I can’t handle causal sex but I don’t want to be alone?

the only time he’s really talking to me is when we’re having sex. I can’t handle friends with benefits emotionally. I get depressed but I also don’t what to leave the situation. I don’t know what to doooo

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Superb Opinion

  • That's a situationship that's not good for you. You know yourself in that you know you can't handle a friends with benefits lifestyle, which is good that you're self-aware, but you feel torn and don't want to let him go. I think you should walk away from that thing altogether. Don't live in confusion, especially if you know it's not going to be good for you emotionally.

    • Do you have any tips to help. We go to the same college and is in the same class. I’m always seeing him around which makes it harder

    • @issayasmina Well, that's going to be your test of strength, and probably the best test. You gotta find it in yourself to tell him you don't want that anymore. He'll probably try to hold on to you and manipulate your feelings or even beg you - guys do this stuff all the time to keep women they know they're successfully controlling. So you'll have to find the strength and courage to give that up. You can do it. And next time, try not to get involved with someone in your school. I know we get connected with lovers like that all the time, and the same thing with workplace relationships, but it doesn't necessarily mean it's the best thing to do.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Don't give them sex, if they can't treat you like a girlfriend first. There is a reason why there is traditional rules for how women should behave. Because that is the best balance for both genders. It's not patriarchy, because that what we got now women spreading their for free for any man with status. How does this benefit anyone but the rich?

    • I understand but I have sexual needs. Yes I can use a toy however I crave the physical intimacy and affection of a person

    • You are an adult you should be able to handle your wants and needs. Just because I want sex, doesn't mean I would do it with any woman who is up for it. Besides the longer you go without the easier it is to handle.

Most Helpful Girl

  • try to meet other men that want relationship

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • U need to decide what to do nobody can do it for you do u want attention in exchange for your body or find someone that wants more

    • I want to find someone that wants more but this dating world isn’t into such things. Nobody wants relationships anymore I’m afraid the good guys are gone

    • Thats not true lol I got with my girl 6 years ago dating was the same there with people saying the same thing

  • Date someone else.

  • Date a republican, we're not crazy about the friends with benefits and the real ones date to marry.

  • Can't have your cake and eat it too!

  • You've gotta leave the situation and find someone who actually wants to give you want you want