I inappropriately touched my friend while we were cuddling did I ruin my friendship?

[keira]

I was at my friend's house and he offered me to stay I agreed because it was late. He lives in a very small place he only has one bed and a very small couch. I thought I will sleep on the couch but he insisted to sleep with him on the bed because the couch was very small. We had a few drinks that night so it was not hard to fall asleep. But I couldn't sleep well because I realize that he was touching my hair gently. I though he is uncomfartable because of my hair so he is trying to fix it. I want to move more away from him so he can sleep better but I touched his private part when I was trying to do that. And then he said "easy girl". I feel so embaressed. I told him I did not mean it. He keeps laughing. Is it okay?

[carenina]

Accidents can happen, especially in close quarters like sharing a bed after a night out. From what you've shared, it seems like your friend took it as an accidental touch, especially since he laughed it off. Your quick apology and his response likely helped to defuse any potential awkwardness at the moment.

It might help to have a conversation with your friend about that night, just to clear the air. Express how you felt about the situation and make sure everything is okay on his end too.

If he’s been normal and lighthearted about it, it’s a good sign that your friendship hasn’t taken a hit. Just keep being mindful of each other's space and boundaries in the future, and you should be okay!

[SomothErgai]

Is this a joke? No you did not ruin your "friendship". If anything you "solidified" it. I would say though, that what you have is not a friendship. It is yet another case of a girl friendzoning a guy who very, very obviously wants to be with you but doesn't want to pursue it because he's afraid it will scare you off and he won't get to see you at all.

If you have any feelings for this guy at all, please, for the sake of friendzoned guys the world over, act on them. he will reciprocate them. I guarantee it.

If, on the other hand, you truly do not have those kind of feelings for him you need to stop doing things like, sleeping in the same bed as him and who knows what else that is only adding fuel to the fires of desire. And make it very very clear to him that you don't want to keep giving him false hope so he can actually maybe try and find a girl who does actually want him.

And, for that matter, help him. Be his wing woman. there are very few better people to have in a guys corner trying to get get him laid than another woman singing his praises.

[Haraklus]

I don't think an involuntarily friendzoned guy would throw out an 'Easy, girl' in this scenario.

[20yearsolder]

It's fine. If he said like keep going, that would be an issue. Obviously he wasn't interested or he would have kept quiet or ask you to continue. Did you get a good feel or was it just a brush of his privates

[midnightmoon05]

are you interested in him? If yes, start dating.
if not… don’t sleep in the same bed with another adult male.

[poshspice123]

I think he wanted you to feel embarrassed. I don’t really like this guy who has hidden intentions

[Account]

Umm... Uhh...
I am sorry but the whole thing that you described is not platonic friendship.
At least not according to me.

[Jennifer604]

That's just the sort of thing that happens when hanging with close friends. He's probably just worried you were able to get an idea of how big his penis is.

[Red_Arrow]

He already told you. It is okay. But if you are going to sleep in the bed with him, you need to establish why and what the boundaries are.

[integrale77]

Ruined your friendship nah opened the relationship to a friend's with benefits possibility yes

[firenine909]

You’re overthinking it

[Dargil]

Yes, it is OK. Signaling that if it was unintentional, it was OK. But he probably liked it even if it was incidental.

[RealMarek]

Men don’t cuddle with friends. This guy is into you.

[The_Sexpert]

Since he was laughing, I'd say he took it in a light way

[andreasderjuengere]

You share a bed - and some accident makes you feel embarrassed?
Think again... :)
Nothing 'wrong' has happened.

[Mac-One]

@keira He would probably enjoyed having you do more.

[stratford]

I'm sure he likes you a lot

[stratford]

Did you notice whether he was erect when you touched him there?

[soe11]

I think he did on purpose and made planning to you stay with him.

[SolitarySolace]

How did you touch his private area while attempting to move away? Something doesn’t add up here…

[Huntingnfishin]

Your "friend" is a creep and I wouldn't be sad to loose him

[Flyergirl]

Without know him I'm guessing he was teasing you by saying "easy girl". He also sounds a immature by laughing. You didn't ruin the friendship though.

If he keeps bringing up the incident and laughing at you he's a jerk.

[Alex-Snow]

You did nothing wrong at all. I'm sure he actually liked it. Did he get a boner at all?

[DextroShade]

Men are not your friends!

[Mrtcn01]

man can not stay touching a girl when they are in the same bed. come on girl!! he wanted to make love with you. you refuse him.. :(

[deus_ex_sisyphus]

Sounds like whatever you had has moved to friends with benefits / lover category. Just friends would have slept separately either on the tiny couch or floor

[LEGENDARY4200]

No you didn't ruin anything. It'll be fine unless you want to pursue something with him