I had sex with my ex with a restraining order against me?

[Anonymous]

Will I get in trouble if my ex has a restraining order against me but we are still having sex? It’s a temporary restraining order.

[Anonymous]

As long as the order is active, yes, you could potentially be arrested for violating it. You’re playing with fire because he could use that restraining order to set you up. I’m guessing that the fact the order exists in the first place means things have not always been amicable between the two of you. If you want to continue with him, you should insist that he have the restraining order lifted. He can absolutely do that.

[Asker]

What about messaging eschewed other on social media?

[Opinion Owner]

From what I understand, social media contact could violate the restraining order depending on whether it contains a no contact order.

[Asker]

I think that it’s just to stay 100 feet away from him and his home and job

[Opinion Owner]

Was a copy served to you? It should have the exact terms of the order on it but like I said at the top, if the 2 of you are going to carry on having sex with each other, ask him to have it lifted so it doesn’t come back to bite you.

[TroyDT]

It depends. It could be a crime for you. It could be considered that his action waived the TRO. It could also be a crime for both of you depending upon the wording. Check the laws and the specifics of the TRO. Some are stay away (no contact). Some are peaceful contact. Also check to see if in the jurisdiction the person with the retraining order can waive it. His willingness to have sex with you is prima facie evidence that he did so.

[Anonymous]

That sounds jacked up. He has a restraining order against you, but is still having sex with you? What is the restraining order for? He must not be totally behind it if he is having sex with you under the restraining order. This is an odd set of circumstances.

[dustybiker]

Courts generally don’t like their time wasted.

[TheBigWhistle]

My understanding is that restraining orders are not applicable or enforceable if the sex is really good. But be prepared to demonstrate in court exactly what was done that made the sex so great.

[spartan55]

Sounds like a great situation...🙄...

[20yearsolder]

It is for some reason if he contacts a police and says you broke the restraining order then you're going to jail for fucking him. I wouldn't take the risk if I were you

[Th3ft]

Yes! Don’t go near him!

[AviatorTom]

You know the answer... YES

[Revenant_Titan]

I had a kid with my ex while we had a no contact order active! I think you’ll be okay 😅

[Asker]

Did you get one on her?

[Revenant_Titan]

She had one on me but she never once tried to use it against me! We played it safe and it eventually expired. Regardless I did run a huge risk if I ever got caught with her, but it’s up to you if you decide you want to risk it.

[Asker]

What about messaging on Instagram?

[Revenant_Titan]

I think messaging is fine as long as you’re not within a certain proximity of him, that’s why it’s a restraining order and not a no contact order, those are much worse as they prohibit you from contacting the person.

[Asker]

He lied on me because I found out he has a long time girlfriend and we been talking for a year.

[242plusInfinity]

Oh honey, I don't know but be careful. You must've got it for a reason. Ask your lawyer. or ask the girl who has a boyfriend that is a lawyer. I forget her name on here.

[Zebadee88]

Sounds like you need therapy

[VikingWarLord]

what type of weird BS is this?

[AsaKyo]

Guess that's your problem

[JPresidente]

Dang girl, y'all gonna do the Jailhouse Rock next?

[Havthrills]

If he has a restraining order against you, why is he going against it to see you?

[Staximus]

You will go to jail if you get caught, smart guy

[kellytheman]

Yeah if someone blabs about it and tell the authorities and since it's temporary it depends how temporary.

[msc545]

You might if she gets angry and complains you violated the order.

[goodgirlsteven]

Yup! be super careful not to piss him off!

[Anonymous]

No it’s only if he decides to call the police on you during that time which would be pretty stupid if he is getting sex

[Anonymous]

It must be bad if he has a restraining order against you. The sex must be worth ignoring all the bad.

[Anonymous]

“You can’t come within 5 inches of me!”... But luckily that cock is 7 inches or so 😏

[Anonymous]

If you don't want to get into trouble than stay away from the guy.