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Sexual Health Guys, I am very insecure about my breasts and need some advice?
Haenim Xper 4
Hi there. So, I've been dealing with insecurity just like any other woman does. I'm 5'10", slender, in shape, and when I look at my body I think it's all right; I really have no reason to complain. However, when I involve myself with a man I usually start to get really insecure and worry that he would rather have something else. I've been an A cup my whole life, and recently had a fat transfer procedure to get to a B cup but I'm still barely a B... and now I'm feeling stupid for being so insecure about myself to the point where I paid a good amount of money to alter something that is so insignificant. Yeah, my confidence went up a little but not a ton. Now I'm here thinking about fake tits when I really don't like the idea of having something foreign in my body. But if it will make me feel feminine and sexy, maybe it's worth it. I don't know. I'm digressing. I have recently committed myself to a serious relationship with somebody who loves me unconditionally. More and more often I feel bad about my small breasts and that he would probably prefer somebody with at least a little shape to them. I've even brought it up to him before and he says that he loves them now and he would love them if I decided to augment them simply because my confidence is sexy to him and as long as I am comfortable in my body that's all that matters. How could I ask for more? I feel that my insecurity is deeply rooted and quite frankly, irrational. How can I stop worrying that I am not good enough for my boyfriend and that he would be more satisfied with something else? My mind is really getting the best of me here and I need to fix it before I let it take control of me and possibly my relationship. Please help. The simple fact that he says he loves my body does not make me feel better. I don't know what to do.
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What Guys Said
(20)I think almost every guy would prefer natural smaller breasts over fake big ones. Just remember that there are as many preferences as there are men in the world, and there is definitely someone out there that thins you look prefect.
You don't have any anything to be insecure about. You sound fine to me.
using imagination since on pics
You are right to feel insecure. No man wants a woman with small breasts, but if you use your personality and have a nice ass, or give good head he will overlook it. I imagine it's the same way how women say they can tolerate a small penis.
I wouldn't want my girlfriend to have work done no matter her size. For real as long you let him play with them im sure he's cool about them.
You're thinking about it way too much. To me natural breasts are best whether that be an A or a double D. If it's really bothering you then get them done and make yourself happy.
Please don't get fake tits, they are weird and real men like the realness of natural tits! My girlfriend had the same problem because her tits are small, but they are so soft and fun to play with and suck on! I love them and wouldn't change them even if I could. Its not about the size, be confident with those tits giirrlllll, when your having sex put your partners hands on them and let him feel real breast, not fake ones! There's nothing wrong with your B cups, take it from me, I've been around the block more than once and love my gfs small pretty ta ta's lol
see a shrink. he happy but you are not, women love no win questions, do I look fat in this out fit. I love big ones but fell in love with A- just don't be mad if look my ex had great one I could play with them for hours but she was unhappy, great one was not wroth the hell I paid. I love her A- and all.