horniness and if the male or female partner (since women watch p*rn too) is horny they will have a need to masturbate, if it is truly an issue then dump them. Just know that just because he jerks it to p*rn doesn’t mean he loves you less or finds you unattractive, maybe try asking him why does it, how you feel about him doing it, which will then lead to a compromise. I don't know just my take

[Tim2nice]

Why are you threatened by porn? I’d rather divorce my wife than have her control my life

[SoDisrespectful]

"threatened"? Never said that. Problem is he's continuing same hurtful behavior despite the harm its causing me ( generally spwaking about womaen and men in relationships ) everybody know if I got a thrill out of kicking him in the nuts every morning ( Its entertaining, it's fun and releases stress ) "so I'm just going to keep doing it because I enjoy it and besides he's being a big baby" You all think that would fly?

[SoDisrespectful]

Really? So it would be ok then, if your wife regularly engaged in sexual arousal and release by inviting mr GG Q model, 6 pack abs and 10" shlong, to sit naked 6" away from her while she's naked, while she masturbates, he masturbates, they both get off. Later tgat rvening when you initiate sex, she in not interested & falls asleep. Leaving you unfulfilled. So she had another man take your place, one thats supposed to be shared by the two of you. She never touched him and he never touched her so there's no cheating there pal. she's not cheating and you objecting is intervening in "HER life" ( MIND YOU you're married but HER LIFE ,) You should be perfectly ok with that then. Hahaha you'll be divorced within 3 years. And ai guarantee you, that would NOT BE OKAY with you either! One thinga for certain, YOU were not included yet another man was. You certainly weren't in her thoughts at the time. Same exact situation as your porn/masturbatuon sessions. Total cheating. Youd have a cow.

[Tim2nice]

I would have absolutely no problem with my wife doing anything she likes as long as she meets my needs. She can stick anything inside her, real or artificial. She can have a gang bang if it makes her happy. I’m not jealous one iota. But you clearly aren’t compatible

[bowenw]

He's may be addicted and is no different from an alcoholic saying he will stop but can't resist it.

[Iron_Man]

At your age, if he’s been watching porn for many many years, are they really gonna stop come on? Don’t be fooled by him

[SoDisrespectful]

Left him long time ago

[Iron_Man]

Oh I see

[boobliker]

why not, you girls go to the loo in threes or fours thats very odd

[SoDisrespectful]

Completely irrelevent and doesn't hurt the person I claim to love.

[boobliker]

nore dose porn it just a tv show

[dudewithnoname]

Id say he watches it because your not around him enough from long distance or you're actions and words aren't matching…maybe next time you are together just grab him up and have you way with him..

[MasterKS]

because you making porn a biggest sin and he as a human keep doing same sin.