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Sexual Health I have a daughter/daddy fetish, is it wrong?
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I'm not talking about incest, i'm talking about the fact that I am a young woman (24 going going on 25 in two day) and I am attracted to men old enough to be my dad. preferbably men in their 40's. That seems like a prime age for men. They seem to be at their best in their 40's. Super masculine, mature looking and they know how to please a woman. Here's my issue, I've never actually been with an older man before. In fact, I haven't been sexual with a man in 6 years. I was somewhat of a born again virgin, trying to wait for marraige but i can't wait. I want to role play and pretend I am his daughter with pigtails and he is my daddy. I know it is sick and I hate myself for it but all I crave is older men. I dont like men my own age. :( I know my own father. He was around when I was a child. He never molested me or anything but our relationship did become strained in my teen years.
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4 22Not that uncommon.
I'm like you in reverse. I'm in my late 30's but attracted to younger girls. I'm in no way a creeper or would never do anything wrong. I just feel I relate better with younger girls for some reason. I get along really well with some of them actually and some almost treat me like I'm in their age group. I guess looking younger helps in my situation. I don't know why I feel like I do but I just do
How young u like em daddy?
Depends on the girl. How mature she is. 21 - 25 maybe. I've even found 18 attractive before. That sounds so wrong
Is 25-26-27 too old for my daddy daughter fantasies? I wish I was into this when I was younger. Would have been more effective
lol I don't know. I guess you're never too old to have fantasies. I've even had an 18 year old interested in me. She was surprised when I told her my age. But it didn't seem to discourage her which surprised me
U like younger girls. I can tell
I guess. I don't know why
Because they are youthful and beautiful. I mean don't go under 18 pal. Keep it legal.
Of course keep it legal. I think you're right. I love their youthfulness and they're just so much fun
Maybe you miss your own youth and think you'll regain it through her?
I missed some of my youth. Some bad stuff happened to me and I had to grow up quickly. Yet in a strange way I still feel really youthful
I understand. Don't focus too much on the past. Embrace getting older. find the good in it.
What bad happened to u baby?
Oh yeah I do. I don't think about age anymore. It really is just a number.
Sexual abuse. Someone I should've been able to trust betrayed that trust
awww, im so sorry that happened. :( was it a woman?
Thanks. I'm ok. It was a long time ago so I'm well and truly over it now. No a man 😕
OMG. did you ever... question your sexuality? Do you struggle with your sexuality because of it?
No way. I'm as straight as a ruler. I like girls and only girls. He only touched me inappropriately. Nothing else thank God. But it messed me up emotionally at the time. But I'm totally fine now
I was just a kid
How did it affect u emotionally? Did u ever have problems with women? Like were u shy or nervous or were u a ladies man with commitment problems. I think it's sick a grown man would touch a little boy. God will handle him for u. I pray for peace within for u. I was sexually abused too.
It put me back in my shell and I lost all confidence in myself. I also couldn't cope with school and I left early. It had been going on subtly for years but it got worse when I was in the early stages of pubity. It was then I was old enough to realise something wasn't right and I told my parents. They delt with it and we didn't see that person anymore. It was a relative. No I never had problems with women but it did make me lose confidence and I was a lot more shy. And thank you so much. I have total peace these days and my life is completely turned around. I'm confident as ever. God did take care of me. I would've been a total mess if I didn't know him. I still have a few little insecurities but nothing like I used to be. I believe that relative that did that stuff to me is really sick these days from what I've heard. So you reap what you sow. And I'm sorry to hear it happened to you too. If you don't mind me asking how bad was it for you?
I'm glad you told your parents and you dealt with it. good to hear you've coped with it well. shame on that person. people are so sick and twisted. I was 7 years old ad my dad's ex wife used to come to my room and sleep in my bed, naked. she would put her breast against me and wrap her legs around me and in between my legs. honestly, i liked it and i thought i was lesbian for a long time. i never told my mom or dad and i never will. im insecure, shy around guys and i had unnatural affections toward women. i still do but i prefer men.
That was wrong of her to do that. And you were so young. At that age you don't understand things like an adult and to you it was normal because you probably trusted her. I was 8 when mine started. But don't ever blame yourself. I hope you don't. It must be hard for you to keep it bottled up inside. I really pray too that you're ok and you find peace. I would hug you if I was there. Maybe because of what happened is why you're looking for security in an older guy? There's reasons for everything and it doesn't make you a bad person. So don't hate yourself
its possible. i sorta feel like my dad failed in protecting me. i felt he could have done more. i dont blame myself for what she did but i did feel guilty that i liked the feeling it gave me. i was looking forward to her coming to lay with me every night after that but she stopped. i felt like i was sick in the head.. thank u for your kind words though...
You're welcome. And the thing is a lot of these cases it's someone close to you or a relative that does it. It's common and that's scary to think how many other people are in this situation or have been before. So I guess since it was your dads wife at the time he wouldn't have thought it was going on. And you weren't to know at the time it was wrong so don't feel guilty. But don't ever be afraid to tell someone if something wrong is happening to you. Was she your natural mother or a step mum?
Step mom of course