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Sexual Health I had a threesome with my boyfriend and a friend and now I'm secretly seeing this guy. What should I do?
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My boyfriend and I had a threesome with a guy (he told me to decide who was the second guy and I picked up a guy suo hitted on me in the past and whom I had refused because of my boyfriend). We had sex and it was mind-blowing. I asked my boyfriend to do it again but he refused. He said he couldn't handle another man with me again. So I began sleeping with this guy. I know it's wrong, but I couldn't help it. I just wish we could be together, alla three of us. What should I do?
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What Girls & Guys Said
28 44This is the exact reason... threesomes are a bad idea when you are in a relationship.
Really didn't need the backstory... you're cheating on your boyfriend.
If you want the other guy so badly then break up with your boyfriend... he doesn't deserve this.
This is exactly why I would never even consider having a threesome while in a relationship.
Quit being a cheating sack of shit and end things with your boyfriend.
Break up with your boyfriend and have causal sex with the new guy
Good. That's what he gets for wanting a three some
Are you serious?
@Indigocloud dude don't bother wasting your time comenting on this shit.
@Matchmaker7072 Dude
yup. they both opened the door to this.
He deserves better.
Watch the movie savage... that's kinda exactly what It was, three way relationship. She needed both guys because each had parts of them that completed her
For this to work the guys have to be close buds regardless of you being in the picture or not
Reason #1 of why I'd never have a threesome.
You should stop cheating on your boyfriend.
Lol exactly wbat I thought about as well
@DocRim it just isn't logical.
That's a really tough situation. It sounds like your boyfriend was not 100% for the threesome to begin with, which is a shame. I really wish I could find a girl who'd be into open relations/threesomes, so I kind of envy your BF's position even though he isn't into it. I just reall you ove watching my girl get railed by other guys. It's so hot!
Sounds to me like you should either break up with your boyfriend if you can't handle being without the new guy, or chose to only be with your boyfriend.
I feel bad for your boyfriend
Its very unlikely to work. All you can do is be honest about it and ask for it. Then you have your choice to make.
Lol. This is why most men do not want to get with women who have threesomes.
Also, this shows how stupid men are who allow themselves to be cucked. Your boyfriend is a loser. Just leave him.
But from now on in the future with every guy you hook up with more than casually you should be directly upfront with them about this.
Don't hide it from them and spring it on them when you're engaged or something like another woman did on here.
You only can suffer in silence.
This reminds me of a quote by Johnny Depp. "If you love two people at the same time, choose the second, because if you really loved the first one, you wouldn't have fallen for the second."
this is screwed up lol
Break up with him. He doesn't deserve the shit you're doing to him. You can only put all your attention on one man not two. But now you're left with zero.
You gotta dump one
Leave your boyfriend. You guys experimented and he didn't like it. Without some kind of agreement what you're doing is cheating. Saying "I couldn't help it" doesn't void responsibility. You always have a choice in life.
Try and get a 3way relationship / open relationship or just keep things secret with the second guy
Kill yourself. Preferably with a suicide vest so you take out your cuck boyfriend too.