I am worried I may be asexual but I don’t want to be?
The thing is, when I finally got with this guy and go back to his place, his kissing technique was poor (I think). It felt sloppy, it felt like he’d never done it before. He wanted to have sex but I suddenly realised I didn’t want to and so went home.
I started dating him to give him chance, but he didn’t meet my expectations of him at all. In fact, I look at him now and sometimes think I don’t find him physically attractive. Sometimes I do, sometimes I don’t, is that normal?
However, on a night out he started touching me in ways that made me want to have sex with him there and then. That’s the first time I’ve ever felt like that, but when I got back to his bedroom again, I suddenly was turned off my him. I must add, before I ever meet him I get extremely nervous.
I'm scared I’m asexual cause I really want to have sex with an attractive man. I have found very very typically hot men attractive, but when I see them sex doesn’t pop into my head straight away! A few years ago I started seeing a very attractive man who kissed amazingly but when it came to having sex, I just got very very nervous and chickened out. Am I just over expecting sexual attraction and not meeting the right men?
I find only a few attractive men hot which worries me, I also don’t walk down the street and feel sexual attraction to random guys! Do I sound normal? I fantasise about myself having sex with men all the time but when it comes to doing it, something isn’t right,
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