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Sexual Health I am 23 never masturbated and don't want to, is that weird?
Laciandmaci Xper 7
I have a high want for sex (still a virgin). But I do not want, or feel the wanting for masturbation. Is not masturbating strange at my age. I never once even tried and I do not want to!
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my sex drive is not HIGH but I eventually want to experience when married! I mean I want sex when married only. I am catholic.
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15 69Not sure, but same goes for me :D
If you don't want to do it, then don't do it. It's entirely up to you. You're not doing doing anything wrong either way.
Whatever works for you. Fuck what anyone else thinks.
okay thank you friend!!! <3
you're welcome
Masturbating is healthy and it prepares a vagina for sex in advance making it hurt less. Not telling you what to do but I recommend you start
I don't think you're strange, but why do you dislike masturbation? You say that you have a desire to eventually have sex right? If that's the case it might be a good idea to "get to know yourself" and discover what you like and how you like it. Because if you have no idea what turn's you on, your first experience will likely be underwhelming.
I am catholic so I do not believe in it.
Fair enough.
thanks
Ewww.. You are weird!.
I am too a virgin.. And never had sex.. Wants sex...
But I Masturbate a lot..
As long as I am healthy I Masturbate once daily...
I love it..
It's amazing..
Masturbation at your age is not strange, i do it all the time thinking of my girlfriend when i can't have sex with my girlfriend. It's all desire wanting to do. So if you wanna touch yourself down there, just go ahead, because that's normal.
Just don't tell anyone. Well, maybe your shrink. Seek one out. Seriously.
Excuse me get sexually assaulted once (not vaginal) and see if you want to be touched sexually! Just because I am catholic and want to wait until marriage is not a mental issues, it is a personal value! Also I have bad ptsd, so I am on med from a shrink. thanks for the insult.
Ah, claiming to be a victim again. Got it. Yes, you're a complete moron. Oh well.
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Yeah, thats pretty odd, do you also feel exausted by any chance? cuz being horny and not fapping is usually from not having the energy to keep up with the speed or rhythm needed to orgasm. Only other reason I can think of is religion based punishment phobias.
I am Catholic
1. How do you have a high want for sex but not a high sex drive? 2. If you know that the reason you aren't masturbating is you are religious, then whats the question about? are you asking if it's weird to be catholic? Cuz I mean, yeah, it is, believing in anything you can't verify is, so all religions are weird. I'm honestly not sure what you are trying to figure out here.
Just come out of this thought and try once masterbating. You will get with flow and start liking it.
If like to talk can dm me
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You’re probably asexual
I am waiting till marriage plus catholic, so I do not believe in sex before marriage or masturbation. I want to have sex just waiting.
No not at all that’s not a problem I know you real well
thank you! Please explain in a PM
I just tried to figure out the rest of it
oh okay haha you do know me well
Yes I do
haha!!! <3
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It's perfectly fine. Consider it a blessing. I sometimes wish I had never discovered that ability.
It's okay. I have a friend who is also like you. She's a virgin with a REALLY high sex drive, but she doesn't masturbate because she wants a man to touch her.
Start masturbating, you will love it.
It for sure doesn’t sound common, but I wouldn’t call it weird. In fact, I strongly envy that. I’m sure it would help make your first time feel more special. I don’t think it’s right to masturbate, and it’s an extremely difficult addiction to quit... Do yourself a favor and don’t start. Save that curiosity for your future husband. :)
No some women don't masturbate either they are too scared or just against it. However saying that most people should masturbate so they understand there body more it find there most arousing parts of there body and also gets you ready for hsving sex when you finally do.
Masterbating is not strange. It a way to relieve stress. There's nothing wrong if you did it.
Well, you definitely aren’t in the majority, but everyone is different. You be you!
Never knew anyone could have a high sex drive yet never have masturbated to even know what sex feels like
Still can’t figure out how you can know you have a high sex drive if you never experienced it yourself in either form. It’s ok you want to wait till marriage and don’t want to masturbate but you wouldn’t know you have a higher drive than normal unless you were doing one or the other
It does seem a little odd to me, but hey, we're all different & if it's not for you, that's good enough.