How would you react in this scenario?

#1 How would you react if you walked in and caught your 12 year old partially undressing as they were about to take a nude to send to a classmate?
#2 How would you react if the kid told you “i was only doing what i thought i say mommy/daddy (aka you) doing to eachother?
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  • #1 If I walked in and caught my 12 year old partially undressing as they were about to take a nude to send to a classmate, I would be quite disturbed.

    #2 I would have to have a conversation with the kid who told me "I was only doing what i thought i saw you doing to each other."

  • The new picture one. I would loose my mind. And then talk to them and tell them how that is not okay. And they shouldn't be doing that until they are in relationship. Aka when they are adults. Lol


    The other one. It will be time for "the talk". Lol

    • The new picture what?

    • Sorry, nude picture. Lol

  • My kid is 11 right now and we have a strict rule no phone until he can pay for one. So we about 5 more years before that. But if it was to happen I’d whip his ass and then talk with him about it

    • Lmao and damn

  • 1. I will ask her what she is doing and ask him/her for the phone/ camera.
    2. I would give the kid the talk about sex

    • Good

  • She learns from the best.

    • 😭😭😭💀

  • i'd just be cool respond and talk about it as parents your responsible for what your children get exposed to and ya can be hyprocritical if ya wan't but that won't go well with your children don't get me wrong im a freak myself but ya gotta know when to turn your freak on and off

    • Lmao true

  • I would whoop his ass and tell him about dangers of sending nudes across net which later someone can use against him or her. So many toxic ex boyfriends/ girlfriends puting nudes of exes just to hurt them.

    • Someone on here finally opened up a can of whoopass lmao
      How would you react in this scenario?

  • Never been in that situation, so I don't know how I would react TBH.

    • Its a scenario lol

    • Yeah, I probably will initially freak out and then eventually calm down and try to resolve it by talking.

  • Happened to you? @DizzyDesii

    • I dont do nudes so no

  • Get they ass beat

    • 😂😂😂

  • 1. Stop them and explain that it is illegal for them to do that.
    2. Tell them that we are married and sexual activity between two married adults is where sexual activity is encouraged.

    • I like

    • Thanks.

  • This happened to me... though my stepdaughter was 13...
    We were pissed obviously took her phone etc... then we found out he was 18 and had been sending her nude pics... using her phone i was able to make contact with his mother and went over and showed her the message and pics... he was kicked out... he I guess moved in with his dad across the country. last i herd he knocked up two 2-14y olds... and the police were involved

    • Wow he's trash

    • i'm glad the police were involved... he needs to get behind bars for that one. i hope he's not roaming this world free...

  • Take away their phone and give them a harsh talking to. And if they answer that, then say "Only when you're 21 and older.". Then I'd hope they think about how stupid it was over the 9 years I give them and they'll never do it.

    • Haha 9 years to think on it. I like

  • My grandma is the coolest and she said that the internet has made all of the past couple generations more open about sharing. Things are a lot different now.

  • A 12 year old knows better than to say “I am only doing what you’re doing”
    12 year old’s aren’t that stupid.

    • 12 year olds these days are smartasses and sarcastic. They’d totally throw shade and say they did it because they saw you do it lol

  • i wouldn't care, but maybe thats a good reason why i won't and shouldn't have kids... i dont care about anything

    • but then again i shoudnt even be invaded in their privacy n walking in their room in the first place... whatever they do behind that close door is their own freedom, id knock

    • my kids can do whatever they want, aslong as it isn't getting into a strangers car or talking to pedos online, i dont care

  • I'm not a father, but I imagine this is becoming very common these days?

    1) how would I know this? Did you ask what they were doing and they told you? Myself, I probably wouldn't have asked? I also wouldn't just "walk in" without knocking or anything (about respecting their privacy, regardless of age).

    2) That statement doesn't make sense to me? And seems ridiculous also (aka bulls*&t) lol

    I think I'd "react" by having a talk with them (calmy - not getting angry or "punishing them"), about the dangers of sending nudes (especially for a girl), and also that they are underage.