I haven't had sex in 5 years, is that attractive to a male?

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  • I said yes, because it implies you have insecurities about intimacy and sex or that you are not a sexual person... all of which are not things men in general find attractive in a women.

    Since the day I lost my virginity I never went more than 1 year and 1 day without sex... and and that was because I did 4 x 12 month tours between Iraq and Afghanistan. Yup since the age of 16 I managed at the worst of times to get laid annually... other then my combat tours, the longest was the first 7 months immediately following my divorce. But once I got back on that horse, I never more than 30 to 40 days without sex, knock on wood! :)

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  • It's neither attractive, nor unattractive, really.

    I mean, I'm not going to like a girl any more, or less, just because she hasn't had sex in a while. It's none of my business if she's gone without, or if she just got out of a relationship in which they had sex ten times a week.

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  • I don't have an answer, but was it a choice to not have sex that long?

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Oh I like! Especially if can be like Madonna: like a Virgin! LOL!

  • It's neutral. Potentally shows you're saving yourself for the right one, but may also have really high standards or an off-putting personality.

  • It depends. If you like sex but have morals, yes. If you were married, then NO!

  • The less sex ( with other males) a female have the more attractive she is.

    https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/NatureAdoresAVirgin

  • No

    Unless.

    You've been craving sex for 5 years and all this time you just couldn't have the sex you wanted and the horniness is dripping off you.

    That's sexy.

  • yes and no because the fact you haven’t had a relationship for that long can be a red flag depending on your age

  • Don't tell him. When the time comes, just follow the dance.

  • I would say that it is not unattractive. Everyone had different ideas about sex.

  • that varies from guy to guy amd also varies on how attractive or unattractive per guy. (even sometimes the particular mood of that day/moment)

  • It doesn't matter tbh

  • Umm, why would that be attractive? 🤔

    • You tell me why

    • I don't know. But why would you even think it could be? Best case it could be considered neutral. But more likely negative.

  • Hmmm yes for me its more enjoyable

  • It can be but not necessarily.

  • I wouldn't care

  • Yes if u are truly being honest about it.
    God Bless

  • Tbh very attractive to a guy like me.. maybe I am kind of possessive guy.. So I don't want anyone to touch my girl even in the past..

  • because i find that attractive

  • It happens

  • It’s not exactly attractive because it makes us wonder why, as if maybe you’re not interested in sex

  • Yes l, because I feel like u r hungry for sex 🔥

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